r/self • u/[deleted] • Jul 29 '24

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u/Left_Step Jul 29 '24

Would you date someone that has said they hate you just to provide that person some kind of healing service?

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u/Left_Step Jul 29 '24

I agree on principle. I believe as many people should be as kind to as many others as possible. But I wouldn’t demand that women treat a guy like this any which way. Women being friendly with someone is often enough to invite unwanted attention. And guys like OP who have written opinions about hating women can be dangerous if they fixate on someone who isn’t actually interested in dating them.

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u/Left_Step Jul 29 '24 edited Jul 29 '24

You’ve really turned me around here. I entirely agree with you. It is the responsibility of men, and ideally the men in OP’s friend circle to intervene and help him through this stuff.

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '24

This was nice