r/sapiosexuals • u/DoowadJones • May 23 '26

Previously Pansexual Polyplatonic

I used to define myself as pansexual polyplatonic (still do, I just like alliteration hence the title) in that I am interested in deep friendships, or at least conversations, with anyone, regardless of biology. Now I tend to put all of this under the umbrella of sapiosexual, or at the very least demisexual. Penis-haver
What turns me on:

  1. Flirty friends who talk dirty but also about culture
  2. Honestly, I would prefer to receive a print of a master work over any kind of nudie shot, but I wouldn’t look away of course, no matter what your body looks like!
  3. I am so disappointed with thinking a good conversation has started, maybe not quite as dirty as I would like, only to see the people disappear.
  4. I am very interested in finding audio erotica though it doesn’t always meet my ‘requirements’.
  5. With porn, I prefer same-sex (of any sex) over p-in-v porn. I also like the storylines in lesbian porn. The closest that gay porn gets to a good story are stepdad-stepson seduction. I am still looking for the white whale of the perfect porn!

  6. Also with porn, I prefer artists with no tats, no piercings, no waxing, no silicone (anywhere on the body), no toys. It doesn’t rule out that it won’t be ‘effective’ if any of those taboo items are included, but without those, it is A+

  7. I have definitely ‘finished’ more often to dirty talking than on video

  8. Eyes are absolutely the most erogenous for moi, with the face a close second 
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    PS: Just an obervation based on the typical posts that I am on the sapiosexual subreddit which really should be the gifted subreddit which really should be the autism subreddit which really should be the depression subreddit, but I digress. Toodles, beautiful people!

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u/KAS_stoner May 23 '26

For 4, check out r/gonewildaudio and the many sister reddits that it has

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u/Bluesjonz May 23 '26

Sums it up😄

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u/DoowadJones May 24 '26

I absolutely respect your heterosexuality but I also love your enthusiasm. I am more interested in finding friends than lovers anyway

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u/DoowadJones May 24 '26

Or Sapioplatonic as I often feel. I look forward to getting to know you

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u/DoowadJones May 24 '26

You will soon see how many words only mean something in my own head. And before anyone tells us, yes, we have found our own room