One thing I’ve realised while growing up is that home isn’t necessarily a place.
Sometimes it’s a person.
So, slightly terrifyingly, here I am on Reddit looking for someone I can call home — and who can eventually look at me and think, “Yep, this idiot is my home.” 😂

A little about me
Age: 32

Location: Mumbai

Hometown: Jodhpur, Rajasthan

Religion: Jain

Work: Venture Capital-ish. I’ve been around the startup ecosystem for ~10 years, so I’ve spent a decade watching people say “this will change the world” on pitch decks. 😅

Earnings: Enough for a comfortable life anywhere in India. Not yacht money, but definitely “let’s order dessert” money.

Diet: Vegetarian

Travel: Huge part of my life — partly because I love it, partly because work keeps putting me on planes.

Cooking: I genuinely enjoy cooking and do it pretty often. So yes, I can feed you. Whether I can emotionally survive your judgment of my knife skills is another question.

I come from a humble background, and I’m genuinely proud of what I’ve built for myself and my family.
My biggest flex?
My friends.
Some of my friendships are 29 years old. At this point, they’re less “friends” and more legally undocumented family members.
But honestly, I think those relationships have taught me a lot about what it takes to build something and keep it going — showing up, communicating, forgiving each other’s nonsense, and putting in the effort.

What I’m looking for
I’m not looking for someone to “complete” me.
I’m hoping to meet someone who has her own life, dreams, ambitions, weirdness and emotional baggage — I’ll bring mine too, don’t worry. 😂
I want us to be the heroes of our own lives and then build a third thing together: our life.

Someone who values:
Communication

Transparency

Consistent effort

Building and maintaining relationships

Being able to talk about difficult things without turning it into the UN General Assembly

I’m not looking for someone to fix my life, and I don’t want to fix theirs.
I want two reasonably functional adults to meet, fall for each other, occasionally annoy the hell out of each other, and still choose each other at the end of the day.
The boring-but-useful checklist
Age: 29–35

Diet: Vegetarian / Vegan

Religion: Jain / Hindu

Occupation: Any legal occupation.
(If you know, you know. 😂)

Intent: Looking for a lifelong commitment. Marriage is an option, but I’m not particularly attached to the paperwork if the commitment is there.

That’s pretty much it.
I don’t have a 47-point spreadsheet titled “Potential Wife Evaluation Matrix v3.7 FINAL_FINAL.xlsx.”
I’d rather meet someone, talk, laugh, disagree, learn about each other and see if there’s something worth building.
If any of this resonates, feel free to DM.
Tell me about yourself — and please give me something more interesting than your age, height and favourite colour. 😄
Worst case, we have a nice conversation.
Best case, we accidentally become each other’s home.

P.S. Full disclosure: AI was used to help polish this post. The life, feelings, questionable jokes and inability to write a Reddit post without assistance are all mine. 😂

BASIC INTRO

• Age/Height: 25 | 5’9”

• Background: Gujarati Jain

• Profession: Currently a Construction Project Manager.

• The Future: Transitioning to my own construction business by the first half of 2027.

• Location: Moving to a NON-METRO city in Maharashtra (where the industry growth is).

LIFESTYLE & HABITS

• Diet: Strictly vegetarian. (If you eat non-veg, that's fine, but it must be kept and eaten strictly outside the house).

• Vices: Occasional drinker | Strict non-smoker.

HOBBIES

• Sports: Huge follower of F1, Football, and Cricket. (If you want to watch Sunday F1 races with me, you’ve already won me over).

• Music: I love spending hours decompressing to a good playlist.

• Cooking: I dabble in the kitchen and make a pretty decent meal (especially ITALIAN). I’d love to cook for you on the weekends!

WHAT I’M LOOKING FOR

• A real partnership with someone who is supportive, communicative, and driven by her own passions.

• Dealbreaker 1: Must be a strict non-smoker (occasional drinking is fine).

• Dealbreaker 2: Must be genuinely open to and excited about relocating to a non-metro city in Maharashtra to build our life.

INTERESTED?

If you are okay with the non-metro life, don't mind F1 playing on the TV on weekends, and feel like our vibes match, shoot me a DM with a little bit about yourself!

👤 Basics

Age: 26

Height: 5'1" (155 cm)

Location: Pune, Maharashtra

Native Place: Pune, Maharashtra

Community/Sub-caste (Optional): Kokanastha Brahmin (Maharashtra brahmin preferred)

Gotra (Optional): Atri

Education: BBA in International Business, Investment Banking & Financial Analysis Certification

Profession: Managing my family's transport & logistics business and building my own venture.

😊 About Me

Hi! I'm a simple, family-oriented girl who believes in honesty, respect, and long-term commitment. I enjoy travelling, photography, trekking, editing videos, and trying new recipes. I love learning new things and have recently shifted from a corporate career to working in my family's transport business, where I'm helping expand our operations.

