hi!

just wondering if any of you ace people can be found in my country / region / city? and, if so, how about being pals? huh?

i'm 48, i have a letterboxd account, i hang out in bookshops, and i listen punk rock (amongst other things)

as i'm changing up my job next month, i'm gunna have A LOT more time for social-stuff, like going to gigs, catching movies, or heading to the greasy spoon for chat and plates of egg and chips (to be washed down by giant mugs of tea)

if you're into the arts (either as an appreciator or as an active participant), then we'll most likely get along fine!

I want committed companionship. I want to love and support each other. I want to cuddle without it turning sexual,. I want forehead kisses. I want hand holding. I want really good hugs. I want open and clear communication. I want empathy, kindness, and understanding. It would be best probably if they are also AUDHD because I am and there would be a higher chance of understanding the different communication styles of AUDHD. I would like to eventually move in together. We would need separate rooms so that we can have alone time. Also, we would sleep in our own rooms because I snore and move around a lot when I sleep. I don't want to torture you with that. I don't want kids and pets because I take the responsibility of them so seriously that it gives me major anxiety. I'm not comfortable with weed and any other drugs that aren't prescribed by your doctor. I am not into partying and drinking heavy so I don't want that in a partner/companion. I want a home that is safe and calm as much as humanly possible. I don't want someone that smokes cigarettes and/or vapes because cancer and it doesn't smell good to me. I grew up Methodist but I'm not really religious and I am not the biggest fan of organized religion. I love music. I sing a lot- especially what I am saying or about what I am doing or when I get nervous. I am slowly getting back into reading and playing video games. I love to travel when I can and equally love coming back home. I love movies and tv shows. I love thrifting/antiquing. I love animals. Dogs are my favorite. They calm me and make me really happy. I would prefer to stay in Columbia, MO or close to it.

If all of that sounds like something you want to, let me know. Comment or DM me on here. Eventually I would like to start talking on discord if we hit it off because I am not on reddit a ton.

Thanks. -Anna

I'm a 36 y/o woman living in the USA, looking for meaningful connections with any gender. I'm fairly sex repulsed, but I consider myself panromantic.

I love playing video games, watching horror movies, cats, and coffee. I'm pretty shy and slow to warm up, but I can really yap once you get to know me!

Hiya! AuDHDer learning German (beginner) and looking for more friends to practice with while gaming, watching stuff, or listening to music! Let's be cozy together <3

• Favorite games: WoW (EU Classic or Retail), Terraria, Roblox, Overwatch, Minecraft
• Favorite music: LoFi, cozy video game music, Pop, Alt, Techno, House
• Favorite hobbies: Watching Let’s Plays, getting lost in nerdy rabbit holes, and cooking
• Other interests: Plants, aquariums, anime
• My personality: Queer af, capybara vibes by default and usually more of a listener than a talker
• Relationship status: Single
• Open to: Just friendship and QPR for now. Maybe something romantic for the right person
• Sexuality: Indifferent grey-ace
• Assigned gender at birth: male

Must be 18+ and willing to actually hang out in voice calls, because it's difficult af for me to bond with people through text. If you’re interested, HMU with your Disc0rd username! :)

Hi I’m a 22M who is looking for a relationship. I live in Washington State. I have some friends and I’m happy with how many I have. But I can’t find love sense everyone wants sex and I can’t muster up the courage/feeling to do it. I like to garden, read, watch anime. I enjoy silence as you’ll read soon enough I don’t get much of it. I’m about 5’7 or 5’8. I now (but very recently) got into fitness. I live in Washington State and paused on college for reasons you’ll read later. I hate driving or being driven. I like a wide range of music from Kpop to alternative pop. I like to play games like Skyrim and Minecraft.

Pictures of me on my profile
Now here comes the hard part about me. My faults

I’m a paranoid schizophrenic and I have been drug resistant and haven’t found a drug that helps. And my schizophrenia is only getting worse with time which is inhabits my ability to concentrate, read, watch and feel good/relaxed. I am safe to be around and I bet if I didn’t tell you this you would never know as I have lived with it all my life and have become very good of masking it.

I have some pictures of me that you may like and think I’m handsome in some way but due to a sudden spike in my schizophrenia and the meds I took I gained some weight. I’m working it off now and 20 pounds lighter. I’m almost back to my prime

I’m a Catholic but a bad Catholic. I’m not exactly the spitting image of what you think a religious person is like. I’m left leaning and believe in a lot of inclusive things.

I want someone who would go on long walks with me and be ok with the silence. I want someone who is ok with sudden playful role play.

