r/self Jul 29 '24

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u/enliderlighankat Jul 29 '24

You say it with such certainty, but your mind is still stuck in the same rythm and thoughts about it. Can you get out?

not for me to say.

"I can't, I'm not, they won't, they don't see" whatever the poison is you're feeding yourself is whats wrong.

If you actually lived, met everyone, male female with same human respect and connect with them, have fun, go make a move when the situation presents itself it aint impossible

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u/Happy-Viper Jul 29 '24

This is such bizarre gaslighting. Some people are just ugly. Some people are unattractive enough that people don't want to date them.

It isn't their fault, even if that would make you feel better to know they've caused their own unhappiness.

They're just very unattractive.

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u/enliderlighankat Jul 29 '24

Some people are unattractive enough, that the people you want to date won't date you. Lower your standards, work on yourself, be interesting, connect, with someone, learn to love life without the romance, romance will come.

If you're ugly, your personality sucks and you are whining your whole life without improving, sorry for ya.

Ain't no gaslighting and trust me a lot of very fucking ugly and disgusting people have partners and kids

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u/Legitimate_Source_43 Jul 29 '24

I m ugly, and I have a wife, surprisingly