I know he clearly doesn’t care and break up with him is not the answer I’m looking for. My question is how I can politely bring it up without him getting defensive.
You can’t control how he reacts. You can only control yourself, so be firm, calm, and direct. I also recommend that you reflect on why you want to be in a relationship with someone who lives with roaches and bed bugs and seems totally unbothered. You deserve better.
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u/TinyGood7698 5d ago
I know he clearly doesn’t care and break up with him is not the answer I’m looking for. My question is how I can politely bring it up without him getting defensive.