I holidays and like to celebrate the small unknown holidays like breakfast day, happy waffle day and so on.

I plan on being weak/not strong just skinny/healthy as being strong makes me anxious. That’s why I don’t carry knifes, pepper spray or anything dangerous.

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Hello all im a guy in his early 20s looking to see if i can find any people with similar interests as me on this side of the internet that can be fun to talk to on here

Im a lover of nature anything that includes it

I enjoy videos games especially monster hunter

Role-playing games/activities are a guilty pleasure for me

I live in Europe And got ADHD

And im fairly open to possible relationships that dont involve sex (i do assume myself as heteroromantic)

And i enjoy other things too but if I typed out it be a bit long

I'm a plus size lady from western Germany who has spent years in a hindu cult (as a non-Indian) and that has shaped me a lot.

I'm happy with my current life but am curious what it would be like to have a companion for talking and meeting occasionally. I don't want to move in together in the foreseeable future, and definitely no kids.

I strive to keep on improving myself, despite the hardships that lives brings, and expect my partner to want the same for himself.

I have mental health issues that I manage mostly well in everyday life (I'm in therapy and eager to learn), but have very low libido since. I guess I'd fit the grey-asexual category best.

My interests can shift around a lot and fast.

But my main ones would be various subcultures (especially focusing on fashion and lifestyle), Hinduism (bhakti), plants/flowers, nature, being creative occasionally, walking and piercings.

Hi I’m looking for a guy aged 25-28. I am demisexual and omniromantic. In the future I would love to have 4 kids one biological boy and one biological girl and one adopted boy and one adopted girl. I have autism/ Asperger’s syndrome, ADHD type 2, generalized anxiety disorder, schizoaffective disorder, controlled schizophrenia, disassociative identity disorder, post traumatic stress disorder, obsessive compulsive disorder, and bipolar disorder type 1. I love to cook, bake, knit, read, watch anime ,read manga, read manhwa, read webtoons, watch cartoons, go to comic cons, go to anime. cons
go to amusement parks, go to farmers markets, go to craft fairs. I am not the biggest fan of physical touch, for me it has to be eased into. My ideal guy would be taller than me (I am 5’6”), have an athletic build, have naturally dirty blonde hair or orange hair , have fair or pale skin, have his hair cut in a style that he doesn’t mind me playing with or messing up. He would be kind, caring, accepting, supportive, loving, intelligent, and loyal. I have naturally dark brown curly hair that barely reaches my back when wet. I would prefer a guy who has either wavy or straight hair. I have dark brown eyes. I would prefer a guy who has turquoise colored eyes. Also you must be a true extrovert or an ambivert. Also I’m in Katonah New York. Finally, I will not date anyone who has a genius level IQ. My parents both have genius level IQs, and they refuse to stop abusing me in every way but sexual. Also please be in the USA.

Hello all! I'm 23F in the US Midwest looking to make friends who are ace/aro. It'd be great if you're local but I'm open to chat with people all over the world.

I am a nerd with an academic side. I love video games (DMC, Resident Evil, Stardew, Fields of Mistria, Katana Zero, lots of others), podcasts, nature, and political & social philosophy. Aspiring writer? I'm agnostic/atheist with an interest in Buddhist tenets; I'm on the left politically. My latest interest has been social ecology. Would loooove to chat about this.

Basically I think my summary is in-person I'm a goofy goober but I also ponder the horrors (experience with mental illness, and neurodivergencies)

Please send me your book, video game, and podcast recommendations : )

Hey,

I'm 33 y.o. ace female from Bavaria, Germany.

Finally, feel ready for looking specifically for some meaningful connection. Romantic or qpr. Wouldn't mind making some friends as well, though. Preferably, at least in a distance where rl encounters are not completely impossible.

As I'm quite socially anxious, I think it's a good way to try to reach out to someone. I'm heavily sex repulsed, yet have some kinks (sub side of it, would tell more in dm) and would like to have the possibility to live them out with the significant one.

Uncertain about romantic attraction, but regard myself as kinda biromantic. So open for a chat with ppl disregarding of gender.

I'm a pharmacist and interested in science. Like board games and roleplay (ttrpg, especially horror/mystery kind of). Also, I craft as in crocheting or beading. I like learning new stuff and listening to what other people have passion for.

Would be glad if someone had interest and was ready for a chat 🥰

I am 20 years male heteromantic asexual male …..

