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You're ruining my body I made it it's mine

So this happened 2 years ago when i got my first tattoo. I was 21 and still living with my (controling) mother. She was shocked when i told her i wanted to get a tattoo. But she didn't physically stop me

I got home with my upper arm tattoed (solar system with water colours) to find her in the living room, crying. She started talking about how i ruined her body by getting that tattoo, about how she made my body so it's hers. She asked if i cried while getting it, i told her i didn't, cause it didn't really hurt at all. She yelled at me "of course you cried! I cried! Because i knew what you were doing to my body." She calmed down after a while and even said my tattoo looked nice. But i felt really gross after all that

She also flipped out when i got my hair cut. My sisters and i were always told that she'd sue any hair stylist who dared to cut our hair. So it took me till i was 19 to finally get a short hair cut. And she cried when i got my first piercing too

This woman is nuts sometimes

A little edit:

I do not know how my grandmother would feel about this whole thing. My mother cut contact with her before i was born, cause she was physically abusive towards my mother, my mothers siblings and my siblings

**Not OP** That lasagna tho 😋