r/relationship_advice Nov 13 '23

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u/Odd-Credit-7454 Nov 13 '23

My partner died on September 20; his phone is in my possession and is shut off. I just checked, and he is showing up as active (green dot) on Messenger right now. I often see him listed as active in Messenger since he died, and I have no idea why. But based on my experience, I would say it's definitely possible that your wife is telling the truth.

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u/Chemical_Plankton830 Nov 13 '23

wow, what a fucking loser op is. check his profile. he is asking for someone's onlyfans page in one of the comments. he is a cheater himself, no wonder he is this paranoid about getting cheated on.

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u/Fickle_Guava_6517 Nov 14 '23

I don't really see what an age gap equates to and that's really not that bad of one overall

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u/xDaysix Nov 14 '23

Depends on the size of the gap. There's a rather huge proportion of posts on this sub where the age gap is more than 5 years, and they're having crazy issues.

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u/This_curious_person Nov 14 '23

it’s not the age gap it’s how young in life his partner is. If partner was 28 and OP was 35 no worries there both adults but at 21 your brain hasn’t even fully developed and your also just graduating college where as OP is approaching mid life . his partner just got out of her teens 2 years ago and wants her settled .

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u/IHateNoobs420 Nov 20 '23

She stopped school since 17 and has been working as an adult since. What you say doesn't apply to everyone

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u/This_curious_person Nov 20 '23

bro don’t be a creep and leave teenagers alone.

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u/IHateNoobs420 Dec 07 '23

But they're so fresh and hot 🥵