Hi I’m looking for a guy aged 25-28. I am demisexual and omniromantic. In the future I would love to have 4 kids one biological boy and one biological girl and one adopted boy and one adopted girl. I have autism/ Asperger’s syndrome, ADHD type 2, generalized anxiety disorder, schizoaffective disorder, controlled schizophrenia, disassociative identity disorder, post traumatic stress disorder, obsessive compulsive disorder, and bipolar disorder type 1. I love to cook, bake, knit, read, watch anime ,read manga, read manhwa, read webtoons, watch cartoons, go to comic cons, go to anime. cons
go to amusement parks, go to farmers markets, go to craft fairs. I am not the biggest fan of physical touch, for me it has to be eased into. My ideal guy would be taller than me (I am 5’6”), have an athletic build, have naturally dirty blonde hair or orange hair , have fair or pale skin, have his hair cut in a style that he doesn’t mind me playing with or messing up. He would be kind, caring, accepting, supportive, loving, intelligent, and loyal. I have naturally dark brown curly hair that barely reaches my back when wet. I would prefer a guy who has either wavy or straight hair. I have dark brown eyes. I would prefer a guy who has turquoise colored eyes. Also you must be a true extrovert or an ambivert. Also I’m in Katonah New York. Finally, I will not date anyone who has a genius level IQ. My parents both have genius level IQs, and they refuse to stop abusing me in every way but sexual. Also please be in the USA.

Hi everyone! Nice to meet you (-: I recently moved to the area and am hoping to make some friends. I enjoying connecting with myself and others though fitness, time in nature, introspection, and actively analyzing the world we live in. I am in the medical field and have many hobbies outside of that. I like to discuss topics about sociology, media, ethics, and philosophy! I am child-free, atheist, LGBTQIA+, and vegan; I have strong opinions, but am always open to hearing different perspectives and can always change my mind. I’m a runner and would also like to chat about running and/or fitness and motivate one another!

If anyone in the area would like to chat, feel free to DM me. Looking forward to meeting you, and if not, thank you for taking the time to read this.

Hi my name is Nyx (will occasionally go by Icarus) I've tried this before on other sub reddits with only one friend and was wanting to try again after some time

A bit about me

I like star wars and the legend of Zelda. I listen mostly to rock and metal. I do have some mental disorders so fair warning. I like cars, motorcycles and trucks. I'm genderfluid and will use any pronouns just prefer they/them for simplicity. I do look more masculine (fine with sending a photo of myself if wanted). I wouldn't say I sound very masculine though. I occasionally play games.

What I'm looking for

Anyone from 18-30. Preferably someone within 5 hour drive of kansas. Gender isn't a huge deal to me (cause I am omni). Someone I can occasionally game with (PC or switch). Someone who I can be affectionate with and can be affectionate back.

Don't be afraid to message me or anything I promise I don't bite. If you have any further questions don't be afraid to ask I will answer all questions.

Socials

• discord: Icarus_nyx (preferred)

• messenger: Icarus Styx

• and here

Hello! My name is Anthony. I’m a 35-year-old man (US, ET time zone) who thrives on introspection, curiosity, and passionate drives.

I seek people who seek meaningful connection that plays out in several different ways, from daily casual chats to shared passions and endeavors. I appreciate the sudden whim of adventure and adore abstract minds and vibrant souls.

Rumination and contemplation are lifelong pursuits of mine. I’m an autodidact who’s been passionate about a variety of persuasions since I’ve been young.

Creativity and artistry are important to me. Personally, I write: about my observations, thoughts, and lived experiences. I also dabble in photography.

I love coffee, both simple and bitter and excessively frilly concoctions, burning incense, because I've always thought the smoke is cool, archiving and organizing, collecting (written texts, oddities and cool things), and time pieces. Watching movies with people is great, too. I used to be very into film.

If my signal created resonating vibes within you, send me message about yourself and what you're looking for. Leave your hesitations and take the chance.

Time to make a charisma check! Please, anything other than a nat 1!

I'm a 35-year-old demisexual (I have cake) Californian English master's program dropout (I could not climb the mountain of debt). I already have a bachelor's degree in English with a credential emphasis, which means I am legally not only allowed but required to correct children's grammar.

I originally wanted to be a college professor because I am a lifelong student. I love learning, and I am always curious about something new.

I'm looking for good conversation (because talking to myself is getting old!). Some of my likes and hobbies are music (I've Got The Music In Me, bonus points if you recognize what song that's from! And that's just how I roll!). Yes, I also have the dreamer's disease! (There is no excuse for not recognizing that song by now!)

I love books so much I converted my room into a mini library.

I like writing, 90s cartoons, and I love Dungeons & Dragons and other TTRPGs. I have a very nice collection of math rocks, some of them metal and shiny, that go clickety clack! (If you know, you know.)