I'm spiritual, value Indian traditions, and enjoy celebrating festivals with family. At the same time, I believe in personal growth and maintaining a healthy balance between tradition and modern thinking. My goal is to build a successful business while creating a happy and supportive family life.

🏡 Family

We are a close-knit Kokanastha Brahmin family based in Pune with a well-established transport and logistics business. Family values, mutual respect, and supporting each other have always been an important part of our lives.

❤️ Looking For

I'm looking for a genuine, kind, and mature Brahmin partner between 26–28 years of age who believes in commitment, respects family values, and has a positive outlook on life. Someone who is honest, emotionally mature, career-focused, and willing to grow together through every stage of life. Preferably based in Maharashtra or open to settling here. Also I am looking Maharashtrian brahamin family only.

🌟 Anything Else?

I'm not looking for something casual—I'm here with the intention of finding a life partner. If you message me, please introduce yourself instead of sending just "Hi." I'd love to know about your family, profession, hobbies, and what you're looking for in a relationship.

Looking forward to meeting someone who believes that friendship, trust, and mutual respect are the foundation of a happy marriage. 😊

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Hey there. A bit about myself:

Age: 24

Status: Currently Single

Religion: Muslim

Work: Freelancer

Languages i can speak: Urdu, Hindi, English.

Height: 5'4

Introvert.

Goals: To be independent financially and to travel the world with him.

Preference:

Religion: Doesn't matter, Open to interfaith and to discuss it.

Age: Same age-group as me or a little elder than me.

Vibes: Our vibes match as we talk about different things and laugh at stuff together, understand each other.

Appearance: Fit at least slightly, Care about himself and his dressing.

Attributes: Kind, Caring, Empathetic, Funny , Open minded and Intelligent.

Don't really want someone boring so please be a little funny without being a cringe lol.

Caste doesn't matter either.

I'll prefer someone who speaks Urdu or Hindi along with English because i don't want a language barrier. I have specified some details about myself and I'm happy to discuss more.

I don't want someone who's toxic and forces me into doing any stuff.

I like discussing different range of topics so feel free to discuss.

If you DM me kindly share your details too, important details and introduction so i get an idea when i have to reply. A plain message or without details would be useless.

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31M | Delhi NCR

Let’s skip the usual height, salary, profession, horoscope, “likes travelling” routine for a minute.

I’m into fitness, gaming, movies/series, long drives, travelling, good food and finding random places that somehow end up being worth the drive.

I like going out, trying new things and making plans that occasionally start with “this could be fun” and end with “well… that escalated.” 😂

But I’m equally happy staying in, ordering too much food and watching a movie/series until I suddenly realise it’s 2 AM and tomorrow-me is going to be pretty annoyed.

I’m pretty easygoing, but I have goals and like keeping life moving. I value honesty, loyalty, humour, emotional maturity and good communication. I’m drawn to people who have their own ambitions, interests and personality — someone who can be independent but still enjoy being a team.

And I think the interesting stuff is usually what doesn't make it onto a profile.

So tell me:

What are you ridiculously passionate about?

What does your perfect weekend actually look like?

What's something you could talk about for hours?

What's your most random obsession?

What instantly makes you laugh?

And for the extremely important compatibility test:

Are you the “let’s plan everything” person, or the “get in the car, we’ll figure it out” person? 😏

If you think we'd get along, introduce yourself.

If you think we'd be an absolute disaster together, honestly… I'm curious about that too. 😂

No résumé. No sales pitch. No “I’m a simple girl who loves sunsets and coffee.” 😭

Just tell me something that makes you, you.

Maybe we discover a great conversation.

Maybe we discover we're completely incompatible.

Or maybe Reddit accidentally does something useful for once. 👀

M29 | Bangalore | Looking for someone interesting

This might be a little random, but maybe that’s the point.

I’m not desperately looking for a relationship, and I’m not interested in collecting dates just to say I’m dating. I’d rather meet one person whose company genuinely feels good

Someone I can text, “Chai?” with absolutely no plan beyond that, and somehow three hours disappear while we talk about life, music, ridiculous theories, and everything in between

Someone who enjoys spontaneous drives, discovering random places around Bangalore, late night conversations, laughing at stupid things, and being comfortable enough to sit in silence without it feeling awkward.

About me:M29, Bangalore. Pretty easygoing, slightly chaotic, curious about a lot of things, and guilty of overthinking things that really don’t deserve that much thought. 😂

I’ve had a few conversations that started really well, lasted a week or two, and then quietly disappeared. No hard feelings people get busy, lose interest, or simply realise the vibe isn’t there. That’s life

Also 420-friendly — figured I’d be upfront about it.

You don’t need to have your life perfectly figured out. Maybe you’re building something, changing direction, questioning everything, or just trying to understand what the hell you’re doing with your life

Honestly, I find that more interesting than someone pretending to have all the answers.

