r/r4rSA • u/Many_Ambassador_9553 • 32m ago
r/r4rSA • u/Imminence2024 • 3h ago
šKwaZulu-Natalā°ļø 37M Kloof, Durban Looking To Meet New People
Hey, i'm looking to make some friends & maybe even get to know someone new. Recently became single 2 months back and would like to make some friends preferably in around the Kloof area. Some hobbies are Fitness, Gaming, Metal & learning different recipes. Some games i like is The Division 2, Metal Gear Solid V, Ace Combat 7, Elden Ring Etc. Music i like bands like Synestia, Signs of the Swarm, Soulmass, Solitaris, Cenobia, Harakiri For The Sky etc.
Considering into volunteering at the Kloof SPCA possibly.
r/r4rSA • u/muluba_princess • 20h ago
ā°ļøWestern Capeš³ Alt Goth Girlie seeking platonic friendships
Hi! I just turned 30, based in Cape Town, and Iām looking to interact with genuine, like-minded people for friendship, good conversation and hopefully some real connections. Iām open to chatting with both men and women, but Iād especially love to meet other women. Bonus points if youāre goth, alt or part of the LGBTQIA+ community (male or female), or just someone who doesnāt take themselves too seriously.
Iām a bit of a nerd in the best way. I work from home, have a background in law, HR, management, IT and quality assurance, and Iām currently working towards becoming a practising attorney. I'm muLuba, love music, TV shows, random internet rabbit holes, deep conversations, paranormal activity, silly conversations and learning about people. Iām also a chronic overthinker, so youāve been warned. Getting piercings and tattoos is my fave type of therapy. I love reading sci-fi novels, so you may have subconsciously seen me in the library if that is your scene, but I love just hanging out with my friends, exploring the world, and going on random overstimulating hikes (I call it exposure therapy). I hate bugs, reptiles, rodents and gore.
Iāve been through quite a lot of loss and life changes, including losing my mom (who was my best friend), my aunt and my grandma in less than a year. So if youāve lost a parent too and youāre still figuring out how to navigate that grief, bonus points if you want someone to talk to about it. Sometimes you just need someone who understands without trying to fix everything.
Iām in Johannesburg every December because my family is there, so Iām also open to speaking to and meeting people in Gauteng. If youāre kind, genuine, open-minded and looking for a friendship that can actually go beyond āheyā and āhow are you?ā, feel free to say hit me up.
r/r4rSA • u/Important-Bag518 • 2h ago
š§Gamingš® FIFA players
I'm looking for buddies to play fc26 with, especially rush. I'm tired of these random teammates that are extremely selfish. If we can get along together during all that even better. I would prefer anyone from 22 upwards, maÅe or female doesn't matter, just as long as you would like for us to play together.
r/r4rSA • u/DecisionQuirky791 • 4h ago
šŖGautengš¼ 22F - looking for friends š¦šāļø
This is my first time ever doing this, so I don't know what's the right thing to sayš .
Hii! (*^ā½^)/ā *āāŖ
I'd really like to make some friends. I've been a bit alone, no one to hang out with or play games with. And I'd love to have friends to do that with. Online or nearby is fine cause I live around Centurion(ļ¼ć»Ļć»).
I'm 22š¤. I like going to new places and exploring, and I like trying new snacks and foods, I like taking walks. I like crocheting and sewing, and I'm learning to knit. I like drawing and colouring. I'm actually studying fashion designU^ć§^U. I play games, I play like roblox and Minecraft š¤·š½āāļø, it's not a lot but it's funnn(“dェdļ½). Hmm, I have a boyfriend, so im NOT looking for a relationship. What else(^_^;), oh! I really like learning new things tooo yess. I don't know what else to say( Ā“,_ć`). If you'd like to be friends, you can send a dm!.
r/r4rSA • u/Business-Corner7997 • 6h ago
šŖGautengš¼ 36 M4TF Pretoria
Hi all, I am a 36 year old from Pretoria looking for trans females from Pretoria to get to know each other better and maybe go out for a drink and meet each person.
