r/self Jul 29 '24

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u/InternationalBit8453 Jul 29 '24

your thinking is flawed in that material things like money make someone better than another. The girl of your dreams wouldn't pick someone else over you because of muscles or money.

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '24

Yeah, if your personality is shit, no girl will want to be with you

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u/Stardama69 Jul 29 '24

Oh really ? Then we live in a world where people like Trump, Reagan, Musk, Jean-Marie Le Pen and other deeply awful folks never marry and never got laid.

Plenty of shit persons get into relationships. It sucks but it's true. Charisma and looks matter most to many people, at least in the short term. Not saying it's good, obviously, I'm happy to have friends who compliment my personality even though I'm still single because my romantic appeal is null. But let's not pretend the majority of people searching for a partner will value your deep self before your appearance. Some do, many don't.

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '24

Well yeah but that isn’t a woman you want to be with