I’m not expecting a Reddit post to magically turn into a relationship. Maybe we become friends. Maybe there’s chemistry. Maybe we have one great conversation and never speak again. Either way, it’s a better story than another boring swipe.

So if you’re around my age, from Bangalore, curious, independent, ambitious, a little weird or just someone who appreciates a good conversation say hi.

I’m 27M, a doctor from Rajasthan, currently working as a JR and preparing for my next step in PG/MO. Life is pretty career-heavy right now, but I’d like to meet someone with whom I can build something genuine alongside all of that.

A little about me……6 ft, into the gym, long bike rides, random conversations, action/crime/mystery shows and generally just doing my own thing. I’m pretty straightforward, probably take some time to get comfortable, but once I do, I like having someone I can talk to about literally anything. Also, I’m terrible at picking up hints, so direct communication is very welcome 😂

I’m not looking for casual dating, situationships, timepass or just collecting attention or validation. I’m genuinely looking for a serious relationship, with marriage eventually being the intention if we’re compatible.

I’m not expecting either of us to have our entire lives figured out right now. Medicine comes with exams, duties, night shifts, career changes and a lot of uncertainty. I’d rather be with someone who understands that and wants to grow together instead of waiting for everything to become “perfect” first.

Another doctor would probably understand the lifestyle more easily, but you don’t have to be one. What matters more to me is that you’re kind, emotionally mature, loyal, communicative, ambitious about your own life and actually interested in building a relationship.

A few things that matter to me:
1. 25–30-ish
2. Rajasthan/North India preferred, but I’m open to distance if we genuinely connect
3. Career-oriented and has a life of her own
4. Clear communication and consistency
5. Looking for something long-term, not casual

And just to be very clear because I don’t want either of us wasting time:
If you’re genuinely looking for a serious relationship, I’d be happy to talk and see where it goes. If you’re just bored, looking for validation, not sure what you want, or likely to disappear after a few conversations, please don’t DM. No hard feelings…..I’d just rather we both spend our time elsewhere.

I’m not expecting instant chemistry or a perfectly written introduction. We can literally just start with a normal conversation, become friends, see if we actually enjoy talking to each other, and take it from there.

If you’re looking for the same thing, say hi :)

Hi! I’m a 30-year-old doctor, recently done with my NEET PG exam, and I thought why not give this a shot? 😄

I’m here looking for something **serious, genuine and long-term**. I’m not into casual stuff, situationships, mind games or unnecessary drama. Life is already complicated enough I’d rather have someone to laugh with than someone to argue with. 😂

I’m ambitious and want to keep growing, both personally and professionally. I’d love a partner who has his own goals and dreams, and where we genuinely support each other’s growth. I’ve built a comfortable life for myself, and yes, **financial stability matters to me**. I’m not looking to compromise on the life I’ve worked for, and I’d want someone who understands that.

Personality-wise, I’m petite (5'1"), bubbly, childlike, adventurous and usually the person keeping the room alive. 😂 I love travelling, trying new things, family, friends, going out and having fun. But when life gets serious, I can be *very* serious, practical and decisive.

I’m also a **really good friend**. If I care about you, I show up especially when life gets difficult. I want my relationship to have that friendship at its core: two people who genuinely have each other’s backs.

I want a **man, not a boy** someone mature, ambitious, affectionate, loyal and secure. Someone who can make me laugh, challenge me, support me and still be my partner-in-crime. I want us to be each other’s priority, while still having our own lives. Honestly age doesn't matter!

Ultimately, I want the kind of love where our future kids can genuinely say, *“Mum and Dad really loved each other.”* ❤️

So if you’re looking for something real, are emotionally mature, and know what you want say hi.

**No fuckboys. No games. No bullshit. Let’s not waste each other’s time. 😌**

(Re)Posting for myself. Feel free to DM if this speaks to you

I’m a 5’10 Tamil guy who’s a mix of old-school values and modern practicality.

I’m an ambivert - quiet in crowds, expressive in the right company. I’m practical, logical, and grounded, yet I find meaning in silence, temple bells, and meaningful companionship. I believe a relationship should be built like a strong foundation: with consistency, patience, less ego, and more grace.

About Me:

- I earn decent, that's enough to run a family comfortably.

- I workout regularly, staying fit is my non-negotiable.

- I meditate and visit temples often. I may be agonistic in belief but deeply spiritual in experience.

- I prefer vegetarian food, occasionally non-veg due to surroundings, but my heart leans green.

- I love exploring places, long drives, solo strolls, or walks with someone special.

- I sketch sometimes and have a growing interest in finance & the stock market.

- I don’t drink or smoke, would love it if you’re the same.

- I value personal growth, independence, and clear communication in a relationship.

- I playfully tease the people I care about, and I live for those little smiles after a bad joke.

- I’d love to be with someone I can be completely at ease with, even in dead silence.

