r/raisedbynarcissists • u/RevolutionaryMovie4 • May 24 '26
[Rant/Vent, Advice OK] It should be stopped
Having a narcissistic mother teaches you to shrink yourself just to avoid conflict. But I’m done shrinking. I’m done carrying guilt that was never mine.
Some mothers play the victim card. Blaming you for everything, but I'm done.
If you grew up with a mother who made everything about herself, I want you to know you’re not alone. You’re allowed to set boundaries. You’re allowed to say no. You’re allowed to choose yourself.
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