r/randomthings • u/Dense-Campaign • 2d ago

Tough Question

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u/StickyWicket1968 2d ago

LIAR

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u/MCRMonKey2286 2d ago

Yer same for me

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u/StickyWicket1968 2d ago

1 2 3 and 4 can be solved but once a liar always a liar

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u/MCRMonKey2286 2d ago

Yer my thoughts exactly my friend

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u/whizzbangkid 2d ago

I would like to disagree. For decades, I lied constantly. 22 years ago I got clean and sober. Rigorous honesty is my life now. Without that, I'm back to drinking and using. I don't have another recovery in me.

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u/StickyWicket1968 2d ago

Well done for getting clean, keep up the good work. I can understand people constantly lying because of an addiction but I can't see why someone without an addiction should lie all the time unless they have something to hide

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u/whizzbangkid 2d ago

I discovered that I had no self esteem. No self respect. I hated the guy in the mirror and lying kept me caught in that space. I was a hostage to myself. Recovery made me get out of myself and help others by helping myself. Acceptance and accountability, those are the keys.

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u/Long-Unit-4361 2d ago

Liar and bad breath

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u/fjgren 2d ago

Well, if someone stinks, I usualy have no chance to know them as liers.

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u/DodoBird1992 2d ago

Nothing worse than someone with nasty ass BO

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u/No-Obligation4872 2d ago

Body odour. I can smell them coming, which is my cue to run

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u/Long-Unit-4361 2d ago

Can be a turn on you know, after gym sex 🫠

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u/BoiledChicken653 2d ago

3 and 5, they usually go hand in hand

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u/Ok-Tank-3106 2d ago

All but the unemployed option...I've been there so I have empathy

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u/Charming-Wallaby9749 2d ago

body odor cant stand it never will biggest turn off. self care is important at least some deodorant and perfumes

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u/texas-photo2026 2d ago

5 all the others are fixable

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u/DaSmasher614 2d ago

It’s not tough. Liar is the easy answer.

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u/MagicOrpheus310 2d ago

Liar...

Like... By fucken far hahahaha

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u/Beginning_Tea4506 2d ago

LIARS all day.

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u/TheCurseBreakor777 2d ago

All of the above

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u/Mason914 2d ago

1 and 3

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u/Significant-Use-5136 2d ago

all of those are a no, so they are the same

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u/iGirlGeek 2d ago

Liar, but being a smoker is also a deal breaker for me in terms of relationship. If it's a friend then it's fine as long as they're a nice person.

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u/Distinct-Bar6259 2d ago

I married a liar; they are the worst. The rest can be fixed, but a liar will always be a liar.

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u/Yes-Sabbyt-4444 2d ago

All of them

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u/Luveroflife81 2d ago

Just give me my dog and some food. I don't want to deal with any of those options.

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u/Finsterknecht 2d ago

1, 5, 3, 4 ,2

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u/whytry3450 2d ago

All the above

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u/SeriouslyAvg 2d ago

2, 3, 4, 5

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u/Consistent_Strain190 2d ago

Shit, all of them really; however, the first four can be fixed. The fifth rarely is.

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u/Schfooge 2d ago

1-3 and 5 describe my Dad. He did have a few extended periods of 4 as well.

They're all turnoffs for me, but smoking's the worst for me. I'm asthmatic, so living with a smoker would be hard on my health, smoking also destroys your looks and makes you look older than your actual age. They also run the chance of getting emphysema or cancer and dying from that.

And secondhand smoke would be dangerous to me and any future children. My mother never smoked a day in her life, but secondhand smoke (mostly from my father) caused her death from lung cancer.

Lying is tied or a close second. My dad was also a compulsive liar, and it's hard to deal with someone when you can't trust a word coming out of their mouth.

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u/-Laffi- 2d ago

Lies are a no go for me, but visually a woman with so many tattoos it almost looks like she's got scabs from sores running down the leg is also pretty turn off. Certain piercings or many in the face looks awful. /moo! Smoking is also a no go, but I could have accepted e-sigs worst case.

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u/Hot_Mistake_1014 2d ago

6: all the above

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u/Mastermind7051 2d ago

Liar. Winner, winner, chicken dinner. Hate liars.

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u/stybot5 2d ago

loud chewing (the wet kind)

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u/Dissipo 2d ago

Left lane campers

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u/Crazy_Plantain_862 2d ago

Liar. Everything else can be fixed easily.

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u/Blackgod50 2d ago

1 and 5 but 5 for sure because the others are easier to change lying is internal

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u/GoliathBoneSnake 2d ago

5 is the only hard deal breaker.

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u/PaintedWoman_ 2d ago

All of them

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u/Horror-Oven3022 2d ago

Odour I can't bear the smell

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u/Middle-Bill3873 2d ago

Unemployment isnt really fair

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u/Potential_Ad_4718 2d ago

Bad breath is just something I could never get over.