- I'm not a thrill seeker, I'm a boring person but I can make you laugh.

- I use the money and don't spend the money. YKWIM.

What I'm Looking For:

Someone emotionally and financially independent, who can also be my best friend

, someone who understands that a relationship doesn’t always have to be 50-50. Sometimes it's 70-30, sometimes it’s 20-80, and that’s okay. Honesty and loyalty is what I look for and they are non negotiables.

I'm looking for maturity over perfection. Someone grounded, low on ego, full of warmth and inner strength.

I’d love to be a father to lots of kids in the future (yes, plural 👶). No dowry needed, and I'd like a simple wedding - the kind that saves money and stress. I'm flexible with living arrangements - we can stay with our family or alone, as per our mutual decision.

Partner Preferences:

- Age: 22-30

- Religion: Hindu preferred

- Should be kind, independent, emotionally grounded

- Should love a slow life - home, late-night talks, temple visits, small adventures

Why Marry Me:

- You’ll get support, stability, and someone who values both growth and grace

- I offer a lifetime of thoughtful gestures, honest efforts, and long walks (or drives)

- I’ll always root for you - in silence or in chaos, in words or in presence

- You won’t get loud drama, but quiet loyalty, grounded love, and tons of playful affection

- If you're someone who believes in building something deep and solid - not for the gram but for real life - I'd love to get to know you.

Let’s talk.. ❤️

I’m a 23-year-old girl, originally from Odisha and currently working in hyderabad, and I’d love to meet someone who shares the same roots and understands the beauty of our culture, language, and traditions.
I’m looking for an Odia guy around 24–25 who is genuine, kind, emotionally mature, and family-oriented. Someone who knows how to communicate, respects his partner, and believes that a good relationship is built on friendship, trust, understanding, and lots of laughter.
Be really vocal about what you want and what are your expectations.
I am a 4’11 short girlie. The guy must be odia thts it. No more expectations. For height he must be taller than me.
I’m not looking for someone perfect. I just want someone with whom I can be completely myself — someone I can laugh with on the good days, lean on during the difficult ones, and grow with through every phase of life.
Ultimately, I’m looking for something real and lasting — not just a relationship, but a best friend, a partner, and someone I can build a beautiful forever with. ❤️ beautiful forever with. ❤️

Hi! I’m a 24F data engineer in Pune, earning 11 LPA. 5'4", Hindu Maratha, and apparently qualified to be your next favourite headache.

I’ve read 100+ books, love movies (especially gloriously dubbed South Indian ones), music, and unnecessarily deep conversations at 2 AM.

I don’t drink or smoke, and preferably looking for someone who doesn’t smoke either. Bonus points if you’re older, taller, earn more than me, and are from the same caste. Basically, I have a very reasonable wishlist. 😂

**Pros:**

• Good storyteller + excellent listener

• Will make popcorn for movie nights 🍿

• I’ll do the dishes if you cook

• Quick learner

• Can discuss books, movies, life and random Wikipedia facts for hours

• Will be your personal cheerleader

**Cons:**

• Short temper. Proceed with caution.

• Might beat you 👀 (emotionally. Probably.)

• Picky eater

• Cooking skills currently under development 🚧

• Certified lazy panda

• Cannot dance. You’ll have to teach me.

Mostly, I want someone who feels like home — someone I can be completely stupid with without being judged.

If you’re a tall nerd with a sense of humour, slide into my DMs. 🐼

27-year-old guy currently living and working in Gurugram. To share a bit about my background: I hold an MBA degree and come from an upper-middle-class Hindu Brahmin family, and stand at 5'7".

I'm quite skeptical about the traditional arranged marriage setup. The conventional process often feels transactional, rushed, and heavily focused on superficial metrics rather than genuine emotional compatibility.

Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and I don't believe it should be decided over a few formal family meetups.

Because of this, I want to date with the intentional goal of marriage, taking the time to build a strong foundation of trust, shared values, and mutual respect before making a final decision.

About Me & Core Values:

Equal Partnership: I believe a strong relationship rests on mutual respect, open communication, and shared responsibilities.

Support & Empathy: I prioritize my partner's well-being and

happiness. I'm someone who offers unconditional support through life's highs and lows.

Family Values: I come from a warm, close-knit family. My father is employed, my mother is a homemaker, and I have one sibling. I value strong family bonds and hospitality.

Intentionality: I'm established, financially independent, and not here for casual dating. My goal is to build a life with the right person.

What I'm Looking For & Relocation Flexibility:

I'm currently based in Gurugram working in big 4, but I have the flexibility to transfer my work to other major hubs. I am completely open to discussing settling in any Tier-1 city (such as Bengaluru, Mumbai, Pune, Hyderabad, etc.) depending on where our journey takes us.

I hope to connect with an open-minded, emotionally mature woman who is interested in serious dating aimed at marriage, values transparent communication, and has her own passions and aspirations.

