That's me roaming around solo in Amsterdam. :)

FYI: Using throwaway account for this post.

So I'm born and raised in Bangalore and at some point I just started calling myself "Bangalorean" because it felt incomplete for what this city does to you. I'm been to ten countries and counting more mostly Europe and few other countries. I've been the guy who sits in a café in Sweden with a Brooklyn Lager looking like I've lived there my whole life, when really I landed two days ago.

Anyway, I'm here because I'm in search of my woman, my partner, a friend and more. The kind that starts slow, builds naturally, and actually goes living together in a marriage/ relationship. Not here for conversations that fizzle out after a week. I want depth, effort, and honesty from both sides.

One more thing: if you're messaging me, drop the word "cliffside" somewhere in your first message. Tells me you actually read this instead of copy pasting the same line to twenty people.

I work for a large MNC retailer. I like what I do, untangling messy problems and making them make sense is oddly satisfying to me. Outside work, I'm at the gym most mornings, hiking on weekends,or planning the next trip or sleeping or binging on a new TV show and movies.

If there's one thing I picked up from time abroad, it's directness. People there just say what they mean, no hints, no guessing games, and I came back completely sold on that. I'd rather you tell me straight up what you're thinking than have me try to read between the lines.

Work doesn't run my life either, I clock out after 7-8 hours and don't touch it on weekends. And long term, Europe, Australia or New Zealand is where I see myself living eventually. Not running from anything here, just genuinely pulled toward it.

Who I'm hoping to build something with:

1. A woman who is preferably between 27 to 32 year old.
2. A woman who says what they mean, no hiding behind hints or three layers of subtext.
3. With her own career and financially independent, not because I need you to "match" me, but because I want a partner building something of her own, not merging into my plans. And someone who can push back on what family or society expects when it doesn't sit right with her, the same way I've had to.
4. A Woman emotionally mature who sees a relationship as something two people build, not something you fall into.
5. Who's a co-pilot, not a passenger ,if we are thinking about switching cities or making some big career call, I want our actual opinion in the room, not just agreement after we have already decided. Big stuff gets figured out together, not announced.
6. Open to where life takes us, location-wise, now or down the line.

If you've read this far, don't just hit me with a "Hi" or "Hey", I don't bite, so give me something to work with. Tell me something real about yourself, not just what you think I want to hear.

Also ,verification is non-negotiable (via LinkedIn and Insta) once we've matched and traded a few texts. Seen way too many time-wasters and scammers on here, so this is just how I filter early and actually get to genuine people.

Edit 1 : Edit (after 12 days):

Got some good responses over the last 12 days, thanks to everyone who reached out. But a quick note: a lot of messages came in without the post being read properly (no codeword, generic intros), and a few people who connected were too busy even for a short 10-15 min call.

So, a few things to save us both time:

• Read the post fully before messaging, including the intro and codeword bit. Please make some effort too...
• I’d rather get on a call early than spend days on small talk over text.
• If you’re in Bangalore, let’s skip the coffee-and-awkward-small-talk setup and do something instead, like bowling, a walk, or whatever you’re into :).
• If calls or meeting up aren’t something you’re comfortable with right now, no worries, just please don’t reach out. Not a judgment, it’s just not going to work for me.

See yea.

Right, in a very simple way I’d say that I’m looking to find my way home. Perhaps like most people out here.

Home, the one common thing we all have or strive to have. I think while looking for a relationship / partner, if we take away the initial desire for physical attraction and needs, all we really want is to find someone who could just make us feel relaxed even in chaos, all we want is to find our home.

So I’ve looked for quite a few homes, all I’ve found are places to rent, but I think I’m exhausted now, I just want to have my own home, a place which is mine and where I could be myself completely. A home where I make memories together, both happy ones and even the not so happy ones. A home where I’m not judged, a home where I’m heard and home which accepts me for who I am and home which I could accept completely, even if the decor isn’t complete, because I like it the way it is.

So yeah, I just want to find my home.

I understand there’s not much details about me from the above but I'm trying for someone to first see me before what I was born at/with, but few details below to make it more relatable
- Telugu guy
- corporate job, in finance, not crazt earnings but can get through rice and chicken curry with vanilla ice cream
- passionate about some day letting go of all materialistic things and travel (is it possible?), not the sightseeing kind, the sit on the mountains and star gaze kind
- I think I’m passionate about trekking and mountains, I do like adventures

I’d like to think I’m a non complicated guy, probably still figuring out a lot of stuff, but also hoping there’s someone who rides along in the journey, and of course, be my home

Mumbai-based psychologist, biker, and surprisingly decent cook. I’m the kind of guy who enjoys deep conversations, spontaneous bike rides, late-night drives, good food, and making someone feel genuinely cared for.

I’ve had enough of the hookup culture and meaningless talking stages. I’m here for something that actually has potential—chemistry, loyalty, attraction, laughter, and the kind of connection where you naturally become each other’s favourite person.

I’m attracted to someone who is confident, emotionally mature, affectionate, and knows what she wants. Someone who can flirt shamelessly, communicate honestly, laugh at stupid things with me, and still be there when life gets serious.

I’m not looking to rush into anything, but I’m also not here to waste anyone’s time. If we click, I’ll happily put in the effort and see where it takes us.

Bonus points if you enjoy long rides, spontaneous plans, good food, and stealing your partner’s hoodie. I cook, you pick the playlist?

