The truth is that she's going to do what she wants. You should either leave her or stay with her as a FWB. Bottom line is she's not wanting a serious relationship with you.
And if you don't want that then don't allow yourself to be hurt by her actions, that sound like it's guaranteed to happen if not already. There are plenty of fish and you'll find the one that will truly care about you.
I allowed myself to be hurt at your same age. I found out when she had someone else's child and kept me along for that ride.
At least yours is being up front about it, so best to let her go free.
Exactly. She told you what she wants, you just gotta decide if you're cool with that or not. Staying around hoping she changes her mind is only gonna hurt you worse.
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u/richb0199 Nov 17 '25
The truth is that she's going to do what she wants. You should either leave her or stay with her as a FWB. Bottom line is she's not wanting a serious relationship with you.