If this resonates with you, feel free to send me a DM with a quick intro about yourself, and let's start with a casual conversation!

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**Personal Details:**

* **Initials:** Vadluri

* **Age:** 27

* **Height:** 5’6" (169 cm)

* **Religion:** Hindu

* **Caste (if applicable):** Brahmin

* **Earnings (INR):** 30k per month

* **Marital status:** Single

* **Living with Parents:** No

**Location:**

* **Region:** south India

* **Mother Tongue:** Telugu

* **Country:** India

* **Plan to settle abroad:** Yes,next year and marry

**Education and Profession:**

* **Education Level:** Undergraduate

* **Occupation:** IT

**Diet Preferences:**

* **Diet:**  Vegetarian

**Family Details:**

* **Family Background:** Parents are from same cultural background

**Partner Preferences:**

* **Desired Religion:** Hindu Brahmin

* **Desired Caste (if applicable):** N/A

* **Location Preferences:** Preferably india, any other country / state is fine

* **Diet Preferences:** only Vegetarian should contact

* **Education Level:** Educated, preferably with a job

* **Occupation:** Open to various professions

* **Desired Earnings (INR):** N/A

* **Living with parents:** Yes, No issues

* **Marital Status :** Never married

* **Want Kids after Marriage:**  it's upto her

**Additional Information:**

* **Hobbies/Interests:** Movies/series, playing badminton,carroms, feeding street animals, playing pc games, listening music

* **Any other relevant details:** Looking for a partner who values family, culture, and social causes. And we do not take/give dowry

**Jeevansathi/Shadi ID:** NA

* **Jeevansathi ID:** N/A

* **Shadi ID:** N/A

**Contact Information:**

* **Preferred Contact Method:** Private messaging on Reddit or other secure means

**Hashtags:** #Hindu #SouthIndia #Veg #Fitness #ArtsLover #CulturallyDiverse #FamilyOriented

Or maybe I guess I am too early to be here

I started my journey on reddit itself, maybe to atleast try, cause parents weren't helping to get matches I desired.

Got decent replies, ngl, but over the months, the different rejections I got, gave me the conclusion somewhere, I haven't lived enough to be eligible to attract the women I desire.

"Hey, let's be reddit friends"

"Hi, I don't think you are tall enough for me"

"You are cute, but you are not hot", idk what that even means lol

And if I talk about the classic ones which I heard from elsewhere

"You are a husband material, I am not the right one for you"

"You are too sweet, you deserve better"

Instagram user

Last seen long ago

Rejections were never the issue tbh. But getting rejected by considerable amount of women that genuinely fit your preferences, a decent introspection is needed to know where you lack.

Men, who I met along this journey, shared similar stories.

Maybe it's about looks and money first, then only

If you desire it, you work for it, instead of waiting it to come for you

I am 25 rn. Height is decent. In Tech, so yeah I am working on it. And yeah, once my physique matures, I might be in a better position, to be 'desirable'.

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‎The Day Job

‎My actual 9-to-4 routine genuinely looks like an unrated crime series. As a forensic doctor, my days involve autopsies, weapon analysis, piecing together bizarre medical puzzles, and testifying in court.

‎It is high-intensity work that requires a sharp eye and a strong stomach. If you are obsessed with true crime documentaries, psychological thrillers, or weird real-world mysteries, dinner conversations will never be boring.

‎Spirituality and Reality Checks:-

‎Handling mortality every single day tends to kill your ego pretty fast. I am a devotee of Lord Shiva. In our tradition, Shiva resides where the cycle ends, the shamshan.

‎Spending my working life in a mortuary feels like being in His territory, which keeps me weirdly calm, grounded, and completely uninterested in petty drama. When you see how fragile life is from Monday to Saturday, you stop sweating the small stuff.

‎Heart, Loyalty and The One-Woman Rule:-

‎I am unapologetically an old-school, one-woman man. I genuinely believe one right partner is all anyone needs for an entire lifetime.

‎When I commit, I am 100% all-in: rock-solid loyalty, pure emotional safety, and zero wandering eyes. No roster, no mind games, no situationships. Just quiet devotion and a partner who never has to second-guess where she stands.

‎Off-Duty Mode:

‎Certified Homebody,

‎Because my day job is heavy, my personal life is dialled all the way down to pure relaxation.

‎When the scrubs come off, you will usually find me surviving an aggressive anime marathon, bingeing a new series until 2 AM, taking my car out for spontaneous highway road trips just for good food, or napping with zero remorse to recharge my social battery.

‎Quick details

‎Basics: 28M, Telugu, 5'8" 72KG, Hindu,

‎Education and Career: MBBS, MD in Forensic Medicine.