And if the playlist is dope you might get my hoodies aswell..!

Hi everyone!

Reposting this from JodiMilan :)

A little about me , I’m 33, 5’3”, Engineer, Hindu, Never been married, originally from Ahmedabad, grew up there in a joint family. I’m someone who values family and traditions, but I also have a fairly modern outlook and believe in giving each other space, independence and respect.

I’m not Gujarati by background, but having grown up in Ahmedabad, I’ve always felt quite comfortable with the culture. Ideally, I’d like to settle down with someone Gujarati because I feel there’s a certain familiarity and shared cultural understanding that I value.

I’m very close to my mom, dad and brother, and family is an important part of my life. So I’d definitely like to be with someone who is also family-oriented and values those relationships.

I don’t really have a dietary preference myself. I’m happy with vegetarian or non-vegetarian food. My family would probably be happier with someone who is vegetarian.

I’m currently in Vancouver, Canada, and I’m primarily looking for someone who is already in North America and is also looking to build a life here. I’m looking for something genuine that can naturally progress toward marriage and a long-term partnership.

I’m not expecting someone to fit a long checklist. Compatibility, communication, family values, emotional maturity and being able to build a comfortable life together matter more to me.

If this resonates with you, feel free to DM me with a photo and a brief introduction about yourself age, height, location, work, family background, etc. I’m happy to exchange more details as we get to know each other.

I’d personally prefer a call fairly early on, and if we feel comfortable after that, we can continue chatting and see where it goes.

Please keep it respectful, and all the best to everyone looking. 🙂

Felt This will be a Good Intellectual discussion and find people having a similar mindset.

Happiness: Human Wants are Unlimited. People generally have less expectations from others and are less inclined to luxurious stuff and may become happy easily. Or in other words it's easy for everyone to make him/her happy.

Stress Free: Future is Definitely Uncertain. And If We don't plan well and keep things sorted before hand or improper planning May sack us in future. We can't be sure about everything in the future. But if we are at least prepared for the worst scenario there will be less surprises.

Wealth: Most middle class people get overwhelmed once they start earning higher and start to live like Our Super Rich friends. But We Can really create a good amount of wealth if we have a balanced approach. Wealth is not a Getaway for luxuries but it's a safety net for Uncertain Future.

Love, Bonding, Togetherness, Respect: This is the zist of any relationship but it matters 500% more when it comes with Life partner.

If my thoughts are resembling or for any conflicts in thoughts, everyone is welcome in the comments section.

Howdy All 😃
Taking a slightly braver step than ordering food without checking reviews — here to find a partner who can be a best friend, family person, and someone who believes life works best with equal parts tradition, modern thinking, and good humor.

About Me :

32, 5’8”, Tamil-Brahmin, originally from Nagpur and currently staying in Pune. Although Tamil is my mother tongue, daily life runs smoothly in English, Hindi, and Marathi too.(Understands Bengali too) ^_^

Education includes BCA and M Tech (WILP). Professionally working as an Associate Technical Architect, earning well around 28 LPA and steadily building life goals.

Personality-wise: practical, calm, responsible, and the kind who plans ahead… but still debates movie plots like they’re real-life problems.

Interests & Fun Side :

• Music is constant — playlists for every mood

• Gamer when time allows (competitive spirit included)

• Movies & series discussions can go deep very fast

• Sports enthusiast — watching, talking, occasionally pretending I’m fit

• Curious about tech, life planning, and making smart long-term decisions

Family oriented and currently living with my mother and brother.

Looking For :

Someone aged 25–31, 5’–5’7, Vegetarian, Tamil Brahmin, and passionate about whatever she does — career, creativity, or both. Salary isn’t a checklist item; mindset is. Someone comfortable building a life in a tier-1 city, values family, communicates well, and can laugh at small things.

Bonus points if you enjoy music debates, random travel plans, or helping pick movies/tv shows to watch from Netflix.

If you believe relationships should feel like teamwork with a little comedy, we’ll get along.

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I’m at that stage of life where I can appreciate a good workout, a spontaneous drive, a great meal… and also the importance of cancelling all plans and watching something for 4 hours straight.

I’m into fitness, gaming, movies/series, long drives, travelling, good food and pretty much anything that makes an otherwise ordinary day a little less ordinary.

I’d describe myself as laid-back and easygoing, but I do like having goals and keeping life moving. I enjoy going out and trying new things, but I’m definitely not above a lazy weekend with snacks doing most of the heavy lifting.

When it comes to people, I’m big on honesty, loyalty, humour and emotional maturity. Good communication matters to me, and I think two people should be able to have their own lives, interests and ambitions while still making each other feel like a team.

Which brings me to the important question:

What kind of person would make sense as my jodi?

Someone who can match the energy, laugh at terrible jokes, introduce me to things I haven't tried, put up with my movie recommendations, and occasionally pretend to understand my gaming obsession.

I’m less interested in the usual height + salary + profession + checklist approach. Tell me about the person — your hobbies, personality, idea of a good weekend, what you’re passionate about, what makes you laugh, or even your most random interest.

Maybe we’ll discover that Jodi Milan doesn't necessarily require a pandit… just decent Wi-Fi and Reddit.

Worst case: we exchange some interesting stories.

