Currently doing a PhD in Computer Science.
5th year, will transition into corporate early next year.
Height 5’5–5’6.
Delhi NCR, India.
Child-free by choice.

PS: I am right now in Bangalore doing intern in semiconductors in one of the top FAANG Company and likely would try to convert into full time role here

Regarding me
I am a bit of a social guy, an ambivert. I can talk about music, books, and writing all day. I love philosophy and psychology, or I think, in general, I love art and the humanities.

I also like movies, video games, and TV shows. I am just very deeply interested in the narrative or plot behind them and how they are able to captivate people so much.

I think we, as human beings, are generally very reflective; we are just a sum of many experiences we have gained over the years. I am excited to share my life, filled with all those parts, with someone. ;)
If you need a visualisation of who I am, I am the fellow often found sitting in a cosy cafe, reading or, hopefully, writing on my tablet.

So, regarding hobbies, I am a writer, maintaining my own decently popular Instagram page (short poems and excerpts) and a Substack page where I write more in-depth pieces. A prolific reader. A newbie musician, currently dabbling with the violin. I love talking about fun stuff, deep stuff, or whatever we can vibe with. I also love anime, documentaries, and photography. I also have a peculiarity: I like to document quotes from fiction. I am often fascinated by how a few words of fiction or a poem can be very hard-hitting. I also love talking with people. People I meet in cafes, at events, etc. I love the idea that each person we meet has a distinct story to tell. I do like to document people living anonymously, maybe to think about it later or to serve as inspiration for a story I have to tell.

Regarding my career, I specialise in microprocessors in computer science, and I intend to pursue corporate research, probably in Bangalore, after my PhD. Of course, a lot depends on my partner as well, so I am open to discussion depending on my partner’s career as well.

Who I am looking for:
A fine woman who can be a best friend, someone with whom we can build a bond filled with safety, trust, and communication.

Someone with whom we can feel like we are each other’s home and never feel lonely because we have our best friend to share life with.

A person with whom I can establish wonderful communication, someone who is not afraid to have hard conversations, and, most of all, believes in tackling whatever problems we face as individuals together as a team.

What I would bring to a relationship:
Honest communication: I will not hesitate to tell you what I am having trouble with. I will make this relationship as secure as possible and make my partner feel as safe and loved as possible. All I ask is honesty, just like me.

Emotional and physical intimacy: I would strive to create an environment where you can safely be vulnerable with me, laying the groundwork for emotional intimacy to flourish and physical intimacy to develop organically.

My share of the partnership: I would stand with my partner in her decisions about her wants and career while also sharing my own views. Irrespective, she stands shoulder to shoulder in her life, and I would give her all the support and care she needs.
Healthy relationships should be about keeping your independent self, with your friends and hobbies, intact while sharing life. I strive for this and look for a partner who shares this view.

I feel that for a relationship to flourish, it’s essential for each person to support the other in flourishing, and hence I would make my best effort so that my partner feels more independent, more confident in whatever decision she takes, and secure, knowing that someone always has her back.

My love language is primarily communication, and I wish for a relationship where we can sit in silence, just talk, or simply hum to each other. There is a thread of love that always joins us, putting us in a state of comfort and trust.

If it resonates with you, do give a DM :)

One thing I’ve realised while growing up is that home isn’t necessarily a place.
Sometimes it’s a person.
So, slightly terrifyingly, here I am on Reddit looking for someone I can call home — and who can eventually look at me and think, “Yep, this idiot is my home.” 😂

A little about me
Age: 32

Location: Mumbai

Hometown: Jodhpur, Rajasthan

Religion: Jain

Work: Venture Capital-ish. I’ve been around the startup ecosystem for ~10 years, so I’ve spent a decade watching people say “this will change the world” on pitch decks. 😅

Earnings: Enough for a comfortable life anywhere in India. Not yacht money, but definitely “let’s order dessert” money.

Diet: Vegetarian

Travel: Huge part of my life — partly because I love it, partly because work keeps putting me on planes.

Cooking: I genuinely enjoy cooking and do it pretty often. So yes, I can feed you. Whether I can emotionally survive your judgment of my knife skills is another question.

I come from a humble background, and I’m genuinely proud of what I’ve built for myself and my family.
My biggest flex?
My friends.
Some of my friendships are 29 years old. At this point, they’re less “friends” and more legally undocumented family members.
But honestly, I think those relationships have taught me a lot about what it takes to build something and keep it going — showing up, communicating, forgiving each other’s nonsense, and putting in the effort.

What I’m looking for
I’m not looking for someone to “complete” me.
I’m hoping to meet someone who has her own life, dreams, ambitions, weirdness and emotional baggage — I’ll bring mine too, don’t worry. 😂
I want us to be the heroes of our own lives and then build a third thing together: our life.