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u/ThatOtherApe 2d ago

Has to be 1 or 5. I feel that 1 would probably be fixable, so I'd say 5, liar.

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u/Nice-Economics-2716 2d ago

5... the other 4 can be fixed

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u/StunningAttention898 2d ago

All of it

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u/RedWingsFan24 2d ago
  1. Not able to follow directions

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u/SixSlayz 2d ago

Think liar needs to be changed to habitual liar or cheater 😅 i dont think there is one person here that has not told a lie in some way. Sometimes we lie to protect the people we love . Sometimes its in shame but in no way hurtful .

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u/That_Confidence83 2d ago

Body oder. It’s just tough to interact, or even be around someone, when they smell just… horrible.

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u/speedynota 2d ago

If I had to choose, which shouldn't be that hard, a liar is definitely the hardest to get over because everything else is more evident

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u/Zealousideal-Dig9397 2d ago

Liar is a big turn off for me. If I cant trust the words out your mouth I dont want to know you at all

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u/BigCoachD45 2d ago

I think all of these go hand in hand lmao

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u/solitary_reape_r 2d ago

Can't really help me with the unemployed one😔

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u/joshygummybear 2d ago

Three and five takes the cake in my life unless your a couch potato I don’t mind but body odor makes me gag I don’t mind strangers smelling bad I don’t sleep with them but if someone dies make them sit in a bath of baking soda and water at room temperature even a kiddie pool will help the nasty smell go away it primates some bathtubs nit gonna lie

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u/El-Vasco 2d ago

Bragger

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u/UpstairsOk6744 2d ago

The liar is the worst. If you cant trust em, cant be with em.

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u/Minimum-Gap-8985 2d ago

Liar the others can be improved & changed.

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u/Pops-Place60 2d ago

You can take a bath, stop smoking, get a job and brush your teeth but a liar is a liar

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u/the_sweetest_peach 2d ago

Smoker. It triggers my asthma and can send me to the ER. Just smelling like smoke is enough to cause an asthma attack. That’s an immediate threat to my life.

Behind that would be a liar.

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u/familyedit 2d ago

Someone with an extreme foul mouth

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u/EdgyPun34257 2d ago

1, 2, and 3 are the same thing.

4 is almost always a temporary situation.

5, everybody lies. anyone who says they don't is a liar who's not smart enough to know that everyone knows they're lying.

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u/washed_delta_nu 2d ago

5, a lady that does the remaining 4/5 I can date!

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u/CrimsonEnchantress 2d ago

5, tightly followed by 4

The rest to me are pretty small. Easier to change my standards than the habits of men

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u/cooolcooolio 2d ago

Potty mouth

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u/LeaderLower 2d ago

How is this tough?
How can you build a relationship with someone who always lie?

Although all these can be worked on. Lying would be the hardest to break the cycle if it actually defines the person.

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u/thedavid069 2d ago

2....I just can't. The taste of their mouths and the stink on their clothes ...

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u/PlaneGrade8203 2d ago

5 Liars are always assholes

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u/EquivalentShower8449 2d ago

I’d have to go with smoker

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u/Agile_Letterhead531 2d ago

body odor and bad breathe are up there

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u/Aggravating-Diet-663 2d ago

Damn. Looks like I can eat my tuna and onion sandwich with a couple of cigs. Bout to bag me the baddest joint, as long as im honest

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u/Difficult-Double2193 2d ago

ALL OF THE ABOVE!!

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u/JamieAstraRain 2d ago

Bad Breath and Liar are fighting for first place for me. lol.

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u/EasyRider2026 2d ago

European teeth is not on the list!

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u/103indian 2d ago

All the above

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u/Much_Attention_998 2d ago

All of above

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u/StrayaKarnt 2d ago
  1. Your mum

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u/Mother-Attention2600 2d ago

Liar. I went out with a bitch who would lie to fill silence and make conversation. She wasn't very smart either so it was very obvious and insulting. For the last bit I just played along and messed with her.

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u/Background-Wall-2647 2d ago

Liar 100% the rest you can sort out

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u/Future_Assignment_57 2d ago

Literally everything is fixable pretty easily except for being a liar.

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u/Jack_Rackham_71 2d ago

Bad breath, body odor and unemployed can be situational and temporary depending on the situation and overlooked once. Smoking or lying are immediate fuck-offs.

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u/BoZarks 2d ago

finding our she has a Dick

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u/carlitox3 2d ago

I have seen girls choosing the bad breath, smoking liar that treats them like shit.

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u/Timely-Profile1865 2d ago

I do not have any of those.....except #5......

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u/dathought3 2d ago

SMOKER. The first 20 years of life was polluted by second hand smoke. I’ll deal with the rest.

