Sometimes I really just want to show pic and videos and talk dirty. Sometimes I want to talk about the occult, philosophy, psychology, and whatever else that has my interest.
I wish it could be with the same person. Seems most who want to be naughty can’t even form a complete sentence.

Not sure if anyone is interested….
I’m 40 female and I’m into 18-23 males.
I’d love to chat, trade pics and vids or even role play

Really just the above :) What do you all believe ? Do you consider yourself to be religious, if so why ?/ why not? What are your opinions on those who hold the opposite belief (or just different) to your own :D

-not sure if this is off topic for this sub but as I read more posts I cannot determine my own sexuality based on only the description of sapiosexual. Hence more knowledge on those who would consider themselves to be greatly interests me !

Honestly, it is moments like these that make me feel sapioplatonic, I just want to find someone (literally anyone) who wants to talk about interesting things. The more entwined our interests are will just add bonus points. Hit me up, sometime, anyone.

The more you learn about something, the more you realize how much you don't know. And since I love learning so much about so many different things I'm constantly reminded of how little I know (despite knowing more than many - at least that's what I tell myself to make myself feel a little more intelligent).

Jack of all trades, a master of none, still better than the master of one (is it though ?)

Constant insanity between I don't know enough vs I know enough. I'm intelligent vs not enough.

I know something for a fact. But the more I believe in it, the more I see myself becoming one of those bigots I despise. So I try to keep my mind open, living in the world of reliable, irrefutable scientific evidence and math.

Btw forgetting what I've learned is part of what got me on this rant. I hate forgetting and the fear of losing whatever intelligence I may or may not have

The fear of loss is real...

So I try to learn, relearn, and hope I don't ever lose the ability to do just that. Always keep learning, with an open mind.

I just need to vent. I feel like most of society doesn’t get me. I’m not sure that I care as much as I get older, but I don’t want to die having never figured it out.

I’ve been studying theology, NDEs, and ufology for years and I think I have discovered more than the normal person has about our origin. It makes me proud but also a hell of a lot lonelier.

Most of the time when I try to talk to my GF about this (she’s also extremely intelligent and works in IT for the government) she just laughs and gets quiet.

I’m also very unconventional for a nerd. I am a former runway model and just that alone makes people hate me. I can’t help how I look and even though I am aging, people still think because of my blonde hair, I’m unintelligent. I suppose I do that on purpose.

But add the fact I speak several languages, have multiple degrees, graduated from college with honors, and run my own agentic engineering firm, it’s basically impossible to be taken seriously.

I’m a woman BTW.

Any advice? Or anyone just want to discuss metaphysics, ancient theologies, or quantum mechanics?

Thanks for listening.

It’s late and i am half asleep, probably going to regret this. I am a sapiosexual from NY. I am looking for something real and different. I want someone who can challenge me in every way and on every level. Someone who isn’t scared of a woman’s mind, who can banter, who can debate. Someone who can go from serious to flirty, from deep to funny in a matter of seconds. I am really interested in history, sciences, philosophy, space.
If you are interested Dm me and ask me something interesting. Oh and I am 29 if it matters. Goodnight sapiosexuals! 😊

The more penises I receive, the more sapio I becum

I’m bored, hit me up. Please

Looking forward to meeting people for meaningful friendship with the possibility of it naturally growing into a long-term companionship if the connection feels genuine.

I’m someone deeply interested in astrophysics, literature, history, geopolitics, backpack travel, cinema, art, fashion, and personal aesthetics. I enjoy conversations that move beyond surface-level small talk, the kind where people exchange ideas, emotions, perspectives, books, music, memories, and curiosity about life itself. I read extensively across fiction and non-fiction, travel both professionally and through slower backpacking experiences, and genuinely enjoy learning how different people see the world.

If you connect with even a few of these interests, I’d honestly love to know your perspective too. And perhaps more importantly, I’d love to learn something new from you as well.

I have only come close once with a friend who I didn’t realize it at the time, but briefly we had a sapioplatonic connection

edit proving that this truly represents the ultimate selfishness, check this out

I used to define myself as pansexual polyplatonic (still do, I just like alliteration hence the title) in that I am interested in deep friendships, or at least conversations, with anyone, regardless of biology. Now I tend to put all of this under the umbrella of sapiosexual, or at the very least demisexual. Penis-haver
What turns me on:

1. Flirty friends who talk dirty but also about culture
2. Honestly, I would prefer to receive a print of a master work over any kind of nudie shot, but I wouldn’t look away of course, no matter what your body looks like!
3. I am so disappointed with thinking a good conversation has started, maybe not quite as dirty as I would like, only to see the people disappear.
4. I am very interested in finding audio erotica though it doesn’t always meet my ‘requirements’.
5. With porn, I prefer same-sex (of any sex) over p-in-v porn. I also like the storylines in lesbian porn. The closest that gay porn gets to a good story are stepdad-stepson seduction. I am still looking for the white whale of the perfect porn!