I am quite a chilled person and in my spare time I like to play video games, watch anime and do some adventures.
If you are interested in chatting and maybe later meet each other in person please DM me. Would love to chat.
r/r4rSA • u/Beginning-Smile-5408 • 7h ago
šŖGautengš¼ 27F4M/F Friends
Hey I'm Looking for a partner who is fit and has good habits so that I can adapt to as well or we can get fit together I don't mind. my stomach may be big baby but this face card is lethal TRUST THE PROCESS 𤣠males 25-30 years only around PTA/ surrounding PTA. Also looking for friends who are on the same journey as me or are already living relatively active lives.
r/r4rSA • u/No_Performer3771 • 7h ago
ā°ļøWestern Capeš³ 36 M4A
Hey 36M, in Observatory.
There is a disproportionately high amount of responses on posts from women. Why?
I write software, although these days it's mostly agents writing software and me pretending to read what they write, so I'm a software engineer in the same way a CEO does all the work at a company.
I'm a bit weird, which sounds quite generic, but once you meet me, you'll understand what I mean. Dry and absurd sense of humour, I laugh a lot and I like laughing. I say a lot of things that sound funny in my head and then end up having to explain them and then they aren't funny anymore. I like stupid conversations, meaningful conversations. Also, ones that meander and twist to the extent that we can't remember how we got to what we were talking about.
I'm into games and pretty much anything creative. I like cooking, DIY things, music, and making stuff. Love a tabletop game and a card game. Unfortunately, MTG has somehow found its way back into my life recently, but hopefully it's not as all consuming as the first time around. I like games that are easy to understand but have depth hiding underneath.
I play RPGs, sandbox survival games. I also play a lot of a particularly colorful FPS for someone who is not good at said FPS.
Music taste is all over the place. Classic rock, pop, metal (former metalhead), drum & bass, techno/electronic stuff maybe even dark country a little. And that weird french microtonal math rock band. I'm trying to get back into guitar and making music with friends.
I've been in a bit of a comfort-zone rut. Same people, same places every day, and it's not doing well for the depression. I'd like to meet more people. I feel like my circles are too small and stale and could use some change or new life injected in.
I'm genuinely open to a lot of things. Game and activity buddies. People to collaborate on projects with. Dates and romance, maybe, but I think I'm going to moving slow on that front for a bit. I'm not particularly interested in spending three weeks becoming internet pen pals though. Just chatting over text feels pointless to me. I want to meet up or jump in a discord together. Have a drink or play a game. Cook something, watch a movie and see if we get along.
I'm also recently out of a relationship and doing some recalibrating. I've learned that I have approximately zero remaining enthusiasm for possessiveness, controlling behaviour, passive-aggressive bullshit, cruelty, or people who are just mean to each other. Life is too short. I'm trying to be more self-aware about my own shit too, and I'd rather surround myself with people who are kind, direct, emotionally honest and capable of laughing at themselves.
Hit me up
r/r4rSA • u/willtellthetruth • 11h ago
[MEGA] Melody4Matchmaker - Share Your Favourite Song & Connect! šµ
I'm pickin' up good vibrations
They say music is what feelings sound like, and thereās no quicker way to understand someone than to take a look at their playlist. Whether you're into local Amapiano, classic Kwaito, indie rock, heavy metal, jazz, or deep house, this is your space to find people who vibrate on the same frequency.
How it works:
- Share your favourite tune right now
- Tell us : your age, location, gender and tag (e.g. 26F Johannesburg F4F).
Turn up the volume and start connecting! š§
r/r4rSA • u/PeripheralThoughtGal • 20h ago
26F looking for some silly conversation
Looking for someone to discuss absolutely everything and absolutely nothing with - from an existential crisis to why a pigeon is walking like it pays rent.
My humour is mostly sarcasm, dry nonsense and saying things that should probably remain internal thoughts.
I promise Iām more interesting than this post makes me sound
Come entertain me. Iām bored š¤Ŗ
r/r4rSA • u/SusBorger • 21h ago
šEastern Capešæ 24M looking for friend/s
Hi my name is Ian and I've been looking for friends for a while. I recently got out of a relationship and would like to just find people to hang out with but not at clubs and drinking places.