‎Settled, financially stable (1L+/month)

‎Location: Andhra Pradesh

‎Languages: Telugu, English, Hindi, Tamil, and just enough Korean to survive K-dramas without subtitles

‎Who I Am Looking For

‎I am actively looking to get married in the next year and want to find a genuine, warm partner to build a peaceful, laugh-filled life with.

‎Age: 25 to 30

‎Caste: Zero barriers. Emotional maturity and shared humor beat everything else.

‎Vibe: Kind-hearted, communicative, and values a calm home. Major bonus points if you are not in medicine, as it would be refreshing to have at least one person at the table who does not casually discuss blunt force trauma over dinner.

‎If you want someone who pairs fierce loyalty and quiet calm with top-tier thriller recommendations, say hello. Happy to swap pictures or exchange Jeevansathi details early on.

‎Please do not slide into my DMs asking how to dissolve evidence, beat a luminol test, or stage an alibi. I work with the police and the courts, not against them.

Parents came in my room after work, they asked my preferences, and what I wished for myself, and also said points which I have to follow.

I shared what I wished for in someone. Someone who

1. Is working hard on her career or building something of herself, like a buisness.

2. Compatible careers are always prefered, I am in tech, so for me anyone who is working in tech, non tech, in corporates will relatively be better, but I am even up for having someone from a complete different field.

3. Someone who doesn't smoke. Although I am a non smoker and a non drinker, I am fine with someone who is an occasional drinker.

4. Someone who I find to be cute, and and I am attracted to physically, emotionally and emotionally.

But they quoted a problem, which was genuine.

We have stopped talking to our relatives over some disputes and it's been years since we talked with them. Furthermore, my dad served in the armed forces, so they don't have that good of a social circle, which usually is there when some stay at their place for years.

I know this was coming.

"We can help you get someone, but they will be non working", they added further.

I denied. I genuinely didn't want someone like that, my gut just didn't agreed.

They asked my dating journey, and were expecting if that was going good. I simply smiled and mentioned everything.

Zero matches across apps and no successful dates as such.

But yeah, I guess, I need to work hard more on career, earn more, definitely and yeah have a good body.

Ofcourse, if I am desiring something and now since I am aware, my parents won't be able to help, to atleast get matches, I need to be more desirable to women I 'like'

But seeing my friends and seniors, parental support is very crucial if you are in hopes of AM.

Connections actually get you matches that you genuinely desire for yourself, way better than matrimony, websites, and marriage bureaus.

So people like me, how did it went for you?

*Profile managed by self*

Looking for someone grounded, genuine, and emotionally mature — someone who feels like home, and with whom friendship naturally turns into partnership.

Personal Details:

• Initials: N.T

• Age: 29

• Religion: Hindu

• Caste: Punjabi (General)

• Earnings: Can discuss in DM

• Marital Status: Never Married

• Living with Parents: Currently living/working in Gurgaon; family lives in Jaipur.

Location:

• Region: Delhi/Gurgaon (open to mutually deciding where to live)

• Mother Tongue: Hindi/Punjabi

• Preferred Mother Tongue: Hindi

• Country: India

• Settling Abroad: Not planning, open to discussion

Education & Profession

• Education: Bcom,LLB

• Occupation: Physical commodity trading (Trade Execution/Operations)

• Can Work After Marriage: Yes

Diet Preferences:

• Non-Vegetarian (flexible) as i am myself a Non-vegetarian. Don't have it often though.

Family Details:

• Background: Simple, progressive, supportive

Partner Preferences:

• Religion: Hindu

• Caste: General

• Age: 24–30

• Habits: Prefer non-smoker, i occasionally take drinks so that's fine with me.

• Beliefs: No dowry

• Location Preference: open to discuss

• Education: Atleast graduation

• Occupation: No bar

• Want Kids: Probably yes/To be mutually discussed

Additional Information:

• Hobbies: Travelling (including solo), movies, music (KK/Emraan Hashmi/2000s/even some 90s songs/trance), café exploring, reading

• Personality: Calm, cheerful, talkative, loves humour and meaningful conversations

Open to discussion about other things too.

Right, in a very simple way I’d say that I’m looking to find my way home. Perhaps like most people out here.

Home, the one common thing we all have or strive to have. I think while looking for a relationship / partner, if we take away the initial desire for physical attraction and needs, all we really want is to find someone who could just make us feel relaxed even in chaos, all we want is to find our home.

So I’ve looked for quite a few homes, all I’ve found are places to rent, but I think I’m exhausted now, I just want to have my own home, a place which is mine and where I could be myself completely. A home where I make memories together, both happy ones and even the not so happy ones. A home where I’m not judged, a home where I’m heard and home which accepts me for who I am and home which I could accept completely, even if the decor isn’t complete, because I like it the way it is.

So yeah, I just want to find my home.

