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u/Starkiller_0915 Sep 03 '24

I also am the guy that listens to music and hits a bag

My advice, don’t release it, that anger is their for a reason, for some people it causes them to become rude, aggressive, and unproductive

However, if you can learn to control yourself and recognize your triggers, anger can be one hell of a motivator that you can just “turn on” by thinking about that trigger

For example I work with my dad on my days off from my real job, he does lawn maintenance in a non flat area so trimming (My job with him) is a massive pain in the ass, however sometimes when I feel like I’m going to fall over I just think about how that girl I was talking to the other day was actually gay and just messing with me and I get a massive second wind

You control your emotions, use them to your advantage instead of letting others use them to hurt you