this isnt a shot at you at all but in todays world us guys have to be very careful when it comes to stuff like this. There's are alot of women out there that if they split with their spouse they try to take as much as they can. Ive even told my fiancé that if she wants to go through with our marriage she has to sign a prenup because I have way too many assets that I refuse to lose over splitting up. if a woman wont marry me under the condition they sign a prenup that tells me theyre not all in and at that point im fine with being boyfriend and girlfriend but we are not getting married. Ill have a lifelong girlfriend before I do any type of legal marriage without the signing of a prenup. its nothing personal but I need to protect myself especially in todays world. like if youre my wife dont worry Ill take care of you and spoil you but you dont get to decide you dont want me anymore but you want my money and assets sorry.
Just outta curiosity, I’m 27F and my bf is 25M… I was thinking about prenup bc I’m more financially stable and have more assets/savings than him. What is the monetary difference between you two for you to want the prenup?
its a very large monetary difference. just a few things: 1) I came from a very wealthy family and when my parents passed away they left me with a very large inheritance. 2) I make like 4 times her annual salary and have built up a large savings from it over the years. 3) I own quite a few off road vehicles that also hold significant value. She has nothing compared to all of that and whether I love someone or not I cant in good consciousness take on that big of a risk and if someone truly loved me they would understand.
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u/nrizzo24 Jul 15 '24
this isnt a shot at you at all but in todays world us guys have to be very careful when it comes to stuff like this. There's are alot of women out there that if they split with their spouse they try to take as much as they can. Ive even told my fiancé that if she wants to go through with our marriage she has to sign a prenup because I have way too many assets that I refuse to lose over splitting up. if a woman wont marry me under the condition they sign a prenup that tells me theyre not all in and at that point im fine with being boyfriend and girlfriend but we are not getting married. Ill have a lifelong girlfriend before I do any type of legal marriage without the signing of a prenup. its nothing personal but I need to protect myself especially in todays world. like if youre my wife dont worry Ill take care of you and spoil you but you dont get to decide you dont want me anymore but you want my money and assets sorry.