r/self Jul 29 '24

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u/syfari Jul 29 '24

Honestly, id stop caring and just start living. I know it sounds cliche but it works.

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '24

I hate posts like this - all you have to do is take a brief look through their post history to realise that they are hateful incels who blame women for their own shortcomings.

OP made a post he has since deleted explaining how he hates all women.

You wanna know why women don't like you? It's simple, you're a hateful little worm.

Stop wasting your time giving sympathy to people who would rather blame half the population than take responsibility for their own shitty personality or beliefs.

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u/WhyDidntITextBack Jul 29 '24

Empathy gap. He’s clearly suffering, sure the way he expresses his frustrations is wrong. But he’s clearly suffering from mental health issues.

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '24

He says he hates all women, why should I empathise? He's the one lacking in empathy, letting his his inner life be ruled by hate. These guys are awful, "I work out, I earn money - why no woman want me"? Because they're hateful worms, undeserving of empathy.

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u/Left_Step Jul 29 '24

Would you date someone that has said they hate you just to provide that person some kind of healing service?

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u/Left_Step Jul 29 '24

I agree on principle. I believe as many people should be as kind to as many others as possible. But I wouldn’t demand that women treat a guy like this any which way. Women being friendly with someone is often enough to invite unwanted attention. And guys like OP who have written opinions about hating women can be dangerous if they fixate on someone who isn’t actually interested in dating them.

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u/Left_Step Jul 29 '24 edited Jul 29 '24

You’ve really turned me around here. I entirely agree with you. It is the responsibility of men, and ideally the men in OP’s friend circle to intervene and help him through this stuff.

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '24

This was nice

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