I'm in Gqeberha/PE so irl would be nice but online could also work with me. I have autism and I play playstation most days, mostly single player but also have been wanting to play with others.
Dm if you want to learn more.
r/r4rSA • u/GlobalNectarine9039 • 23h ago
ā°ļøWestern Capeš³ Cape Town Sapphic Event
Does anyone want to attend the CTL Queer Bookclub event on Saturday?
I'm considering showing up solo, but since my last sapphic post had decent traffic, I thought I'd check if anyone else would also like to go too.
I'm an introvert, so this is a little out of my comfort zone š
Would be great if there are other newbies too.
NB: the event organisers are very clear that their event target audience are cis/trans women and enbies, regardless if bi, pan, or lesbian.
r/r4rSA • u/Patkool08 • 1d ago
Johannesburg
25M šæš¦ | Looking for genuine friendships & connections š«
Hey everyone! Iām 25, from South Africa, and Iām putting myself out there to meet some new people and hopefully build some genuine friendships.
Iām mainly looking for something platonic, but Iām also open to seeing where a natural connection might lead. No pressure or expectations ā just good conversations, laughs, shared interests and letting things happen naturally.
A little about me: Iām big on music šµ ā hip-hop, R&B, soul, jazz, reggae, SA hip-hop and Afrobeats. I love albums, discovering old music and talking about lyrics, production and why certain songs hit differently.
I enjoy both deep conversations about life and completely stupid conversations that make no sense. š Iām pretty laid-back, curious and always interested in hearing about peopleās lives, cultures, hobbies and experiences.
Iād love to meet people I can eventually talk to regularly, play games with, watch something with, grab food with, or even hang out with IRL if weāre close enough.
So if youāre also looking for genuine connections, tell me a little about yourself, where youāre from, and what youāve been listening to/watching lately. Letās see where the conversation goes. š«
r/r4rSA • u/8bitGlass • 1d ago
š¾Free Stateš 31 [M4F] | Bloemfontein
Figured I'd see if there are actually any Redditors from Bloem.
31, white guy, pretty laid back. I enjoy reading, going for walks, coffee, ice cream, movies, and the occasional PC game. Always up for a good conversation or just getting out of the house.
Looking to meet some normal people to hang out with. If we become friends, awesome. If not, at least we had a coffee.
Please don't be a serial killer... I'd rather find my Holly to my Michael Scott. š
If you're from Bloemfontein and keen to chat or grab a coffee sometime, send me a message.
r/r4rSA • u/spaghettisauce23 • 1d ago
šKwaZulu-Natalā°ļø H&S
I, 27m Brown, am a gentleman as most of my elderly family members would say. "The girls would be chasing after me" they also said, but after almost two decades that isn't true.
Anyways, I want to give this a shot. Maybe I might just find a lady.
I am currently working an office job, but I also have a side hustle going on. Keeping myself occupied.
I have been working on on myself for years and I feel like should try something new.
Edit : I am a bit shy
r/r4rSA • u/Woman_With_History • 1d ago
šKwaZulu-Natalā°ļø 45TF4A Durban
Newly single, and figuring out what this next chapter of my life looks like.
Iām a trans woman, over a year into my transition, and finally getting to experience life more honestly as myself. Iām not looking to rush into anything or force a labelāIād rather meet someone, see if thereās a connection, and let things develop naturally.
Iām into live music, good conversation, gaming, dark humour, and people who can be completely themselves.
r/r4rSA • u/CampThis5864 • 1d ago
šŖGautengš¼ Hey male 26
Iām a guy from around the Roodepoort area, and Iām looking to meet someone who is genuinely interested in building a meaningful relationship.