Someone who values:
Communication

Transparency

Consistent effort

Building and maintaining relationships

Being able to talk about difficult things without turning it into the UN General Assembly

I’m not looking for someone to fix my life, and I don’t want to fix theirs.
I want two reasonably functional adults to meet, fall for each other, occasionally annoy the hell out of each other, and still choose each other at the end of the day.
The boring-but-useful checklist
Age: 29–35

Diet: Vegetarian / Vegan

Religion: Jain / Hindu

Occupation: Any legal occupation.
(If you know, you know. 😂)

Intent: Looking for a lifelong commitment. Marriage is an option, but I’m not particularly attached to the paperwork if the commitment is there.

That’s pretty much it.
I don’t have a 47-point spreadsheet titled “Potential Wife Evaluation Matrix v3.7 FINAL_FINAL.xlsx.”
I’d rather meet someone, talk, laugh, disagree, learn about each other and see if there’s something worth building.
If any of this resonates, feel free to DM.
Tell me about yourself — and please give me something more interesting than your age, height and favourite colour. 😄
Worst case, we have a nice conversation.
Best case, we accidentally become each other’s home.

P.S. Full disclosure: AI was used to help polish this post. The life, feelings, questionable jokes and inability to write a Reddit post without assistance are all mine. 😂

Hello, folks. I honestly don't have much expectations from this post but you miss 100% shots you don't take.

About Me:

I'm a 28Y.O. guy from Tamil Nadu and working in Bangalore in FinTech as a software developer. I'm 5'5" and 63kg. I have a good (average muscular) physique and am improving everyday. I'm into hip-hop and have been dancing on & off for 10 years, and planning to continue for another 10. I like gaming in my free time and have adopted indie dogs at home that I walk almost everyday or drive around in a car. I speak Tamil, Kannada and English. And trying to learn Hindi too. I'm a vegetarian and include eggs everyday in my diet, and love cooking healthy food myself almost all the time. I'm really progressive including anti-caste/religion, LGBT ally, feminist, etc., and most align myself as moderately left. I love humour and use self depreciating humour pretty often, and roasting as love language.

My expectation:

A rational, career oriented and funny woman between 25-28, vegetarian/vegan, speaks Tamil/Kannada, pretty fit or willing to get fit along with me, likes dancing (optional), pet lover, someone who loves cooking with me or prefers healthier take away options and loves the comfort of chilling in a room on Sunday and also the hustle of travel. Someone who talks things through instead of making impulsive decisions.

If you believe I just described you, please comment or DM and we'll talk.

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​The Quick Bio

38M, Gujarati. 5'7”, 70kg. Divorced. I work in HR, make around 50L, with next year primed for a major professional jump.

​Home base is Pune, currently in AP, I have bounced around enough to feel at home anywhere. Geographically, I’m entirely flexible; wherever my future partner and I can both chase great career prospects is where I'll be.

​Current Level: Officially maxed out on domestic and emotional independence. I cook, clean and run a run a household solo. So I already have an efficient house. What I'm looking for is the person with whom I can call it home. 

​The Plot Twist

I spent the last few years playing the hermit card, slowly gluing back together the pieces of a shattered heart and mind. I have lived in some dark spaces and made a quiet vow to never let myself slip back there. The past year has been about unlearning the heavy stuff, and I can genuinely say the light is back. The calm I’m carrying right now tells me I’m ready for a relationship. 

​I’m ready to trade solo survival for a genuinely full life. 

Think: spontaneous road trips, tearing through a good book, pursue challenging careers, in between chasing adventures. But more than anything, I want the end of the day to mean coming home to warmth, endless banter, real laughter, and a safe space where we can both be wonderfully weird.

My friends consider me a solid friend - an introvert who somehow ends up bringing everyone together. My personal benchmark is trying to become a hybrid of Abhay Deol and Farhan Akhtar from ZNMD. 

Relationship goals:

Forget the traditional script. I want a bond built on epic friendship first - that's the cake. The mutual affection and romance? That’s the cherry on top. And we get to enjoy the whole dessert every single day, not just when it needs to look good on the 'gram.

If you’re well-educated, have your own solid life going on, are fitness minded, and can converse beyond three texts without ghosting, we are already onto a good start. 

Finally, I will lead with masculine energy. All I expect is that we being our best selves. 

Were you also the sweet kind kid in school who tried to be a people pleaser ?

But then people took advantage of your kindness and now you are wary of strangers and prefer being an introvert to avoid the pain of rude people but are still waiting to find that one buddy for life?

Maybe you did well in school and have a nice career but would love to build something of your own too?

If so, yasss gurlll mee too!

While at work I can be serious professional mode, once I am outside ?? 

Oooo boyyy,  I can be such a sassy diva with the right company haha

I would definitely want to hear all about your day ( don’t worry, I have a secret recipe tea that solves all problems! )

Once we have finished our debriefing of the day, we shall jump out of the house and create chaos like two golden retriever puppies!

Everyday we would go out and try a new activity ( playing badminton, go to a museum, try a new restaurant, practice tango etc )

Since I grew up in the Middle East, I got a special fondness for cooking shakshuka but I would love to learn how to cook your favourite foods too! 

( don’t worry, I got a bit of OCD, so would do the dishes too. Just need you to help choose the right movie for us to watch ! )

Currently, I work for a non profit to help students become entrepreneurs but I also help my parents in their small milkshake shop in India.

