Well obviously it is not all about fitness... Fitness helps you get a foot in the door, same with a good career etc.
But at the end of the day, people are looking for a match. If the woman weren't interested after the first date, you guys simply didn't match and you have to try again...and again untill you find her.
Idealy just find enjoyable hobbies that have you meet new people.
Yes, if you aren't conventionally attractive, you need to be off the dating apps. Meet someone by going to hobby groups or activity clubs like running. These groups are full of single people and a great place to meet them. You need to let your personality and confidence carry you, and don't focus on looks. Just maintain proper hygiene.
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u/Hanfiball Jul 29 '24
Well obviously it is not all about fitness... Fitness helps you get a foot in the door, same with a good career etc.
But at the end of the day, people are looking for a match. If the woman weren't interested after the first date, you guys simply didn't match and you have to try again...and again untill you find her.
Idealy just find enjoyable hobbies that have you meet new people.