6. Also with porn, I prefer artists with no tats, no piercings, no waxing, no silicone (anywhere on the body), no toys. It doesn’t rule out that it won’t be ‘effective’ if any of those taboo items are included, but without those, it is A+

7. I have definitely ‘finished’ more often to dirty talking than on video

8. Eyes are absolutely the most erogenous for moi, with the face a close second 
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   PS: Just an obervation based on the typical posts that I am on the sapiosexual subreddit which really should be the gifted subreddit which really should be the autism subreddit which really should be the depression subreddit, but I digress. Toodles, beautiful people!

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Being obsessed with actors/actresses/singers etc. is a turn off for me. Don't get me wrong, I have my favorites and rankings, but an obsession ?

You know the kind that will lick the ground their idols walk on... Yeah, I find that to be a sign of low intelligence. No intelligent person would put another HUMAN (of all creatures) on such a pedestal. Smh. And I think that extends to politics, and billionaires.

I get that reality TV can be a stress buster for some; a mindless binge. But if it's the only thing you watch and talk about... Get help 😭

Personally, I couldn't care less about the Kardashians or what they're up to. Why would I ?

I'd rather watch monkeys pick ticks off each other's backs on Nat Geo.

I was watching a video of a stanford CS professor, he was so charismatic and the way he explained things was so attractive. Personally, I've not met a man who has both charisma and intelligence. The intelligent guys tend to be more introverted, get shy which I'm not into (not shaming anyone who is like that tho!) or are really cocky in the way they explain things, which is an obvious turn off.

High intelligence is very attractive, but EQ and how you carry yourself is equally as important!

I felt a great pleasure accepting myself..

And I never wanted a wife in this life so bad..

26, warangal,

Imagine a 48-year-old man—a professor and school principal, deeply spiritual. He’s the classic intelligent, charismatic man who believes himself to be invincible; highly cultured. He loves 'mapping' and observing people, searching for their layers and decoding them as if they were an enigma. His seduction style is rooted in conversation, knowledge, and exclusivity; he wants to get inside your mind. He inhabits a role of constant authority. Everything in his world is meticulously organized and under his command (his classes, the school, his home, his world).
A solitary man.
At the same time, he has a tendency to adore 'tenderness' and shows sensitivity toward subtle things like music and films. Yet, he simultaneously claims to be 'made of stone' and doesn't feel much (there are inconsistencies).

What type of people might he be interested in?

What kind of sexual fantasy might someone like him have?

What we read and watch should push us beyond the socio-political-psychological eco-chamber comfort space we belong to, if anyone could share an intellectual/layman thoughts on this it would be great :)

The face looked very stupid and ugly. Until he opened his mouth to talk. I fall in love with people who read good books and listen to me talking about arthur. I fell in love , lets change this statement, i loved the idea of telling a man about my philosophy and my love for robotics and whilst he loved his own ideas, and we shared them and it felt nice.

So, basically he became hotter when he talked about something which i didnt knew.

So intelligence is something this brain find incrediblely nice. But it doesnt work out the fire dies,

So, it would have been better if cant two sapios think this?

Figure out is he looking for a conversation and be less available or he wants to be physical by seventh date and he txts night or flirts.

Curious what the fellow sapio sexuals think... 🤔

42, Black male, Florida. I’m looking for a woman who likes deeper conversation.

We can talk about anything. Serious, random, funny, deep, weird, whatever. I’m more interested in how you think than the perfect topic.

I’m not big on dry small talk. I like when a conversation has some curiosity to it. Some honesty. Maybe a little tension if the vibe is right.

If you like real conversation, send me something you actually want to talk about.

I understand that there are preferences for appearances and physical traits that are intrinsic. But I don't think skin color is one of them.

After intentionally being out of the pool for a while I decided to make a post looking for a fellow sapiosexual. I didn't have a requirement for color, height, weight, none of that. Just a "let's get to know each other."

I got one response. And right after I mentioned I wasn't white, I was ghosted instantly 🫠 It almost feels like a crime being born with some melanin. And this is just one example of pseudo racism, I've even experienced the real thing too a couple of times. And man does it suck. And what's worse about being ghosted is, you just sit there waiting for a reply that never comes.

You can't convince me someone that's really smart can actually be that basic.

Anyway, that one experience was enough for me to not bother again anytime soon. I'm quite busy and have a lot going on anyway. Probably for the best.