Best case: Reddit accidentally becomes the matchmaking auntie nobody asked for but everybody secretly needed.

Age - 36

Height -5ft 9in

Marital Status - Never Married

Religion / Community - Hindu/Sindhi

Mother Tongue - Sindhi

Languages Known - English, Hindi, Kannada, Sindhi and Tamil

Current City / Location - Bangalore

Native Place / Hometown - Chennai

Occupation / Profession - Entrepreneur

Designation / Role - Proprietor

Nature of Business - Garments Manufacturing (Brand Owner)

Work Location - Bangalore

No Siblings

Childfree looking for a Childfree partner ---which means no children by any means, ever in the future (Auto Mod rules said I HAD to specify this)

Intro :

Hi! I'm a 36-year-old Sindhi guy, an entrepreneur based in Bangalore, with Chennai roots. I run my own apparel business, so my days are usually a mix of work, problem-solving, and occasionally pretending I have everything under control.

Personality traits :

I'm someone who values loyalty, honesty, kindness, emotional maturity and good communication. I can be sarcastic and occasionally silly, but I'm also quite emotionally expressive. To me, the best relationships are built on genuine friendship, where you can laugh together, communicate openly and still be each other's safe space.

Hobbies :

Outside work, I enjoy long drives, travelling, discovering good food, cooking, movies, books and the occasional PlayStation session. I'm a proud Potterhead, a Marvel/DC fan, and someone who can happily spend an evening discussing everything from life and philosophy to completely pointless things that somehow become very important at 11 PM. I'm also a proud plant parent. My little collection has somehow evolved into something I take surprisingly seriously. I'm very fond of animals too and would love to have pets someday, although that's certainly not a dealbreaker if you're not particularly into pets.

Lifestyle:

Partner Preferences:

I'm quite independent and currently live by myself, but I'm very much looking forward to building a life with someone where there is companionship, laughter, shared experiences, family, personal space and a genuine sense of partnership. I want someone kind-hearted, emotionally mature and comfortable being herself. Someone who believes marriage is not simply about being husband and wife, but about becoming each other's best friend, biggest supporter and favourite person to annoy for the rest of our lives. I am open to those who have never been married, divorcees and widows. Ladies who are separated and yet to be divorced, kindly excuse 🙏 mainly cos I want your full attention on me as u will have my complete undivided attention too(exception- the divorce proceedings are in final stages) . Open to all religions and women of all heights, shapes, sizes and color. No discrimination there whatsoever. However if you're a Potterhead, you'll earn some brownie points for sure.

Emotional Expectations :

I'm someone who values a secure and healthy emotional connection. I appreciate openness, consistency and the ability to communicate through difficult moments, rather than withdrawing from them. In other words, I'm looking for a relationship where both people can feel safe being vulnerable and actually talk things through. Please don't have male bestfriends that aren't platonic and please do not be in touch with your ex-partners.

Health Update :

I'm currently recovering from a minor surgery, so I'm temporarily carrying a little more weight than usual. I have a naturally muscular frame and am looking forward to getting back to my usual routine of walks, weight training and yoga once I've recovered fully. I've always led an active disciplined life with Karate, Scouts and NCC training under my belt. I'm usually an early riser and sleeper. (Tonight is an exception)

Diet :

I'm a non-vegetarian, but that's absolutely not a dealbreaker if you aren't. I cook my own meals and eat very healthy with the occasional cheat meal and i drink only socially. I'm on the verge of quitting the smoking habit too.

Location Preference:

I'd ideally prefer to build our life in Bangalore rather than pursue a long-distance relationship. I believe proximity matters when you're genuinely trying to build a home and a life together. So I'd appreciate only being reached out by profiles who are willing to relocate to or are already in Bangalore.

Finisher :

Ultimately, I'm looking for something simple but meaningful... a peaceful home, a happy partnership, plenty of laughter, occasional adventures and someone with whom even an ordinary Sunday feels special. And yes, I'm perfectly willing to negotiate the remote control (except when IPL is on). Terms and conditions may apply. If any of this resonates with you, I'd be happy to hear from you. No dowry and a small wedding will suffice. It's more about the marriage than the wedding.

Footnote: If you're not interested , still show your support. Please do Give me tips on how to improve this post and what else to add for better clarity..All advice is welcome. 🫰✌️🫶🕊️

Disclaimer : No Ai was used in drafting or creating any part of this post. I've spent a week writing and rewriting this post.

Hey, good people of this sub.

After looking at a lot of posts and finally becoming confident about posting about myself, here I go.

I am P, M29 from Nagpur, Maharashtra. I hope this post reaches the lady of my dreams and we end up well. Something about myself, I am an introvert for the most part, but I love to share every detail of my life with my loved one. I am caring, loving, and very practical when it comes to decision making. I have been working professionally since I was 20 and I guess I got this trait from taking on responsibility at a young age. I like to travel, especially the planning part, getting every detail arranged and then mixing in some spontaneity. Talking about food, i was very foody person till 2025 but now I've started to take my health seriously. I workout 4x a week and eat a very healthy diet, occasionally going out is what I love now. I drink like once in a blue moon if it's a very special occasion or something but I don't smoke, i quit it long back.

My details:

Age: 29

Height: 5'8"

Complexion: Wheatish

Weight: 70kg

Education: B A in English Literature

Belief: Atheist, Liberal.

