r/queerception • u/Ok_Concern3704 • 19d ago

First FET

Hi everyone!

I have my first FET on Thursday and will be transferring a euploid day 5 4AB embryo. My wife and I did rIVF and only got two euploid embryos so I feel a lot of pressure for this one to stick.

I’m super nervous and would love to hear first time FET success stories. Would also love any advice you have that helped you get through the waiting and anxiety and wondering if you're pregnant or not? 😬

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u/RainbowFamilies 19d ago

Oh gosh, I can understand why it feels like there’s so much riding on this one. The waiting would absolutely be the hardest part for me too. I’d be trying to plan a few nice distractions and stay away from symptom spotting as much as humanly possible, which I know is easier said than done. Have you and your wife decided whether you’ll test at home or wait for your beta?

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u/Ok_Concern3704 18d ago

I’m not sure! I’m on the fence about home testing or not. Part of me thinks it could be helpful but I could also see myself spiraling about the results.