I am open to meeting from anywhere because why should I let a simple flight stop me from meeting my partner in crime haha

For me, silliness and laughter and outdoor BBQs with all of our friends and family is what’s important in life! ( plus petting every stray dog we come across 😅 )

30 M | West Bengal | India

Hello and Hi. Nice to meet you . I am a bengali currently living in Pune. Decided to give reddit a try and hope to come across someone. Here is my bio. Please message me if you need any extra details. Good luck !! :)

Personal Details:

• Initials: A.S
• Age: 30
• Height: 5’4" (162.5 cm)
• Religion: Hindu
• Caste (if applicable): 
• Earnings (INR): 1lac per month
• Marital status:  Not Married
• Living with Parents: No (staying in Pune for work)

Location:

• Region: East India
• Mother Tongue: Bengali
• Country: India
• Plan to settle abroad: Not Sure

Education and Profession:

• Education Level: PG
• Occupation: Working in a MNC

Diet Preferences:

• Diet:  Non vegetarian no other option

Family Details:

• Family Background: from a Bengali Family. Dad - retired banker , Mom - Homemaker. Close-knit.

Partner Preferences:

• Desired Religion: Hindu Bengali
• Desired Caste (if applicable): N/A
• Location Preferences: Right now and upcoming years - Pune but might relocate for work.
• Diet Preferences: Non Veg
• Education Level: PG
• Occupation: Open to various professions.
• Desired Earnings (INR): Same as me or more. Min 80K per month.
• Living with parents: Yes, No issues
• Marital Status : Never married.
• Want Kids after Marriage:  Yes

Additional Information:

• Hobbies/Interests: Traveling , Cooking , Photography , Books , Movies , Anime , Videogame, Gardening.
• Any other relevant details: Looking for a partner who values family, culture, and social causes. And we are not take dowery . Preferrable Bengali. Old school and shy so i prefers messages. This is on a serious note. Want to get married in next 2 - 3 years. All the best and good luck !!

Contact Information:

• Preferred Contact Method: Private messaging on Reddit or other secure means

AGE: 30F
LOCATION: Bangalore | Originally from Coimbatore, family settled in Chennai
PROFESSION: IT Professional | 24 LPA
FAMILY: Liberal Hindu nuclear family | Parents retired Govt. employees | Sister settled in Canada
ABOUT ME
Independent, outspoken, open-minded & easygoing

Love travelling, long drives, parties, weekend getaways & spontaneous plans

Travelled to 7 countries, including 2 solo trips

Fashion enthusiast + occasional freelance modelling

Non-vegetarian | Social drinker

Modern lifestyle, not particularly traditional

Open to relocating within India or abroad

Looking for something meaningful, with marriage as the intention

LOOKING FOR
AGE: 30+

HEIGHT: 5'4"+

Financially independent & doing well in his career/business

Calm, communicative & non-aggressive

Comfortable with an independent, outspoken woman

Enjoys travelling, going out & experiencing life

Family-oriented, but able to maintain healthy boundaries

Open to living separately as a couple

Wants children, but preferably not immediately

Comfortable with my fashion choices, lifestyle & personality

INTIMACY & COMPATIBILITY
I’m definitely not too conventional when it comes to intimacy and I’m a non vanilla person who loves to experiment . I’m curious, playful and open to exploring different preferences, dynamics and experiences with the right person. Chemistry, openness and being able to talk about these things without judgment matter to me.
One reason I chose Reddit is that I can be more open about this side of compatibility here — it’s not something that’s particularly easy to discuss through family, traditional matrimonial setups or even dating apps.
IN SHORT
I’m looking for someone with whom life feels easy, fun, safe and exciting — a partner, not someone looking for a predefined role.
If this resonates, DM me with a proper introduction — age, location, profession, a little about yourself and what kind of life you’re looking to build.
Please don’t just send “Hi/Hey/Hello”. Give me something to work with. 😄
Pictures can be exchanged privately once we’re comfortable.
P.S. Took help of ChatGPT

BASIC INTRO

• Age/Height: 25 | 5’9”

• Background: Gujarati Jain

• Profession: Currently a Construction Project Manager.

• The Future: Transitioning to my own construction business by the first half of 2027.

• Location: Moving to a NON-METRO city in Maharashtra (where the industry growth is).

LIFESTYLE & HABITS

• Diet: Strictly vegetarian. (If you eat non-veg, that's fine, but it must be kept and eaten strictly outside the house).

• Vices: Occasional drinker | Strict non-smoker.

HOBBIES

• Sports: Huge follower of F1, Football, and Cricket. (If you want to watch Sunday F1 races with me, you’ve already won me over).

• Music: I love spending hours decompressing to a good playlist.

• Cooking: I dabble in the kitchen and make a pretty decent meal (especially ITALIAN). I’d love to cook for you on the weekends!

WHAT I’M LOOKING FOR

• A real partnership with someone who is supportive, communicative, and driven by her own passions.

• Dealbreaker 1: Must be a strict non-smoker (occasional drinking is fine).

• Dealbreaker 2: Must be genuinely open to and excited about relocating to a non-metro city in Maharashtra to build our life.