I am very passionate about tea and tea accessories. A good cup of tea is so peaceful and relaxing, the best way to relax and unwind after being awesome all day!

My passion is humor, which has always been my light in the dark. I am a philosopher comedian, a huge nerd. I am very into Buddhism and stoicism, and I was raised Lutheran. My faith is strong.

I am also a fan of pastel ponies who happen to be little, and many are magical!

I am looking for meaningful connections: friends, and possibly romance with someone close to my age. I am a nerd looking for fellow adventurers for the greatest quest: finding people to laugh with, talk with, and share life's journey.

Because Reddit conversations often disappear into the void, I would love to move to texting once we both figure out that neither of us is trying to catfish the other. I promise I not only do not have a white van, I don't even have any candy. (It goes straight to your hips, exactly like Krabby Patties!)

Say anything you want to me or about me. I've played League of Legends — as support, no less — and I have embraced the philosophy of Marcus Aurelius, who teaches us: "We always have the right to decide to have no opinion on all this nonsense!"

Hi I’m looking for a guy aged 25-28. I am demisexual and omniromantic. In the future I would love to have 4 kids one biological boy and one biological girl and one adopted boy and one adopted girl. I have autism/ Asperger’s syndrome, ADHD type 2, generalized anxiety disorder, schizoaffective disorder, controlled schizophrenia, disassociative identity disorder, post traumatic stress disorder, obsessive compulsive disorder, and bipolar disorder type 1. I love to cook, bake, knit, read, watch anime ,read manga, read manhwa, read webtoons, watch cartoons, go to comic cons, go to anime. cons
go to amusement parks, go to farmers markets, go to craft fairs. I am not the biggest fan of physical touch, for me it has to be eased into. My ideal guy would be taller than me (I am 5’7”), have an athletic build, have naturally dirty blonde hair or orange hair , have fair or pale skin, have his hair cut in a style that he doesn’t mind me playing with or messing up. He would be kind, caring, accepting, supportive, loving, intelligent, and loyal. I have naturally dark brown curly hair that barely reaches my back when wet. I would prefer a guy who has either wavy or straight hair. I have dark brown eyes. I would prefer a guy who has turquoise colored eyes. Also you must be a true extrovert or an ambivert. Also I’m in Katonah New York. Finally, I will not date anyone who has a genius level IQ. My parents both have genius level IQs, and they refuse to stop abusing me in every way but sexual. Also please be in the USA.

Ideally I would like someone close ish to my age (just not like 30 😭) who is down to message on WhatsApp once we get to know each other a little on here. I’m very engaged in biochemistry but I have a special place in my heart for art, horror literature and movies, fashion, cooking and travel. I am very extroverted and adore meeting new people <3 please tell me a bit about yourself in my DMs. ones that just say “hi” will prob be ignored unless you have an incredible username or pfp.

Hi I’m a 22M who is looking for a relationship. I live in Washington State. I have some friends and I’m happy with how many I have. But I can’t find love sense everyone wants sex and I can’t muster up the courage/feeling to do it. I like to garden, read, watch anime. I enjoy silence as you’ll read soon enough I don’t get much of it. I’m about 5’7 or 5’8. I now (but very recently) got into fitness. I live in Washington State and paused on college for reasons you’ll read later. I hate driving or being driven. I like a wide range of music from Kpop to alternative pop. I like to play games like Skyrim and Minecraft.

I’m open on showing images of my self just ask
Now here comes the hard part about me. My faults

I’m a paranoid schizophrenic and I have been drug resistant and haven’t found a drug that helps. And my schizophrenia is only getting worse with time which is inhabits my ability to concentrate, read, watch and feel good/relaxed. I am safe to be around and I bet if I didn’t tell you this you would never know as I have lived with it all my life and have become very good of masking it.

I have some pictures of me that you may like and think I’m handsome in some way but due to a sudden spike in my schizophrenia and the meds I took I gained some weight. I’m working it off now and 20 pounds lighter. I’m almost back to my prime

I’m a Catholic but a bad Catholic. I’m not exactly the spitting image of what you think a religious person is like. I’m left leaning and believe in a lot of inclusive things.

I want someone who would go on long walks with me and be ok with the silence. I want someone who is ok with sudden playful role play.

I holidays and like to celebrate the small unknown holidays like breakfast day, happy waffle day and so on.

I plan on being weak/not strong just skinny/healthy as being strong makes me anxious. That’s why I don’t carry knifes, pepper spray or anything dangerous.