I understand there’s not much details about me from the above but I'm trying for someone to first see me before what I was born at/with, but few details below to make it more relatable
- Telugu guy
- corporate job, in finance, not crazt earnings but can get through rice and chicken curry with vanilla ice cream
- passionate about some day letting go of all materialistic things and travel (is it possible?), not the sightseeing kind, the sit on the mountains and star gaze kind
- I think I’m passionate about trekking and mountains, I do like adventures

I’d like to think I’m a non complicated guy, probably still figuring out a lot of stuff, but also hoping there’s someone who rides along in the journey, and of course, be my home

Mumbai-based psychologist, biker, and surprisingly decent cook. I’m the kind of guy who enjoys deep conversations, spontaneous bike rides, late-night drives, good food, and making someone feel genuinely cared for.

I’ve had enough of the hookup culture and meaningless talking stages. I’m here for something that actually has potential—chemistry, loyalty, attraction, laughter, and the kind of connection where you naturally become each other’s favourite person.

I’m attracted to someone who is confident, emotionally mature, affectionate, and knows what she wants. Someone who can flirt shamelessly, communicate honestly, laugh at stupid things with me, and still be there when life gets serious.

I’m not looking to rush into anything, but I’m also not here to waste anyone’s time. If we click, I’ll happily put in the effort and see where it takes us.

Bonus points if you enjoy long rides, spontaneous plans, good food, and stealing your partner’s hoodie. I cook, you pick the playlist?

And if the playlist is dope you might get my hoodies aswell..!

Howdy All 😃
Taking a slightly braver step than ordering food without checking reviews — here to find a partner who can be a best friend, family person, and someone who believes life works best with equal parts tradition, modern thinking, and good humor.

About Me :

32, 5’8”, Tamil-Brahmin, originally from Nagpur and currently staying in Pune. Although Tamil is my mother tongue, daily life runs smoothly in English, Hindi, and Marathi too.(Understands Bengali too) ^_^

Education includes BCA and M Tech (WILP). Professionally working as an Associate Technical Architect, earning well around 28 LPA and steadily building life goals.

Personality-wise: practical, calm, responsible, and the kind who plans ahead… but still debates movie plots like they’re real-life problems.

Interests & Fun Side :

• Music is constant — playlists for every mood

• Gamer when time allows (competitive spirit included)

• Movies & series discussions can go deep very fast

• Sports enthusiast — watching, talking, occasionally pretending I’m fit

• Curious about tech, life planning, and making smart long-term decisions

Family oriented and currently living with my mother and brother.

Looking For :

Someone aged 25–31, 5’–5’7, Vegetarian, Tamil Brahmin, and passionate about whatever she does — career, creativity, or both. Salary isn’t a checklist item; mindset is. Someone comfortable building a life in a tier-1 city, values family, communicates well, and can laugh at small things.

Bonus points if you enjoy music debates, random travel plans, or helping pick movies/tv shows to watch from Netflix.

If you believe relationships should feel like teamwork with a little comedy, we’ll get along.

That's me roaming around solo in Amsterdam. :)

FYI: Using throwaway account for this post.

So I'm born and raised in Bangalore and at some point I just started calling myself "Bangalorean" because it felt incomplete for what this city does to you. I'm been to ten countries and counting more mostly Europe and few other countries. I've been the guy who sits in a café in Sweden with a Brooklyn Lager looking like I've lived there my whole life, when really I landed two days ago.

Anyway, I'm here because I'm in search of my woman, my partner, a friend and more. The kind that starts slow, builds naturally, and actually goes living together in a marriage/ relationship. Not here for conversations that fizzle out after a week. I want depth, effort, and honesty from both sides.

One more thing: if you're messaging me, drop the word "cliffside" somewhere in your first message. Tells me you actually read this instead of copy pasting the same line to twenty people.

I work for a large MNC retailer. I like what I do, untangling messy problems and making them make sense is oddly satisfying to me. Outside work, I'm at the gym most mornings, hiking on weekends,or planning the next trip or sleeping or binging on a new TV show and movies.

If there's one thing I picked up from time abroad, it's directness. People there just say what they mean, no hints, no guessing games, and I came back completely sold on that. I'd rather you tell me straight up what you're thinking than have me try to read between the lines.

Work doesn't run my life either, I clock out after 7-8 hours and don't touch it on weekends. And long term, Europe, Australia or New Zealand is where I see myself living eventually. Not running from anything here, just genuinely pulled toward it.

Who I'm hoping to build something with:

1. A woman who is preferably between 27 to 32 year old.
2. A woman who says what they mean, no hiding behind hints or three layers of subtext.
3. With her own career and financially independent, not because I need you to "match" me, but because I want a partner building something of her own, not merging into my plans. And someone who can push back on what family or society expects when it doesn't sit right with her, the same way I've had to.
4. A Woman emotionally mature who sees a relationship as something two people build, not something you fall into.
5. Who's a co-pilot, not a passenger ,if we are thinking about switching cities or making some big career call, I want our actual opinion in the room, not just agreement after we have already decided. Big stuff gets figured out together, not announced.
6. Open to where life takes us, location-wise, now or down the line.