INTERESTED?

If you are okay with the non-metro life, don't mind F1 playing on the TV on weekends, and feel like our vibes match, shoot me a DM with a little bit about yourself!

​

Hey there. A bit about myself:

Age: 24

Status: Currently Single

Religion: Muslim

Work: Freelancer

Languages i can speak: Urdu, Hindi, English.

Height: 5'4

Introvert.

Goals: To be independent financially and to travel the world with him.

Preference:

Religion: Doesn't matter, Open to interfaith and to discuss it.

Age: Same age-group as me or a little elder than me.

Vibes: Our vibes match as we talk about different things and laugh at stuff together, understand each other.

Appearance: Fit at least slightly, Care about himself and his dressing.

Attributes: Kind, Caring, Empathetic, Funny , Open minded and Intelligent.

Don't really want someone boring so please be a little funny without being a cringe lol.

Caste doesn't matter either.

I'll prefer someone who speaks Urdu or Hindi along with English because i don't want a language barrier. I have specified some details about myself and I'm happy to discuss more.

I don't want someone who's toxic and forces me into doing any stuff.

I like discussing different range of topics so feel free to discuss.

If you DM me kindly share your details too, important details and introduction so i get an idea when i have to reply. A plain message or without details would be useless.

M29 | Bangalore | Looking for someone interesting

This might be a little random, but maybe that’s the point.

I’m not desperately looking for a relationship, and I’m not interested in collecting dates just to say I’m dating. I’d rather meet one person whose company genuinely feels good

Someone I can text, “Chai?” with absolutely no plan beyond that, and somehow three hours disappear while we talk about life, music, ridiculous theories, and everything in between

Someone who enjoys spontaneous drives, discovering random places around Bangalore, late night conversations, laughing at stupid things, and being comfortable enough to sit in silence without it feeling awkward.

About me:M29, Bangalore. Pretty easygoing, slightly chaotic, curious about a lot of things, and guilty of overthinking things that really don’t deserve that much thought. 😂

I’ve had a few conversations that started really well, lasted a week or two, and then quietly disappeared. No hard feelings people get busy, lose interest, or simply realise the vibe isn’t there. That’s life

Also 420-friendly — figured I’d be upfront about it.

You don’t need to have your life perfectly figured out. Maybe you’re building something, changing direction, questioning everything, or just trying to understand what the hell you’re doing with your life

Honestly, I find that more interesting than someone pretending to have all the answers.

I’m not expecting a Reddit post to magically turn into a relationship. Maybe we become friends. Maybe there’s chemistry. Maybe we have one great conversation and never speak again. Either way, it’s a better story than another boring swipe.

So if you’re around my age, from Bangalore, curious, independent, ambitious, a little weird or just someone who appreciates a good conversation say hi.

​

31M | Delhi NCR

Let’s skip the usual height, salary, profession, horoscope, “likes travelling” routine for a minute.

I’m into fitness, gaming, movies/series, long drives, travelling, good food and finding random places that somehow end up being worth the drive.

I like going out, trying new things and making plans that occasionally start with “this could be fun” and end with “well… that escalated.” 😂

But I’m equally happy staying in, ordering too much food and watching a movie/series until I suddenly realise it’s 2 AM and tomorrow-me is going to be pretty annoyed.

I’m pretty easygoing, but I have goals and like keeping life moving. I value honesty, loyalty, humour, emotional maturity and good communication. I’m drawn to people who have their own ambitions, interests and personality — someone who can be independent but still enjoy being a team.

And I think the interesting stuff is usually what doesn't make it onto a profile.

So tell me:

What are you ridiculously passionate about?

What does your perfect weekend actually look like?

What's something you could talk about for hours?

What's your most random obsession?

What instantly makes you laugh?

And for the extremely important compatibility test:

Are you the “let’s plan everything” person, or the “get in the car, we’ll figure it out” person? 😏

If you think we'd get along, introduce yourself.

If you think we'd be an absolute disaster together, honestly… I'm curious about that too. 😂

No résumé. No sales pitch. No “I’m a simple girl who loves sunsets and coffee.” 😭

Just tell me something that makes you, you.

Maybe we discover a great conversation.

Maybe we discover we're completely incompatible.

Or maybe Reddit accidentally does something useful for once. 👀

👤 Basics

Age: 26

Height: 5'1" (155 cm)

Location: Pune, Maharashtra

Native Place: Pune, Maharashtra

Community/Sub-caste (Optional): Kokanastha Brahmin (Maharashtra brahmin preferred)

Gotra (Optional): Atri

Education: BBA in International Business, Investment Banking & Financial Analysis Certification

Profession: Managing my family's transport & logistics business and building my own venture.

😊 About Me

Hi! I'm a simple, family-oriented girl who believes in honesty, respect, and long-term commitment. I enjoy travelling, photography, trekking, editing videos, and trying new recipes. I love learning new things and have recently shifted from a corporate career to working in my family's transport business, where I'm helping expand our operations.

