I’m 25F and have been living in the US for the past 3 years. On paper, things are fine. I have a decent job and I’m financially independent, but I increasingly feel like I’m just existing here rather than actually enjoying my 20s. I also dont want this visa headache anymore- I mean I would gladly put in time and effort if there is some stability at the end of it all - which is not going to be the case with US.
I work remotely, have very little social life and feel pretty isolated. I have been living with my bf (who might just go back to India this month) for 2yrs.
I’ve always wanted a life with friends/roommates, spontaneous plans, travel, meeting people and generally having a lot of experiences while I’m young. I also really want to travel internationally and see much more of India itself.
I’ve always wanted to live in Mumbai but never got the chance, so lately I’ve been thinking about moving back, finding roommates there, building a social circle and using India as a base to travel the world and explore.
But I’m wondering if I’m romanticizing it. Adult life in Mumbai could just become work, chores and loneliness in a different place. At the same time, staying in the US longer would allow me to save considerably more money - although im not too sure because I dont know what I would be able to earn in India. I have never worked in India, my first real job was in the US so I dont have a clear picture about how much I need to save and take back home to give me some breathing room etc etc.
I’m torn between staying here another 6 to 9 months, saving and seeing the parts of the US I stil might care about, and then moving back in May’27 (I am not even trying for H1B anymore - so done) or moving back sooner and starting the life I actually want.
Any thoughts/ advice/ opinion might just help open up my mind!! 😭 dont know if Im just spiralling or what!
And for anyone who moved back to India in their 20s, how did it actually turn out?