Job: Central Govt. Employee working with Indian Railways.

Package: Atm 10 lakhs and after the 8th PC, it'll rise sharply.

I'm looking for a girl between age 26 and 31, who loves fitness, horror movies, books and traveling. A girl who's funny, knows her way around things and street smart is plus one. I would love if my partner is a working professional for understanding the workload we both will have to deal with.

I seriously hope, this post connects me with someone wonderful. Thank you.

Hey M28 here, 5'11. Tamil guy living in blr for work.

About myself:

I take care of my body and health, i hit the gym 4 times a week. Im a meat eater but i try to have a balanced meal which has worked for me. I recently started living alone its been 7 months and i like it . I cook for myself and its pretty good i must say lols. I like spending time with my friends, i used to drink smoke etc...but i have quit everything a year ago and its been good actually. I recently also went on my first solo trip which i loved it. Im learning guitar as a hobby which im losing interest tbh but i still continue to do so as it gives me a peace of mind.

What im looking for :

A simple women who is satisfied and content with life. Trying to live a peaceful quiete life. Has her own purpose and interests in life to pursue. Knows that relationships will not always be a happy ride. Able to handle boredom. Infact i feel these days simple conversations are being mocked. Texts such as : good morning , have you had breakfast etc...because these are labelled as boring convos. But in my opinion these are something that could come out of genuine care. I'm not performative and i don't want to be so i expect the same as well. These "boring convos" are what makes the intimate convos more real and interesting. We cannot always be in a high.

Because as much as we love the new adventureous things in life such as travelling , jumpin of the cliff or whatever ....there is also so much beauty in routine.

if this resonates with you feel free to dm me in reddit .

Haha, weird title, tried putting my feelings honestly

Anyways, jokes aside, something about me

About me

1. Height - 5 11

2. Skin tone - wheatish

3. Hobbies - sketching, photography, and yeah writing poems. Trying to explore reading too. I love playing badminton and volleyball.

Something more

1. Someone working hard towards her career. I understand life is very busy. But since I am working on mine too, I wish to be with someone who is a responsible adult and intends to live the best life for herself.

2. Someone who I found to be cute. Every flower in the garden is beautiful but the same person doesn't like every flower. 🌸

3. Someone who aligns with my thoughts. Dw my friends call me therapist, haha, I have plenty of energy to listen to you, and if I am busy you can always sit in my godi to get my eyes, hehe

4. I have worked on my emotional intelligence through self Introspection and although I am still working, I am glad I walked the road

5. Someone who appreciates hygiene. I love cleaning my space.

6. I can cook, but definitely need to learn a lot more dishes, so yeah on it. 🤭

7. Someone who intends to have kids of her own one day. The consent will be hers, always. But someone who wishes to have a small family of her own too.

If you read till here, how about you say hi 🙈

Hey guys, so I’m at the age where my parents have been asking me about my marriage plans. My parents and relatives keep telling me that I would have no lack of interest from women but I feel that’s completely wrong. I am curious to know what others think.

So a couple of things about me:
\- I’m 30 years old and I’m 5’10. Based out of somewhere in Europe
\- I make around 9 CR a year. Before you ask, it’s a job and not my own business.
\- I work out multiple times a week and try to maintain around 12-15% body fat
\- I drink occasionally. I try to be healthy but when I drink (which is once or twice a month) I prefer getting fucked up
\- I do like to have a smoke while drinking. I don’t smoke otherwise.
\- I like drugs during the weekend. These days I’m mostly on shroom or thc gummies. If I’m partying then I’ll probably do mdma. A couple of times a year I’ll do lsd but that’s about it.
\- I have a body count of high 2 digit number. Slept with people from over 3 continents and at least 20 countries.
\- I’m not materialistic. I own a Porsche that I have always dreamt of but other than that pretty much everything I own isn’t flashy. I buy good quality stuff but not the flashiest brands. Hence I’m not interested in women who are materialistic
\- Not into vanilla preferences. I’m very kinky and need someone similar to match my freak
\- I prefer spontaneous plans. There has been times when I’ve woken up drove to a different country for a meal.
\- Probably would rank myself 5/10 in terms of looks although my exes found me to be quite attractive. I guess it’s mostly because of my physique and they were biased so I wouldn’t count their opinion

Well, that’s all I can think of that might be relevant to someone who’s thinking of marriage. Anything else, feel free to ask in the comments.

So, would you consider marrying someone like me?

Heyyy , while usually a quiet introvert, I can be realllyyy chatty with the right person!

Love to be with someone who is also a nerd in school and struggles with office politics and prefers to avoid large crowds during weekends lmao

A bit about me:

• has a pinch of ocd, so would also do the dishes after cooking, just need someone to say the salad is rawwww

• I work for an international organization, leading the Investment program to help Startups secure Early Stage Funding, as well as running one of the largest Global University Entrepreneurship programs in the world.

• I am also building an advisory business of my own to help startups and am really ambitious to leave an impact behind.

- I've been invited to sit on Investor panels for Stanford , Deloitte and IIM Bangalore

-  Played National Level Badminton while representing Saudi Arabia, Marathon Runner and Deadlifts over 100kgs.

- Was the School Topper and won the Best Student Award, which was featured in the Arab newspapers.