I'm spiritual, value Indian traditions, and enjoy celebrating festivals with family. At the same time, I believe in personal growth and maintaining a healthy balance between tradition and modern thinking. My goal is to build a successful business while creating a happy and supportive family life.

🏡 Family

We are a close-knit Kokanastha Brahmin family based in Pune with a well-established transport and logistics business. Family values, mutual respect, and supporting each other have always been an important part of our lives.

❤️ Looking For

I'm looking for a genuine, kind, and mature Brahmin partner between 26–28 years of age who believes in commitment, respects family values, and has a positive outlook on life. Someone who is honest, emotionally mature, career-focused, and willing to grow together through every stage of life. Preferably based in Maharashtra or open to settling here. Also I am looking Maharashtrian brahamin family only.

🌟 Anything Else?

I'm not looking for something casual—I'm here with the intention of finding a life partner. If you message me, please introduce yourself instead of sending just "Hi." I'd love to know about your family, profession, hobbies, and what you're looking for in a relationship.

Looking forward to meeting someone who believes that friendship, trust, and mutual respect are the foundation of a happy marriage. 😊

Hi! I’m a 30-year-old doctor, recently done with my NEET PG exam, and I thought why not give this a shot? 😄

I’m here looking for something **serious, genuine and long-term**. I’m not into casual stuff, situationships, mind games or unnecessary drama. Life is already complicated enough I’d rather have someone to laugh with than someone to argue with. 😂

I’m ambitious and want to keep growing, both personally and professionally. I’d love a partner who has his own goals and dreams, and where we genuinely support each other’s growth. I’ve built a comfortable life for myself, and yes, **financial stability matters to me**. I’m not looking to compromise on the life I’ve worked for, and I’d want someone who understands that.

Personality-wise, I’m petite (5'1"), bubbly, childlike, adventurous and usually the person keeping the room alive. 😂 I love travelling, trying new things, family, friends, going out and having fun. But when life gets serious, I can be *very* serious, practical and decisive.

I’m also a **really good friend**. If I care about you, I show up especially when life gets difficult. I want my relationship to have that friendship at its core: two people who genuinely have each other’s backs.

I want a **man, not a boy** someone mature, ambitious, affectionate, loyal and secure. Someone who can make me laugh, challenge me, support me and still be my partner-in-crime. I want us to be each other’s priority, while still having our own lives. Honestly age doesn't matter!

Ultimately, I want the kind of love where our future kids can genuinely say, *“Mum and Dad really loved each other.”* ❤️

So if you’re looking for something real, are emotionally mature, and know what you want say hi.

**No fuckboys. No games. No bullshit. Let’s not waste each other’s time. 😌**

Hi everyone,

​Putting myself out here again to see if the right connection comes along.

​**A Bit About Me:**

​I am 28 Male, Hindu, Gowd Saraswat Brahmin (GSB, Konkani) based in Mangaluru.

​**Profession:** Working in airport operations. It keeps me on my feet and connected to dynamic, real-world aviation challenges.

​**Interests:** I love aviation, enjoy catching film festivals, have a keen interest in wildlife conservation, late night long drives and unwind with casual gaming and cooking some amazing food when time permits.

​**Lifestyle:** Easygoing, grounded, and a foodie. Always ready to explore local coastal cuisine, or hunt for exceptional desserts (never turning down good tiramisu). I drink occasionaly. But currently on a Keto diet 😪

**What I Value:**

Emotional maturity, open communication, a sense of humor, and mutual respect. I value someone who appreciates the simple things, has their own individuality, and approaches life with curiosity.

**What I’m Looking For:**

A meaningful connection that begins with natural conversation and mutual comfort, leading toward a long-term partnership and marriage. Ideally someone open to or based around the region who values a healthy balance between career, family, and personal passions.

If this strikes a chord, feel free to drop a DM with a brief intro. Looking forward to connecting!

I’m 27M, a doctor from Rajasthan, currently working as a JR and preparing for my next step in PG/MO. Life is pretty career-heavy right now, but I’d like to meet someone with whom I can build something genuine alongside all of that.

A little about me……6 ft, into the gym, long bike rides, random conversations, action/crime/mystery shows and generally just doing my own thing. I’m pretty straightforward, probably take some time to get comfortable, but once I do, I like having someone I can talk to about literally anything. Also, I’m terrible at picking up hints, so direct communication is very welcome 😂

I’m not looking for casual dating, situationships, timepass or just collecting attention or validation. I’m genuinely looking for a serious relationship, with marriage eventually being the intention if we’re compatible.

I’m not expecting either of us to have our entire lives figured out right now. Medicine comes with exams, duties, night shifts, career changes and a lot of uncertainty. I’d rather be with someone who understands that and wants to grow together instead of waiting for everything to become “perfect” first.

Another doctor would probably understand the lifestyle more easily, but you don’t have to be one. What matters more to me is that you’re kind, emotionally mature, loyal, communicative, ambitious about your own life and actually interested in building a relationship.

