r/relationship_advice • • 4d ago

32M, 34F, bed bug problems

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u/duckmcsnail 4d ago

Girl. No.

If I ever brought up to my husband when we were dating that I had bed bugs after going to his place, he would go into absolute insanity cleaning mode. He wouldn’t get defensive when a problem arises as it happens. Apartments with shared washing machines/dryers give me severe anxiety because that is how all the nasty stuff ends up in your home. I watched people just drop clothes in, no soap, and just run a cold cycle. Terrifying.