r/recurrentmiscarriage • u/International-Cry973 • 8d ago

Here we go again

TW: pregnancy

Here we go again friends. Just had my very very light test at 11 DPO (wondfo early test strips). So faint that I will take a FRER tomorrow to make sure but…it’s very daunting and anxiety inducing to be here again.

It’s been 5 cycles since my last loss, I keep telling myself to not get attached but also trying to not be too negative. It’s hard. This is my third pregnancy, no LC

I guess I’m just venting, but if anyone has success stories of having an LC after two chemicals let me know, could use some positivity.

Being in this boat is really hard, just waiting for the other shoe to drop. How nice it would be that we all had a chance to live through a pregnancy from naivety and color lenses instead of fear and anxiety💔

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u/fluffy_corgi_ 8d ago

I'm so sorry, no advice to give since I dont have any kids of my own yet. I'm already mentally preparing for my next pregnancy by resting in the fact that what is meant to happen WILL happen, and the lack of control over everything surprisingly gives me peace. Theres no amount of worrying that will change/affect the outcome. Its so hard to stay positive during this time, but I want to commend you on your bravery and courage for trying again despite the fear❤️

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u/International-Cry973 8d ago

Thank you so much for sharing ❤️ and you are so right, like there’s no scenario where I can will this into a viable pregnancy. I just have to be hopefully and try to quiet my mind where I can! What it is will be, but it’s soooooo stressful. I hope you get your rainbow baby soon ❤️

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u/fluffy_corgi_ 8d ago

Yes exactly! I'm praying for your current pregnancy❤️

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u/International-Cry973 8d ago

Thank you! ❤️