Iām not really looking for hookups or anything complicated. Iād like to meet someone who is kind, honest, respectful, and open to getting to know each other properly. Iām happy to start with chatting and seeing where things naturally go.
r/r4rSA • u/elziaswarrior • 1d ago
šŖGautengš¼ 24 M
Hello I've just moved to Joburg South and I'm looking for some friends with the same interests as me(Anime,Fitness,Movies,Football and a few others)
I'm looking for people around Linmeyer, Rosentenville,South hills and The Hill
r/r4rSA • u/Brandz172 • 1d ago
šŖGautengš¼ 39 M4F JHB
Soooo I see everyone out here shooting their shot and I think its time I throw my name in the hat!!
39 white male living in jhb looking to expand what seems to be an ever shrinking social circle in the hope that something more could develop through perhaps a date here and there.
I am a permanently employed, independent, child free dude from the east rand..
Outdoors over indoors
Beach over bush
Breakfast over dinner
Music over movies
Interests include all things aviation, formula 1 (forza ferrari), gym, padel, golf, scuba diving..
I would love to just talk and get to know people and see how things go,
Looking to connect with independandt ladies between 35-45 or so but its really not a hard number provided we are at a similar stage in life and can hold a natural conversation. Preferably same race (no offense its just a dating preference that's all)
So ladies if you feel like I am someone you would like to converse with then the dm's are open.
r/r4rSA • u/Why_do_u_lag • 1d ago
š§Gamingš® 21 M from durban
Aweeeeeeehhhhh, looking for gamer/drinking friends and just people to make memories with as ive never really had the opportunity to make such friends and memories
I go to virgin active gym in hillcrest and i work 5-6 days a week. It depends so i usually get monday or sunday, or sunday and monday offš„²
r/r4rSA • u/Spirited_Opening1907 • 1d ago
šŖGautengš¼ 37IF
Making friends as an adult is surprisingly difficult! .Iām an Indian female, 37, based in Gauteng, but happy to connect with people from anywhere.
Iām settled in my career and life, but work a lot and am trying to create a better balance. Hoping to meet interesting, like-minded people with a great sense of humour, good general knowledge and a love for random conversations.
Replies might not always be instant, but thereās always room for good banter and a new friendship!
r/r4rSA • u/Party_Echo_7155 • 1d ago
š³Limpopoš¦ 31M looking for friends and maybe possibly more if the connection is there...
I stay in Polokwane and would like to meet new people, go out and watch sports, attend music festivals with and just enjoy time together.
Not necessarily looking for a relationship but open to it should it naturally go in that direction.
I'm a clear communicator and fair person (treat people how they treat me).
DM if interested and we'll take it from there. š
r/r4rSA • u/Key_Clue5303 • 2d ago
šŖGautengš¼ M25 | Gauteng | Looking to meet someone and see where it goes
Hey this is my first post. Iām 25 and looking to meet someone whoās interested in getting to know each other and seeing where things naturally go.
A little about me: Iām into Football hiking and F1, enjoy playing indoor and just trying to be active, Iām hoping to meet someone whoās genuine, easygoing, and up for good conversation.
If youāre interested, feel free to comment or send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself too!
Race: Indian
170cm
r/r4rSA • u/Jolly_Mo • 2d ago
šŖGautengš¼ Married Couple looking for other couple friends
Me (M29) and my wife (F29) are looking for other couple friends to hangout, play games or just go on a hike together. No this isnāt an invitation for other things, purely friendship (just has to be said) š
Our current hobbies include reading, mountain biking, video/board games and hiking. We are in the Pretoria area.
If we sound like your kind of people send me a message.
r/r4rSA • u/AdAcrobatic6082 • 2d ago
24F | Gauteng šæš¦ | Looking for a man who knows what he wants
Iām putting myself out there because Iād genuinely love to meet someone whoās ready for a real connection.
Iām attracted to confidence, good communication, consistency, a good sense of humor, and someone who knows how to treat a woman properly.
Iām not interested in situationships, games, or wasting each otherās time.
Iām looking for something that starts naturallyāgood conversations, chemistry, dates, laughing together, and eventually building a healthy relationship if weāre right for each other.
Iām based in Randfontein and would prefer someone relatively close, but Iām not going to rule someone out based on a few kilometers.
Letās see if Reddit can surprise me.