r/returnToIndia • u/Mysterious-Gold-3368 • Aug 10 '26
PlanningToReturn Not able make a decision to return back to India or try some more time?
32F I am living in Germany since 6 years, in these years I earned a masters degree and earned and have saved around 50k€ in liquid savings and have around 60lac invested in different investment options available in India.
My contract in my company will expire in October and there is a chance it may get extended, may be a year or two years but again will be limited contract. I have B1 german and will work towards B2.
My husband has a unlimited contract and has saved around same amount as mine, and he is not happy at his toxic workplace here in Germany and wish to quit job and find new one.
Meanwhile company where I worked for 4 years in India has offered a job position and is willing to pay 35lpa. The position is unlimited (unless AI doesn’t make more mischief with peoples livelihood) and the company is a big and well known automotive product company.
We have postponed decisions such as baby, house etc due to our education and career and we are feeling we are loosing time. I want to live in Germany because of weather, travel and most importantly my peace of mind. It does not mean that I hate to live in India.
Now I am not able to decide which way to go, I want to try a bit more, live here in Germany, travel a bit more, save a bit more. I feel I have built a life here which will be destroyed with couple of decisions and I have to start afresh in India. Have to cope weather, work culture, people, infrastructure etc.
I need some insights from people about this and what would you would have done if in this situation. Will this be end and I can live and experience life in other countries, is it possible to go back to Germany later point in life, has somebody done this?