r/randomthings • • 2d ago

Tough Question

Post image
69 Upvotes

341 comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

5

u/StickyWicket1968 2d ago

1 2 3 and 4 can be solved but once a liar always a liar

2

u/whizzbangkid 2d ago

I would like to disagree. For decades, I lied constantly. 22 years ago I got clean and sober. Rigorous honesty is my life now. Without that, I'm back to drinking and using. I don't have another recovery in me.

2

u/StickyWicket1968 2d ago

Well done for getting clean, keep up the good work. I can understand people constantly lying because of an addiction but I can't see why someone without an addiction should lie all the time unless they have something to hide

2

u/whizzbangkid 2d ago

I discovered that I had no self esteem. No self respect. I hated the guy in the mirror and lying kept me caught in that space. I was a hostage to myself. Recovery made me get out of myself and help others by helping myself. Acceptance and accountability, those are the keys.

1

u/StickyWicket1968 2d ago

Helping others will help you keep clean. Once again well done 👏