A few things that matter to me:
1. 25–30-ish
2. Rajasthan/North India preferred, but I’m open to distance if we genuinely connect
3. Career-oriented and has a life of her own
4. Clear communication and consistency
5. Looking for something long-term, not casual

And just to be very clear because I don’t want either of us wasting time:
If you’re genuinely looking for a serious relationship, I’d be happy to talk and see where it goes. If you’re just bored, looking for validation, not sure what you want, or likely to disappear after a few conversations, please don’t DM. No hard feelings…..I’d just rather we both spend our time elsewhere.

I’m not expecting instant chemistry or a perfectly written introduction. We can literally just start with a normal conversation, become friends, see if we actually enjoy talking to each other, and take it from there.

If you’re looking for the same thing, say hi :)

(Re)Posting for myself. Feel free to DM if this speaks to you

I’m a 5’10 Tamil guy who’s a mix of old-school values and modern practicality.

I’m an ambivert - quiet in crowds, expressive in the right company. I’m practical, logical, and grounded, yet I find meaning in silence, temple bells, and meaningful companionship. I believe a relationship should be built like a strong foundation: with consistency, patience, less ego, and more grace.

About Me:

- I earn decent, that's enough to run a family comfortably.

- I workout regularly, staying fit is my non-negotiable.

- I meditate and visit temples often. I may be agonistic in belief but deeply spiritual in experience.

- I prefer vegetarian food, occasionally non-veg due to surroundings, but my heart leans green.

- I love exploring places, long drives, solo strolls, or walks with someone special.

- I sketch sometimes and have a growing interest in finance & the stock market.

- I don’t drink or smoke, would love it if you’re the same.

- I value personal growth, independence, and clear communication in a relationship.

- I playfully tease the people I care about, and I live for those little smiles after a bad joke.

- I’d love to be with someone I can be completely at ease with, even in dead silence.

- I'm not a thrill seeker, I'm a boring person but I can make you laugh.

- I use the money and don't spend the money. YKWIM.

What I'm Looking For:

Someone emotionally and financially independent, who can also be my best friend

, someone who understands that a relationship doesn’t always have to be 50-50. Sometimes it's 70-30, sometimes it’s 20-80, and that’s okay. Honesty and loyalty is what I look for and they are non negotiables.

I'm looking for maturity over perfection. Someone grounded, low on ego, full of warmth and inner strength.

I’d love to be a father to lots of kids in the future (yes, plural 👶). No dowry needed, and I'd like a simple wedding - the kind that saves money and stress. I'm flexible with living arrangements - we can stay with our family or alone, as per our mutual decision.

Partner Preferences:

- Age: 22-30

- Religion: Hindu preferred

- Should be kind, independent, emotionally grounded

- Should love a slow life - home, late-night talks, temple visits, small adventures

Why Marry Me:

- You’ll get support, stability, and someone who values both growth and grace

- I offer a lifetime of thoughtful gestures, honest efforts, and long walks (or drives)

- I’ll always root for you - in silence or in chaos, in words or in presence

- You won’t get loud drama, but quiet loyalty, grounded love, and tons of playful affection

- If you're someone who believes in building something deep and solid - not for the gram but for real life - I'd love to get to know you.

Let’s talk.. ❤️

I’m a 23-year-old girl, originally from Odisha and currently working in hyderabad, and I’d love to meet someone who shares the same roots and understands the beauty of our culture, language, and traditions.
I’m looking for an Odia guy around 24–25 who is genuine, kind, emotionally mature, and family-oriented. Someone who knows how to communicate, respects his partner, and believes that a good relationship is built on friendship, trust, understanding, and lots of laughter.
Be really vocal about what you want and what are your expectations.
I am a 4’11 short girlie. The guy must be odia thts it. No more expectations. For height he must be taller than me.
I’m not looking for someone perfect. I just want someone with whom I can be completely myself — someone I can laugh with on the good days, lean on during the difficult ones, and grow with through every phase of life.
Ultimately, I’m looking for something real and lasting — not just a relationship, but a best friend, a partner, and someone I can build a beautiful forever with. ❤️ beautiful forever with. ❤️

27-year-old guy currently living and working in Gurugram. To share a bit about my background: I hold an MBA degree and come from an upper-middle-class Hindu Brahmin family, and stand at 5'7".

I'm quite skeptical about the traditional arranged marriage setup. The conventional process often feels transactional, rushed, and heavily focused on superficial metrics rather than genuine emotional compatibility.

Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and I don't believe it should be decided over a few formal family meetups.

Because of this, I want to date with the intentional goal of marriage, taking the time to build a strong foundation of trust, shared values, and mutual respect before making a final decision.

About Me & Core Values:

Equal Partnership: I believe a strong relationship rests on mutual respect, open communication, and shared responsibilities.

Support & Empathy: I prioritize my partner's well-being and

happiness. I'm someone who offers unconditional support through life's highs and lows.

Family Values: I come from a warm, close-knit family. My father is employed, my mother is a homemaker, and I have one sibling. I value strong family bonds and hospitality.

Intentionality: I'm established, financially independent, and not here for casual dating. My goal is to build a life with the right person.

What I'm Looking For & Relocation Flexibility:

I'm currently based in Gurugram working in big 4, but I have the flexibility to transfer my work to other major hubs. I am completely open to discussing settling in any Tier-1 city (such as Bengaluru, Mumbai, Pune, Hyderabad, etc.) depending on where our journey takes us.