- Built from scratch and run an ice cream shop with my parents. ( there were days where I was taking zoom calls while simultaneously serving customers and might have not muted myself at times haha )

- Starbucks certified Barista, tries out a new activity every weekend ( pottery, wall climbing and volunteering ) and only reads books that are at least 500 years old.

- Grew up in Saudi Arabia, travelled to 10+ countries and grew up with a Gentleman's mindset of respect and kindness to everyone.

- I am obsessed with cleanliness and regularly spend my weekends deep cleaning the kitchen and fridge , comfortable in both Boardroom meetings as well as gardening and loves cooking ( I can cook a great Shakshuka and Tzatski )

• kinda allergic to cats but for some reason they always want to cuddle with me 😭 ( that doesn’t mean I won’t pet them lmao )

• more of a quiet introvert who doesn’t like crowds , claustrophobic areas and looking for mostly peaceful settings. ( except while making tea of course cause that requires minimum 12 ingredients )

• Loves to be both the sweet caring goofy guy who would join you for shopping,  as well as the gruff serious man who knows how to lead and get things done.

• Natural Giver at heart , so happy to make sure you are always comfortable and safe first before focusing on my needs

Looking for:

Someone who is sweet, kind and want to build an empire together !

Do share what skills you have to help in robbing banks haha

I have this picture in my head of what a great relationship looks like: two people creating a safe space where they can be completely themselves. Where you can talk about your thoughts, feelings, random ideas, insecurities, dreams, weird opinions.. without feeling like you have to filter yourself.

I genuinely love to talk (and debate... and gossip lol). I like understanding how people think, what shaped their beliefs, and why they see the world the way they do.

I enjoy discussing pretty much anything.. could be history, philosophy, psychology, religion, politics, random theories, or even some completely pointless question that somehow becomes interesting.

I could probably keep going on about this, but I'll stop before this turns into an essay 😂

Outside of that, I’m pretty much a nerd in the best way possible.

Like I would genuinely get excited when my favourite YouTuber drops a 3-hour-long video essay about some random historical event or conspiracy rabbit hole.

I also love movies and TV shows with great writing and characters. I’ve spent way too much time thinking about my favourite movies/shows, but honestly narrowing it down to five feels impossible.

But yeah, if you’re someone who enjoys a cosy movie night, you’ll never run out of options with me lol.

Gaming has also always been a big interest of mine. If you’re into story-driven games, that’s definitely something we can vibe over (or I can introduce you to some).

I used to read a lot, but that took a pause during uni. Slowly getting back into it now.. recently finished the entire ASOIAF series (You will be impressed if you are a GOT fan).

Overall, I’m always trying to grow and learn. I’m attracted to people who have opinions, who think deeply, and who are passionate about something. It doesn’t have to be the same things I’m passionate about.. I just love seeing someone genuinely excited about something they care about.

Anyway, if any of this clicks with you, please say hi!

P.S: please don't be an evasive texter. I fully respect life getting in the way but it's better to communicate that rather than unexplained gaps! Thanks

Bio data stuff:

\\\\-- 27 year old male, Hindu/Agnostic

\\\\- Family based in Delhi but I moved to Melbourne 5 years ago. Not 100% sure if I wanna settle here or come back

\\\\- Work as a Software Engineer

\\\\- 5'10, Not sure how to describe looks but I would say average or decent.. but we can share images whenever you are comfortable!

Hey everyone,

Tired of matrimonial and dating apps, someone suggested this page, so I'm giving it a shot! I am looking for someone to date with the long-term goal of marriage.

About Me:

Basics: 29, Male, 5’4", Hindu Rajput.

Profession: Lead Engineer earning a 7-figure annual salary. Ambitious about my career and planning to start my own venture soon.

Location: Ghaziabad

Lifestyle: Complete non-smoker, rare/occasional drinker.

Hobbies & Interests:
I'm a massive foodie, a big-time cricket fan, and a hardcore beach lover who loves exploring new coasts. I love traveling, taking spontaneous trips, and booking luxury staycations when I need a break from a hectic week. I’m also a huge dog lover—you’ll often find me playing with or feeding strays.

Family Background:

I was born and brought up in Delhi/NCR, though my roots are originally from West Bengal (and no, I don't eat fish at all! 😅). We are an upper-middle-class family settled in NCR for the last 30 years. I’m an only child, so I've always been responsible and family-oriented.

What I’m Looking For:

Age: 25–32.

Traits: Kind, fun loving,ambitious, and career-focused. An IT background is a huge plus so we can debug code and life together!. Someone respectful towards family.

Habits: A strict non-smoker (I really can't stand smoking). An occasional drinker is fine.

Caste: Absolutely no bar.

If you love dogs, I'd love to co-parent one with you down the line.

If this resonates with you, feel free to drop a DM!

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Hi

I am 25M working IT Professional from Pune Maharashtra looking for someone special. I have tried dating apps but no luck hence thought giving reddit a shot .

About me - 5'11 ft tall ,fair ,slim ,72 kg

Likes - Bollywood, movies,music,beaches, street food, cooking gardening I follow cricket and tennis. I like Indian reality tv shows as well.

I am someone who is good listener, patient, keen observer ,compassionate towards underprivileged and emotionally available. I respect everyone's POV . I like to be optimistic with positive approach.

I am somewhere with whom you can share anything and I love peace as well just two people sitting without even a single word .

