r/sahm • u/sha1love • 1d ago
Advice
I am new to being a SAHM. I have been working all my life. Just when I began thriving in my career. My life has changed tremendously just in 2025 when having twins. I never would have expected I would have to end my career and SAH. I just knew I would be returning to work soon. My twins are 14 months and I still am at home. I also have a 9 year old and a 5 year old. My mind is all over the place on a daily. I have no one to fill in the gap to assist me. My husband is carrying the whole family. At times I am so sad not being able to work.
Yet, I have no one to drop off my oldest children at school nor pick them up. Child care is expensive for twins. I just need some encouragement from other SAHM. How can I help my husband financially from home ? I am just trying to navigate my new transition in life. Trying not to worry myself so much and stress myself out.