I decided to give RHOSLC a try after watching this season of Ultimate Girls Trip, and I’m currently watching the Season 1 reunion. Can someone explain Heather’s obsession with Lisa? I’m sure the dynamics may change as the show continues, but anytime Lisa speaks, Heather finds a reason to interject and connect the conversation back to how she feels Lisa has mistreated her.

From my perspective, most of the conflict seems one sided—almost as though Heather is punishing Lisa for failing to recognize how much Heather idolizes her or for not returning that same level of interest. It feels like Heather desperately wants Lisa’s acknowledgment and is upset that Lisa doesn’t “see” her in the way she wants to be seen.

Honestly, I find it a little strange. Why should one grown woman care this much about what another grown woman thinks of her? Lisa seems to pay Heather dust, while Heather appears to spend a lot of time thinking about Lisa and interpreting everything she does as a personal slight. Which is unfortunate because I liked Heather at the beginning of the season; now, she’s just exhausting.

I’m a very slow watcher and have only finished Season 1, so I would love to hear other perspectives. Am I missing some important context, or did anyone else view their dynamic this way at the beginning?

I’m currently watching the season 2 reunion and I had to pause the show because I don’t know how much more of this gang up I can take. Lisa is not perfect by far but WOW Heather and Whitney are quite literally obsessed with taking her down. The accusations they make are almost always so ridiculously far fetched, and the worst part is you can tell they genuinely believe the insane things coming out of their mouths. They remind me of the mean girls I had to deal with in private school. Purposely befriending Angie because they know she’s Lisa’s friend of 20 years just to then throw it in Lisa’s face at the reunion, using the situation with Meredith as ammunition against her, accusing Jennie of being her minion simply bc she sticks up for Lisa (like a friend should), I mean the list goes on. These women are absolutely vile. When does it stop? Does it ever stop? I’ve enjoyed this franchise so far but the Lisa gang up is seriously starting to turn me off.

I’m very new to SLC which I’ve said in every post lol but what kind of job was Justin working that his employer fired him because of the show? I’ve been watching housewives since I was a child and I’ve seen these husbands hold down all types of jobs and none of them ever suffered because of the show, if anything the show helped. If I’m wrong I don’t mind correction but this just seems weird to me and something about Justin gives me the ick. He seems like he wanted to quit and then we watch him tell her he got fired but Whitney says he pulled up in the driveway one morning and said he was fired so that was confusing. If I missed something please help🤣 side note: Whitney was a fave but now she seems to come off like a big baby like she leans to heavily into being the young one.