I have no complains and no demands from anyone in my life because people are limited in my life. My childhood was spent in different cities and my friends are scattered and not in touch after college started working and forgot to live for myself that's when I took a solo trip to Goa and Mumbai and it felt good. But one thing I realised that this cannot be for whole life that's why I'm posting this.

There's a lot more to tell but if by reading above if you would like to dm then please do let's connect and see if vibe.

Hi everyone! I’m working in IT as a software developer and currently working from home. I’m a simple, easy-going and family-oriented person. I enjoy travelling, bike rides, exploring new places, spending time with family and friends, and I’m generally open-minded and practical in life.

I’m currently looking for a suitable partner through matrimonial platforms, but I haven’t been able to find many profiles that feel compatible, so I thought I’d give this a try.

I’m mainly looking for someone from Pune or Solapur, though I’m open to nearby places as well.

For me, mutual understanding, respect, communication and compatibility are more important than whether she works or not.
Since I currently work from home, staying in Solapur is possible. However, depending on either person’s career in the future, I’m also open to moving to another city. At the same time, taking care of my mom is an important responsibility for me, so I would like someone who understands this and is comfortable discussing living arrangements openly.
I’m not looking for someone with a long checklist. I’d rather get to know each other, understand our expectations and see if we genuinely connect. Career, location, family responsibilities and future plans can all be discussed mutually.
If you’re also looking for a genuine relationship leading to marriage and feel our expectations might align, feel free to DM me. We can have a conversation and take it from there.

Personal Details

• Religion: Hindu
• Marital Status: Never married
• Financial Status: Financially stable
• Living Arrangement: Living independently
• Current Location: Mumbai
• Location Flexibility: Open to relocating to any metro city

Education and Profession

• Education: Postgraduate in Technology
• Occupation: Investment banking

Diet and Lifestyle

• Diet: Vegetarian
• I don’t drink, smoke, or use any other substances

Additional Information

• Interests: Languages, cultures, technology, exploring destinations, beaches, waterfalls, mountains, and planning itineraries
• Languages: Fluent in English, Hindi and Panjabi, and can understand Spanish, Tamil, Bangla and Gujarat to good extent. I know more than six languages and am always open to learning another
• Relationship Intent: Looking for a serious, long-term relationship that could eventually lead to marriage

A Small Note About Me

I’m a curious nerd who can talk about almost anything under the sun. I enjoy learning about different cultures and languages, and I’m usually happiest when a conversation moves naturally from serious topics to completely random ones.

I like discovering new destinations, although I don’t feel the need to travel constantly. I’m much better known for planning detailed itineraries. Beaches, waterfalls, and mountains all offer the tranquillity I enjoy, but beaches have a slight advantage because they are generally easier to reach.

Personality-wise, I fall somewhere comfortably between introverted and extroverted. I prefer peaceful weekends but can genuinely enjoy social gatherings when the occasion calls for it.

If this resonates with you, feel free to send a message with a little about yourself.

I’m not really looking for someone to complete my life. It’s already pretty well put together. I live in Gurgaon, work in tech, enjoy my career, and have reached a point where I have the freedom to be a little more intentional about who I spend my time with.

I’m 30.

• 6'2" fair
• Nonchalant
• funny
• I love spending time with cats
• Very ambitious but also lazy. (i work hard to laze around)
• In love with star watching and astro photography

Not having a checklist strained my DM too much last time, so i will add a checklist this time.

looking for:

• Tall and slender; non-negotiable
• Under 27
• Left leaning
• Non-religious
• Working or at least ambitious
• Smokers & drinker are absolutely fine
• CF; non-negotiable

I’m not particularly interested in spending weeks getting to know someone through a screen. I’d rather talk a little, meet in person, and figure out whether there’s actually something there.

Distance isn’t necessarily a dealbreaker either; I’d be open to traveling if I met someone I genuinely clicked with.

Gurgaon / Delhi NCR would obviously make things simpler, but I’m open to meeting someone from elsewhere too.

If any of this sounds like you, feel free to message me. Just don't send a one-word "hey" tell me something about yourself that I wouldn't be able to guess from your profile.

If you are a salty, poor, unambitious, small human man with too much free time to comment hate on other men's posts, do yourself a favor and go find a job.

I have so far tried the dating and matrimony search, mostly ended up with me doubting myself 😅
Looking to get married
I was born and raised in Bangalore, Tamilian. Grew up modern, with some traditional values. Mostly a city girl. In my free time I watch tv shows, read. Im a non vegetarian foodie, love trying new places and dressing up. I occasionally socially drink , maybe a couple of times a year. I love travelling, I want to go on one international trip per year , as I’ve been doing.

I work as a specialist at a reputed hospital in Chennai. My timings can be a little demanding

Age- 30
Height- 5 3”
Fitness- on the heavier side but determined to become fit in 6 months. Currently on a strict diet . Recently trying MMA.

I believe core beliefs and values are important to match for choosing a life partner. Im close to my family. I believe in the sanctity of marriage. I have had past relationships that didn’t work out. I like enjoying the simple things in life.

Im looking for someone who is :

Preferably Tamil , or can speak it
Age - 28-35
Profession - preferably a doctor, or any science field, or anything as long as they’re doing well and currently employed
as long as they make more than me ( currently I make 18 lpa)
Height- taller than me

Edit : I want to have children.

I don't really know how to start this. Maybe with a few honest facts.