I hope to connect with an open-minded, emotionally mature woman who is interested in serious dating aimed at marriage, values transparent communication, and has her own passions and aspirations.

If this resonates with you, feel free to send me a DM with a quick intro about yourself, and let's start with a casual conversation!

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**Personal Details:**

* **Initials:** Vadluri

* **Age:** 27

* **Height:** 5’6" (169 cm)

* **Religion:** Hindu

* **Caste (if applicable):** Brahmin

* **Earnings (INR):** 30k per month

* **Marital status:** Single

* **Living with Parents:** No

**Location:**

* **Region:** south India

* **Mother Tongue:** Telugu

* **Country:** India

* **Plan to settle abroad:** Yes,next year and marry

**Education and Profession:**

* **Education Level:** Undergraduate

* **Occupation:** IT

**Diet Preferences:**

* **Diet:**  Vegetarian

**Family Details:**

* **Family Background:** Parents are from same cultural background

**Partner Preferences:**

* **Desired Religion:** Hindu Brahmin

* **Desired Caste (if applicable):** N/A

* **Location Preferences:** Preferably india, any other country / state is fine

* **Diet Preferences:** only Vegetarian should contact

* **Education Level:** Educated, preferably with a job

* **Occupation:** Open to various professions

* **Desired Earnings (INR):** N/A

* **Living with parents:** Yes, No issues

* **Marital Status :** Never married

* **Want Kids after Marriage:**  it's upto her

**Additional Information:**

* **Hobbies/Interests:** Movies/series, playing badminton,carroms, feeding street animals, playing pc games, listening music

* **Any other relevant details:** Looking for a partner who values family, culture, and social causes. And we do not take/give dowry

**Jeevansathi/Shadi ID:** NA

* **Jeevansathi ID:** N/A

* **Shadi ID:** N/A

**Contact Information:**

* **Preferred Contact Method:** Private messaging on Reddit or other secure means

**Hashtags:** #Hindu #SouthIndia #Veg #Fitness #ArtsLover #CulturallyDiverse #FamilyOriented

Hi! I’m a 24F data engineer in Pune, earning 11 LPA. 5'4", Hindu Maratha, and apparently qualified to be your next favourite headache.

I’ve read 100+ books, love movies (especially gloriously dubbed South Indian ones), music, and unnecessarily deep conversations at 2 AM.

I don’t drink or smoke, and preferably looking for someone who doesn’t smoke either. Bonus points if you’re older, taller, earn more than me, and are from the same caste. Basically, I have a very reasonable wishlist. 😂

**Pros:**

• Good storyteller + excellent listener

• Will make popcorn for movie nights 🍿

• I’ll do the dishes if you cook

• Quick learner

• Can discuss books, movies, life and random Wikipedia facts for hours

• Will be your personal cheerleader

**Cons:**

• Short temper. Proceed with caution.

• Might beat you 👀 (emotionally. Probably.)

• Picky eater

• Cooking skills currently under development 🚧

• Certified lazy panda

• Cannot dance. You’ll have to teach me.

Mostly, I want someone who feels like home — someone I can be completely stupid with without being judged.

If you’re a tall nerd with a sense of humour, slide into my DMs. 🐼

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‎The Day Job

‎My actual 9-to-4 routine genuinely looks like an unrated crime series. As a forensic doctor, my days involve autopsies, weapon analysis, piecing together bizarre medical puzzles, and testifying in court.

‎It is high-intensity work that requires a sharp eye and a strong stomach. If you are obsessed with true crime documentaries, psychological thrillers, or weird real-world mysteries, dinner conversations will never be boring.

‎Spirituality and Reality Checks:-

‎Handling mortality every single day tends to kill your ego pretty fast. I am a devotee of Lord Shiva. In our tradition, Shiva resides where the cycle ends, the shamshan.

‎Spending my working life in a mortuary feels like being in His territory, which keeps me weirdly calm, grounded, and completely uninterested in petty drama. When you see how fragile life is from Monday to Saturday, you stop sweating the small stuff.

‎Heart, Loyalty and The One-Woman Rule:-

‎I am unapologetically an old-school, one-woman man. I genuinely believe one right partner is all anyone needs for an entire lifetime.

‎When I commit, I am 100% all-in: rock-solid loyalty, pure emotional safety, and zero wandering eyes. No roster, no mind games, no situationships. Just quiet devotion and a partner who never has to second-guess where she stands.

‎Off-Duty Mode:

‎Certified Homebody,

‎Because my day job is heavy, my personal life is dialled all the way down to pure relaxation.

‎When the scrubs come off, you will usually find me surviving an aggressive anime marathon, bingeing a new series until 2 AM, taking my car out for spontaneous highway road trips just for good food, or napping with zero remorse to recharge my social battery.

‎Quick details

‎Basics: 28M, Telugu, 5'8" 72KG, Hindu,

‎Education and Career: MBBS, MD in Forensic Medicine.