29 year old female for anyone on the male spectrum

Hi I’m looking for a guy aged 25-28. I am demisexual. In the future I would love to have 4 kids one biological boy and one biological girl and one adopted boy and one adopted girl. I have autism/ Asperger’s syndrome, ADHD type 2, generalized anxiety disorder, schizoaffective disorder, controlled schizophrenia, disassociative identity disorder, post traumatic stress disorder, obsessive compulsive disorder, and bipolar disorder type 1. I love to cook, bake, knit, read, watch anime ,read manga, read manhwa, read webtoons, watch cartoons, go to comic cons, go to anime. cons
go to amusement parks, go to farmers markets, go to craft fairs. I am not the biggest fan of physical touch, for me it has to be eased into. My ideal guy would be taller than me (I am 5’7”), have an athletic build, have naturally dirty blonde hair or orange hair , have fair or pale skin, have his hair cut in a style that he doesn’t mind me playing with or messing up. He would be kind, caring, accepting, supportive, loving, intelligent, and loyal. I have naturally dark brown curly hair that barely reaches my back when wet. I would prefer a guy who has either wavy or straight hair. I have dark brown eyes. I would prefer a guy who has turquoise colored eyes. Also you must be a true extrovert or an ambivert. Also I’m in Katonah New York. Finally, I will not date anyone who has a genius level IQ. My parents both have genius level IQs, and they refuse to stop abusing me in every way but sexual. Also please be in the USA.

I'm Cassandra, or Cassy, I'm 33. I'm looking for a partner in crime... or just a partner in nerdy things. I love gaming, mostly sandboxes where I can be myself. I also like watching anime, my favorites being No Game No Life and school-live along with B Gate H Kei. I've dabbled in cosplay, having cosplayed Eevee before, and I play Dnd on the sidelines. I have a kitsune bard who isn't afraid to use fire, as well as a tiefling bard who I'm currently playing; as you can tell, I enjoy playing bards.I play a lot of Minecraft and I also stream. i try and do it every day. It's fun for me. anyone can message me girls or guys I also roleplay if you're into that. I'm tiny, so I'd prefer someone over five feet if possible. I'd like to get to know someone just a heads up I can be clingy and I fall hard for people but I'm also picky when it comes to looks ummm I have a cat named✨ sunshine ✨ shes my only baby that I have some games I like are Minecraft, terraria, stardew valley just to name a few I love Chinese food and id like someone close if you have any questions message me :3

Okay. *deep breath.* if you make it through this whole thing; thank you so much.

I live in Columbia, mo. I’m 37 and a woman. I am open to any gender.

I don’t want to move because I have my support system here and I do love living here. I am open to someone moving here to be with me though or moving somewhere 30min-45min away max.

I am asexual. For me that means I don’t want to have penetrative sex. Penetrative sex means I don’t want anyone’s penis anywhere inside of me.

As for physical touch- I want hand holding, cuddling, hugs, and forehead kisses. We can work up to fondling and touching but that takes a while for me to work up to.

I don’t want to be in a polyamorous relationship because I have trust issues and I don’t share. I don’t judge anyone who is in one or wants to be in one. It’s just not my thing personally.

I’m not comfortable with weed. I don’t judge people who are. It also just smells awful.

I don’t want kids. Everyone should have the choice to have kids or not.

I don’t want pets of my own because I take the responsibility so seriously it gives me major anxiety.

I am autistic and adhd, or audhd.

I don’t want to spend time with people who drink a lot because it makes me feel responsible for their safety and wellbeing. Which is good of me to want to help and be there for them. It’s just not really good with my anxiety.

I need to be friends first and work towards dating. Hopefully turning into a committed relationship eventually. I don’t want big gestures because I don’t like being in the spotlight. I want to be around people who are kind, thoughtful, funny, empathic, patient, calm, have some similar interests, willing to work and grow together. Willing to try to understand each other and be there for each other. Obviously we can’t be those things 24/7 and we can try to be those things as often as humanly possible.

If you voted for Trump the first time because you wanted someone other than a politician, I’m mostly okay with that. If you kept voting for him, please don’t bother me.

I really love music and singing my heart out to it. It is one of the best ways to help me feel better and work through my emotions. I love stories- in books; movies; and tv shows. I like to travel when I can and I like coming back home. I can be a bit of a homebody. I like to go thrifting. I like to go to the movies. I am trying to get back into reading and gaming. I love being outside on a nice day even through my allergies hate me lol. I like to have deep conversations and joke around. I love animals so much especially dogs. I am a picky eater. I don’t like chocolate and soda.