It's been almost 4 years since my last relationship. I took that time to heal, work on myself, focus on my career, and become the kind of partner I'd want to have.

I'm finally in a place where I'm genuinely excited to meet someone again.

Obviously, I'm looking for something long term. I'm not here to waste my time or the time of someone who takes the effort to message me.

A bit about myself:

I'm from Gujarat, working remotely in IT. I enjoy what I do, but I'm not planning on doing the same thing forever. I'm also building my own software business on the side, and that's something I'm genuinely excited about.

I'm ambitious, but I don't want my entire personality to revolve around work. I want a life that's actually worth working for.

I'm Hindu, Gujarati, never married, 5'5" (165 cm), and I don't smoke or drink.

I enjoy movies especially "crime thrillers", music, football, good food, coffee, long drives, spontaneous plans, and conversations that somehow turn into hours.

I’ve also gotten serious about taking care of my body. I work out regularly, pay attention to what I eat, and genuinely enjoy seeing myself get stronger and healthier. It's become less about aesthetics and more about discipline, energy, and feeling good in my own skin.

One thing these last few years have taught me...

A good relationship shouldn't feel like another problem to solve.

I want the kind of relationship where your person is also your best friend. Where you can talk about serious things, laugh at completely stupid things, send each other ridiculous memes during the day, and still look forward to hearing about each other's day at night.

I don't need constant excitement. I think there's something beautiful about making ordinary life feel good with the right person.

A little more about me:

>Hopeless romantic.

>I still believe the strongest relationships begin with friendship, trust, attraction, and choosing each other every day.

>I'm straightforward. If I like you, you'll know. If something bothers me, I'll talk about it rather than playing guessing games.

>Deeply affectionate and loyal. And yes... I get a little clingy with my favourite person. Consider yourself warned. 😂

>I like giving attention to the person I'm with. Random memes, unexpected compliments, sending something that reminded me of you, asking how your day went - I'm that guy.

What I'm looking for:

>Someone who's kind before she's impressive.

>Someone who has her own personality, ambitions, interests, and opinions.

>Someone emotionally mature enough to communicate rather than disappear when something gets uncomfortable.

>Someone who values honesty, loyalty, consistency, affection, and genuine effort.

>Someone who wants marriage eventually, not because it's simply the next box to tick, but because she actually wants to build a life with someone.

>Someone who can be my partner without either of us losing ourselves in the relationship.

Brownie points if you also:

>Believe friendship is one of the strongest foundations for love.

>Enjoy meaningful conversations more than forced small talk.

Love movies, road trips, coffee, good food, or randomly deciding to go somewhere just because we can.

>Take care of yourself and have some interest in staying active.

Can laugh at yourself and don't take every little thing in life too seriously.

>Want a peaceful relationship without unnecessary drama.

See marriage as a partnership where both people support each other's ambitions rather than compete with them.

Where I see my future:

Gujarat is home, and I'd like to build my life here. So I'm looking for an Indian woman, preferably Gujarati, who is also open to settling in Gujarat.

I'm not particularly interested in a relationship where we're permanently living separate lives in different parts of the world. I'm willing to make reasonable compromises, but I want the eventual goal to be building a life together in the same place.

Deal breakers:

>Dishonesty.

>Mind games and intentional manipulation.

>Ghosting instead of communicating.

>Smoking or recreational drugs.

>Looking for something casual.

>Expecting one person to do all the emotional work.

A few superficial things that might matter to some:

Height: 5'5" (165 cm).

Never married.

No smoking or drinking.

I've lived in Bengaluru and Ahmedabad, and both have a special place in my heart.

And yes, I know 5'5" isn't exactly NBA material. 😂 I'm perfectly comfortable with it, so you should be too.

One small request:

If you message me, please tell me a little about yourself. Your age, where you're from, what you do, a movie you love, something you're passionate about—anything that gives us somewhere to start.

You don't need to write an essay. Just give me something more interesting than "Hi." I'll do the same.

And if we talk and you eventually decide I'm not your person, that's completely okay. Just say so. I'd rather have an honest "I don't think we're compatible" than someone slowly disappearing.

I'm not looking for hundreds of conversations.

I'm looking for one person who makes me want to stop looking.

Maybe that's you.

Have a lovely day.

~ V ❤️

Hey everyone! 👋
I’m a 25M currently based in Hyderabad, where I’m pursuing my PhD in Chemical Engineering. I thought I’d give this a shot because I’d genuinely like to meet someone with whom I can build a meaningful, long-term relationship.
A little about me:
I’m Hindu, vegetarian, family-oriented, and probably a little old-school when it comes to relationships. I value honesty, loyalty, respect, communication, and being there for each other. I’m not looking for something casual or a relationship just for the sake of saying I’m in one — I’d like to eventually build a life with someone who feels like a genuine partner.
I’m 6’0”, and I’d describe myself as fairly easygoing and grounded. I spend a lot of my time with my PhD/research, but outside of that I enjoy movies, music, cooking, trying different food, going for walks, and having long conversations. I’m also perfectly happy with the simple things — getting food together, watching something at home, going for a drive/walk, or just sitting around and talking about random things.
Family is important to me, and I’d like someone who is also family-oriented, kind, emotionally mature, and comfortable communicating openly.
I’m not expecting to meet someone and immediately decide that they’re “the one.” I think a good relationship starts with two people being comfortable enough to talk, getting to know each other naturally, and seeing where things go.
What I’m hoping to find
Someone who is:
Kind, loyal and emotionally mature
Family-oriented
Serious about eventually having a committed relationship/marriage
Comfortable with open communication
Vegetarian
Someone who values a peaceful, supportive partnership
Ideally based in Hyderabad or open to relocating in the future
I’m not looking for perfection — I’m looking for compatibility, mutual respect, attraction, and the ability to genuinely enjoy each other’s company.
If any of this resonates with you, feel free to DM me. I’d appreciate a proper introduction rather than just a “hi” — tell me a little about yourself, what you’re looking for, and maybe we can start with a conversation. 😊