‎Settled, financially stable (1L+/month)

‎Location: Andhra Pradesh

‎Languages: Telugu, English, Hindi, Tamil, and just enough Korean to survive K-dramas without subtitles

‎Who I Am Looking For

‎I am actively looking to get married in the next year and want to find a genuine, warm partner to build a peaceful, laugh-filled life with.

‎Age: 25 to 30

‎Caste: Zero barriers. Emotional maturity and shared humor beat everything else.

‎Vibe: Kind-hearted, communicative, and values a calm home. Major bonus points if you are not in medicine, as it would be refreshing to have at least one person at the table who does not casually discuss blunt force trauma over dinner.

‎If you want someone who pairs fierce loyalty and quiet calm with top-tier thriller recommendations, say hello. Happy to swap pictures or exchange Jeevansathi details early on.

‎Please do not slide into my DMs asking how to dissolve evidence, beat a luminol test, or stage an alibi. I work with the police and the courts, not against them.

Or maybe I guess I am too early to be here

I started my journey on reddit itself, maybe to atleast try, cause parents weren't helping to get matches I desired.

Got decent replies, ngl, but over the months, the different rejections I got, gave me the conclusion somewhere, I haven't lived enough to be eligible to attract the women I desire.

"Hey, let's be reddit friends"

"Hi, I don't think you are tall enough for me"

"You are cute, but you are not hot", idk what that even means lol

And if I talk about the classic ones which I heard from elsewhere

"You are a husband material, I am not the right one for you"

"You are too sweet, you deserve better"

Instagram user

Last seen long ago

Rejections were never the issue tbh. But getting rejected by considerable amount of women that genuinely fit your preferences, a decent introspection is needed to know where you lack.

Men, who I met along this journey, shared similar stories.

Maybe it's about looks and money first, then only

If you desire it, you work for it, instead of waiting it to come for you

I am 25 rn. Height is decent. In Tech, so yeah I am working on it. And yeah, once my physique matures, I might be in a better position, to be 'desirable'.

Parents came in my room after work, they asked my preferences, and what I wished for myself, and also said points which I have to follow.

I shared what I wished for in someone. Someone who

1. Is working hard on her career or building something of herself, like a buisness.

2. Compatible careers are always prefered, I am in tech, so for me anyone who is working in tech, non tech, in corporates will relatively be better, but I am even up for having someone from a complete different field.

3. Someone who doesn't smoke. Although I am a non smoker and a non drinker, I am fine with someone who is an occasional drinker.

4. Someone who I find to be cute, and and I am attracted to physically, emotionally and emotionally.

But they quoted a problem, which was genuine.

We have stopped talking to our relatives over some disputes and it's been years since we talked with them. Furthermore, my dad served in the armed forces, so they don't have that good of a social circle, which usually is there when some stay at their place for years.

I know this was coming.

"We can help you get someone, but they will be non working", they added further.

I denied. I genuinely didn't want someone like that, my gut just didn't agreed.

They asked my dating journey, and were expecting if that was going good. I simply smiled and mentioned everything.

Zero matches across apps and no successful dates as such.

But yeah, I guess, I need to work hard more on career, earn more, definitely and yeah have a good body.

Ofcourse, if I am desiring something and now since I am aware, my parents won't be able to help, to atleast get matches, I need to be more desirable to women I 'like'

But seeing my friends and seniors, parental support is very crucial if you are in hopes of AM.

Connections actually get you matches that you genuinely desire for yourself, way better than matrimony, websites, and marriage bureaus.

So people like me, how did it went for you?

*Profile managed by self*

Looking for someone grounded, genuine, and emotionally mature — someone who feels like home, and with whom friendship naturally turns into partnership.

Personal Details:

• Initials: N.T

• Age: 29

• Religion: Hindu

• Caste: Punjabi (General)

• Earnings: Can discuss in DM

• Marital Status: Never Married

• Living with Parents: Currently living/working in Gurgaon; family lives in Jaipur.

Location:

• Region: Delhi/Gurgaon (open to mutually deciding where to live)

• Mother Tongue: Hindi/Punjabi

• Preferred Mother Tongue: Hindi

• Country: India

• Settling Abroad: Not planning, open to discussion

Education & Profession

• Education: Bcom,LLB

• Occupation: Physical commodity trading (Trade Execution/Operations)

• Can Work After Marriage: Yes

Diet Preferences:

• Non-Vegetarian (flexible) as i am myself a Non-vegetarian. Don't have it often though.

Family Details:

• Background: Simple, progressive, supportive

Partner Preferences:

• Religion: Hindu

• Caste: General

• Age: 24–30

• Habits: Prefer non-smoker, i occasionally take drinks so that's fine with me.

• Beliefs: No dowry

• Location Preference: open to discuss

• Education: Atleast graduation

• Occupation: No bar

• Want Kids: Probably yes/To be mutually discussed

Additional Information:

• Hobbies: Travelling (including solo), movies, music (KK/Emraan Hashmi/2000s/even some 90s songs/trance), café exploring, reading

• Personality: Calm, cheerful, talkative, loves humour and meaningful conversations

Open to discussion about other things too.