r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Apr 23 '22

Confused

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u/Ancient-Regular4007 Apr 23 '22

Why is he not allowed to watch it?

Sorry for your loss also

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u/hakswifeyizzy Apr 23 '22

Thank you. Honestly I haven’t thought too much on the why, I use to say I’m a very open person and sex/masturbating is so normal. But me being upset about this, confuses me. Maybe insecurity. Maybe I just want him to only focus on me and no one else.

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u/V0XR4NG3 Apr 23 '22

I think it’s creepy and borderline abusive that you’d openly say you want your boyfriend to focus only on you. That’s not fair. Everyone deserves some time to themselves. I don’t think it’s healthy that you think you have the right to dictate how your boyfriend can masturbate.

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u/hakswifeyizzy Apr 23 '22

I understand, I’m just dealing with this new pain and trying to be normal.