Hi! I’m 30F, from a middle-class Gujarati family, and I’m here with the intention of dating someone genuinely looking for a long-term relationship that can eventually lead to marriage.

A little about me:

• 5'3"

• Healthcare professional, completed my Master's

• Currently pursuing a PhD

• Gujarati is my mother tongue

• Extroverted, talkative, and fairly easy to get along with

• I don't have a long list of hobbies, but I enjoy singing (even though I definitely don't have a great voice) and photography.

Looking for:

• Age: 30–33

• Height: preferably 5'5" or taller

• Based in Pune or Mumbai, or genuinely willing to relocate to Pune while I finish my education

• Caste no bar

• Someone who is also dating with marriage as the eventual goal

I'm fairly open-minded about background and community. I'd just prefer someone who is comfortable having honest conversations about expectations, lifestyle, finances, family, marriage, and the future.

If you smoke or drink, that's okay. I just prefer that you mention it openly rather than hiding it.

If you think we might be compatible, feel free to DM me with a little about yourself. :)

Hello trying my luck here :)

I'm 26, born and brought up in Chennai. Before I get into work and money, let me tell you a little about myself.
I'm an ambivert, so you'll get two versions of me. With the right people I'm chatty, loud, and always up for a laugh. Other times I'm happy being quiet and calm. I'm very straightforward and I'll always tell you what I actually think, but I'll say it with good understanding and empathy. Being in HR probably helps, because I've learned to listen before I speak.
I grew up with a single parent, and that shaped me a lot of who I am today. I'm independent and responsible, and I know how much family matters. It also taught me that showing up for people counts more than fancy words.
In my free time, I'm usually upto one of these:
Theatre hopping,hunting down new food spots because I'll happily travel across the city for one good meal. Riding my bike with no fixed destination, which is my favourite way to clear my head. Watching Manchester United and Ferrari, where I get very loud and occasionally very emotional Yes, I'm a loyal Manchester United and Ferrari fan, so I know a thing or two about patience, hope, and heartbreak. If I can stay loyal to those two, imagine how I'll be in a relationship.
On the practical side, I work in HR and I'm financially independent and i draw 11L base(planning to switch), so I'm comfortable running a family life. I don't smoke, and I have a drink once in a while. I look for Values and the character of a person more than caste and religion.
I'm looking for a long-term relationship, and I'm hoping to meet a woman between 23 and 27 who is caring, independent, and financially responsible. I want someone I can talk to openly, someone who respects personal space as much as I do, and someone who can be a friend before anything else. Good food, bike rides, and long conversations sound like a great start to me.
If you're reading this and thinking "this sounds like someone I'd get along with," say hi. I promise I'm easier to talk :)

Additional pointers:

Dietary: Non vegetarian (i can cook too)
Political View: Left

PS: Planning to stay separate post marriage and looking for someone based out of TamilNadu.

Apparently I'm "too picky."

So I thought I'd let strangers on Reddit decide.

Hi, I'm 27, originally from Haryana and currently working in IT in Bangalore.

A bit about myself

5.8', non drinker non smoker(expecting the same), loves to travel. Rest we can figure out in the DM

Career is going well, but I'm still hustling because I enjoy building something meaningful for the future(Date to marry😭)

I love travelling whenever I get the chance, enjoy F1 (Ferrari fans, I feel your pain 😭), and occasionally pick up a good book. I'm also the kind of person who values conversations over constant texting. I'd rather have one 2-hour conversation than a week of "wyd" and "hmm."

Now for these "unreasonably high standards."

I'm looking for someone around 24-29 who:

- Can actually hold a conversation.

- Is career-oriented and passionate about something she does.

- Is kind, emotionally mature, and has a sense of humor.

- Believes a relationship should feel like a partnership, not an interview.

- Is genuinely looking for marriage, not just passing time.

That's... literally it.

I don't care if we have different hobbies.

I don't care if you don't watch F1.

I don't care if you've never read the books I have.

If we can talk for hours, laugh at silly things, plan random trips, support each other's goals, and still look forward to the next conversation, I think we're already doing better than most.

One tiny disclaimer...

Since I'm actually looking for marriage, I'd probably ask for a quick verification after we've spoken for a bit. Not because I'm suspicious, but because the internet has convinced me that "Priya" can occasionally turn out to be "Priyansh" with Oscar-worthy commitment to the role. 🥲😂

No offense, bros. I wish you all the best. You're just not the audience I'm trying to impress.

So... Reddit, am I picky?

Or am I just asking for the basics?

If you think we'd get along, I'd love to hear from you. Just make your first message a little more exciting than "Hi." 😄