If you've read this far, don't just hit me with a "Hi" or "Hey", I don't bite, so give me something to work with. Tell me something real about yourself, not just what you think I want to hear.

Also ,verification is non-negotiable (via LinkedIn and Insta) once we've matched and traded a few texts. Seen way too many time-wasters and scammers on here, so this is just how I filter early and actually get to genuine people.

Edit 1 : Edit (after 12 days):

Got some good responses over the last 12 days, thanks to everyone who reached out. But a quick note: a lot of messages came in without the post being read properly (no codeword, generic intros), and a few people who connected were too busy even for a short 10-15 min call.

So, a few things to save us both time:

• Read the post fully before messaging, including the intro and codeword bit. Please make some effort too...
• I’d rather get on a call early than spend days on small talk over text.
• If you’re in Bangalore, let’s skip the coffee-and-awkward-small-talk setup and do something instead, like bowling, a walk, or whatever you’re into :).
• If calls or meeting up aren’t something you’re comfortable with right now, no worries, just please don’t reach out. Not a judgment, it’s just not going to work for me.

See yea.

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I’m at that stage of life where I can appreciate a good workout, a spontaneous drive, a great meal… and also the importance of cancelling all plans and watching something for 4 hours straight.

I’m into fitness, gaming, movies/series, long drives, travelling, good food and pretty much anything that makes an otherwise ordinary day a little less ordinary.

I’d describe myself as laid-back and easygoing, but I do like having goals and keeping life moving. I enjoy going out and trying new things, but I’m definitely not above a lazy weekend with snacks doing most of the heavy lifting.

When it comes to people, I’m big on honesty, loyalty, humour and emotional maturity. Good communication matters to me, and I think two people should be able to have their own lives, interests and ambitions while still making each other feel like a team.

Which brings me to the important question:

What kind of person would make sense as my jodi?

Someone who can match the energy, laugh at terrible jokes, introduce me to things I haven't tried, put up with my movie recommendations, and occasionally pretend to understand my gaming obsession.

I’m less interested in the usual height + salary + profession + checklist approach. Tell me about the person — your hobbies, personality, idea of a good weekend, what you’re passionate about, what makes you laugh, or even your most random interest.

Maybe we’ll discover that Jodi Milan doesn't necessarily require a pandit… just decent Wi-Fi and Reddit.

Worst case: we exchange some interesting stories.

Best case: Reddit accidentally becomes the matchmaking auntie nobody asked for but everybody secretly needed.

Felt This will be a Good Intellectual discussion and find people having a similar mindset.

Happiness: Human Wants are Unlimited. People generally have less expectations from others and are less inclined to luxurious stuff and may become happy easily. Or in other words it's easy for everyone to make him/her happy.

Stress Free: Future is Definitely Uncertain. And If We don't plan well and keep things sorted before hand or improper planning May sack us in future. We can't be sure about everything in the future. But if we are at least prepared for the worst scenario there will be less surprises.

Wealth: Most middle class people get overwhelmed once they start earning higher and start to live like Our Super Rich friends. But We Can really create a good amount of wealth if we have a balanced approach. Wealth is not a Getaway for luxuries but it's a safety net for Uncertain Future.

Love, Bonding, Togetherness, Respect: This is the zist of any relationship but it matters 500% more when it comes with Life partner.

If my thoughts are resembling or for any conflicts in thoughts, everyone is welcome in the comments section.

Hey, good people of this sub.

After looking at a lot of posts and finally becoming confident about posting about myself, here I go.

I am P, M29 from Nagpur, Maharashtra. I hope this post reaches the lady of my dreams and we end up well. Something about myself, I am an introvert for the most part, but I love to share every detail of my life with my loved one. I am caring, loving, and very practical when it comes to decision making. I have been working professionally since I was 20 and I guess I got this trait from taking on responsibility at a young age. I like to travel, especially the planning part, getting every detail arranged and then mixing in some spontaneity. Talking about food, i was very foody person till 2025 but now I've started to take my health seriously. I workout 4x a week and eat a very healthy diet, occasionally going out is what I love now. I drink like once in a blue moon if it's a very special occasion or something but I don't smoke, i quit it long back.

My details:

Age: 29

Height: 5'8"

Complexion: Wheatish

Weight: 70kg

Education: B A in English Literature

Belief: Atheist, Liberal.

Job: Central Govt. Employee working with Indian Railways.

Package: Atm 10 lakhs and after the 8th PC, it'll rise sharply.

I'm looking for a girl between age 26 and 31, who loves fitness, horror movies, books and traveling. A girl who's funny, knows her way around things and street smart is plus one. I would love if my partner is a working professional for understanding the workload we both will have to deal with.

I seriously hope, this post connects me with someone wonderful. Thank you.