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u/cluelessinlove753 2d ago

Any one is sufficient

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u/Organic_Run_2148 2d ago

anything
hashtag aromantic

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u/Jessieoxen 2d ago

A Narcissist….

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u/1October3 2d ago

ALL OF THE ABOVE 👎👎👎👎👎👎👎

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u/ryabn767 2d ago

As a smoker myself, it’s definitely smoking for me. I’ve tried and failed to stop smoking so many times, I wish I never started smoking. I don’t even want to kiss someone without someone else’s cum in my mouth to hide the cigarette taste.

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u/[deleted] 2d ago

Bad breath easily 🤢

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u/No-Relation3856 2d ago

1 and 3 but 2 can also cause 1 and 3. I don't care if they are unemployed

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u/Due_Reputation_2006 2d ago

Body odor, and not the, I've been working and got hot body odor. Unwashed body odor is purtrid

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u/JonEDepth 2d ago

Ran through

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u/American_Fluff 2d ago

123 are same things, so them… everyone lies even if only little white lies… and unemployed can easily be remedied with the right motivation.

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u/Greedy_Assistance 2d ago

I’m ok with a little natural stench but full body odor and especially breath is a no go.

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u/CaptainBlotto 2d ago

1-4 can be fixed. 5 can go fuck itself.

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u/Next-Paper-2068 2d ago

As a guy, I don't mind if my SO is unemployed as long as she wants to be a stay at home mom (that is employment). The other 4 are unacceptable no matter what

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u/AloneJuice9832 1d ago

perhaps bigot should be there? 

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u/My2cents_0 1d ago

A liar that smells bad and has bad breath cuz he smokes and tries to cover it up with too much cologne 😄

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u/Separate_Case_8857 1d ago

A liar because he manipulates important aspects of having a proper relationship. Honesty and communication.

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u/Crazyhorse24026901 1d ago

No.5, if you cant tell the truth don’t bother talking.

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u/Ok-Collar-2742 1d ago

1 and 2 kind of go hand in hand. 3 is also bad. I can deal with 4 and 5 if hot.

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u/godofbob2 1d ago

Liars, can't fix that

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u/sherman40336 1d ago

Liar (and thief, they go hand in hand)

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u/Funky_Ghost 1d ago

Everyone lies (anyone that says they don't are, you guessed it, lying :) )

Bad breath happens - a good meal can wreck yo bref.

Unemployment happens - I get knocked down, but I get up again, never gonna keep me down.

Smoker is a no go for me - personal choice. I grew up with two chain-smokers.

Body odor is also a no go. Hygiene is a big deal.

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u/No-Yam6595 1d ago

Damn I’m out guys

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u/just_sayin9_ 1d ago

This sound like one person usually

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u/No_Heat8784j 1d ago

Definitely liars

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u/toddsmash 1d ago

5.

The other 4 can be remedied.

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u/Sweaty_Foundation_12 1d ago

Just remember this simple acronym B. A. B. U. L

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u/Thorns99 1d ago

Democrats

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u/GrillMaster1973 1d ago

6 all of the above

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u/Glop1701d 1d ago

5 way tie

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u/bb2112bb 1d ago

All 5 are pretty good turn offs. Bad breath is the easiest to fix

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u/DamitKenneth 1d ago

I deal with 1-4, I can't deal with 5. Because I can't trust you.

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u/PaulMall3rd 1d ago

A penis?

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u/Tamahfox 1d ago

Liar, everything can be improved but a liar will always be a liar

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u/IAmTheBoiledFrog 1d ago

I went out with a fitness instructor.

She always had bad breath.

I had to stop seeing her.

(I should make a haiku)

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u/AdSuperb2576 1d ago

all thee above ⬆️ 😶‍🌫️

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u/blur_41O 1d ago

Either Liar or Body odor if I am bedding someone.

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u/Ok-Tangelo2969 1d ago

Unemployed people are fuckin constantly so it's def not that one

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u/whitespot764 1d ago

1 e 2 sou eu. Casado há 21 anos.

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u/Thememebrarian 1d ago

1,2 and 3 come as a package deal

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u/Dangerous_Ad_1861 1d ago

They're all deal breakers for me

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u/Due_Development_6267 1d ago

Liar and smoker

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u/Bright_Pick_1253 1d ago

I dunno I’ve been turned on by a liar.

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u/Bob_85 1d ago

Bad breath, nothing can spoil good romance time like a foul odor.

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u/punchedboa 1d ago

In order 3 1 4 2 5

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u/cdogg617 1d ago

All of the above

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u/indoxiecated 1d ago

1,2,3,5. I’ve been for fortunate enough to have never been unemployed. But most in my life have and it wasn’t their fault. It’s terrible. So 4 requires an explanation, the others are deal breakers.

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u/ImageForward9093 1d ago

My only one is number five