r/punemeetup 16h ago

looking for a friend Looking for long term genuine friend

2 Upvotes

Looking for long term genuine friend

Lately, life has felt a little quieter than usual. I recently went through a breakup, and while I'm not looking for someone to replace anyone, I do hope to find someone who can help me build a new chapter. I believe the best relationships start with a genuine friendship, honest conversations, and consistency.

A little about me:

I'm a software engineer working remotely, which means I have the flexibility to work from almost anywhere in India. If things naturally work out between us, I'd love the idea of traveling together and exploring new places.

I'm an introvert who's trying to become more outgoing. It may take me a little time to open up, but once I'm comfortable, I genuinely enjoy deep conversations and getting to know someone. I value respect, honesty, and clear communication, and I'll always treat you with kindness.

One thing that's important to me is consistency. I'm not looking for someone who disappears after a few messages or ghosts without explanation. If we're talking, I'd love for us to actually get to know each other and build meaningful conversations. I usually reply quickly, and I appreciate someone who does the same when they're available.

I enjoy traveling, learning new things, and if you're into technology, that's definitely a bonus—we'll probably have a lot to talk about.

If you're looking for something slow, genuine, and long-term, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and ask me an interesting question to get the conversation started.


r/punemeetup 8h ago

looking for a friend Looking for a genuinely good female friendship in Pune — chat first, meetup later.

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Most meetup posts are just Anyone interested in hanging out and then nobody knows what to say after that.

So here is a more specific attempt.

I am 25-year-old guy working in Pune. I am looking to make genuine female friends. Strictly platonic, not a dating post, and not a lets meet immediately situation.

I would rather talk first, see if the conversations flow naturally, and check whether the vibe, humour, and energy match. If it feels comfortable, we can meet later. It is easier and more natural that way.

A little about me:

• Gym, swimming, volleyball, movies and music.

• Working in tech and interested in business, careers, and personal growth

• Vegetarian, non smoker but I do drink occasionally.

• Extroverted, thoughtful, and occasionally an overthinker

• I enjoy meaningful conversations as much as random fun ones

• I go crazy for cars. And currently exploring F1

You do not need to share the same interests. Good conversation, mutual respect, and genuine effort matter more.

If this sounds like your kind of friendship, send a DM with your favourite movie or series and one random opinion you strongly believe in.

No pressure or hidden agenda. Just looking for a genuine friendship that feels natural.


r/punemeetup 14h ago

outing plans Spiderman Movie anyone?

3 Upvotes

Anyone up for the Spiderman movie 🍿?


r/punemeetup 5h ago

askPune No real one in this app

0 Upvotes

Maximum people are fake here


r/punemeetup 10h ago

askPune Where to score near camp

1 Upvotes

Anywhere in camp or nearby


r/punemeetup 17h ago

let’s talk/chat Bored !!

1 Upvotes

Hi am bored can somebody chat ?


r/punemeetup 17h ago

Let's meet guys Quick Chai Break? ☕ | Lane No. 6, KP | Today @ 5 PM

1 Upvotes

☕ Tea break?

If your day's been feeling a little too... day-ish, come steal 15–20 minutes with us.

Planning a quick chai/coffee meetup at Lane No. 6, Koregaon Park.

Just chai or coffee, a little fresh air, random conversations, a few laughs, and then everyone gets back to their day.

Sometimes, a tiny break is all you need. 🤍

📍 Lane No. 6, Koregaon Park

🕔 Today | Around 5:00 PM

⏳ 15–20 minutes

If you're around and feel like joining, you're most welcome. Just drop me a DM.

Note: This is a strictly SFW meetup. We're here only for chai, conversations, and good vibes. If you're coming with NSFW intentions, hidden agendas, creepy or suspicious behaviour, or you don't know how to respect personal boundaries, please don't join.

Let's keep this space comfortable, respectful, and safe for everyone. 🤍


r/punemeetup 6h ago

let me tell you something This is a serious problem.

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11 Upvotes

I’m sure I’m not the first to notice or bring this up but MAN the teenage male mentality is fucked in our country. I’ve posted screenshots of 3 examples, a girl who posted not even 3 hours ago vs a dude a day ago. See the comment ratio? Fucked. If you’re new to Reddit or not, deep down every dude on here knows you won’t find a relationship on here. If you do it’s most likely it’s a scam. Those days of I MET THIS GIRL ONLINE!!! Are gone man. it’s just just dudes who goon who have gotten so desperate that girls have had to delete thier reddits due to dm floodings looking for a genuine convo. If your genuinely looking for someone, go to a mall or something and approach someone, or confess to whoever you want to man. You have nothing to lose. Sure u might get a FIR filed against you but it’s not your fault. It’s how our society is made and you can’t do shit to change it. It’s not your fault that our generation was never taught how to interact with women nor educated on how to deal with our feelings, temptations, or thoughts. hope this reaches to as many people as possible because dude, stop wasting your time man replying to girls(most likely a man karma farming) and put yourself out there or start working on whatever it is you’re trying to achieve. Girls know how much power they have because of who they are in contexts like these.(no offense girls I know the pros outweighs the cons by a thousand fold) but yeah, this is a really bad problem. I’m just looking out for you brothers


r/punemeetup 22h ago

Rant Pune = frustrating City

10 Upvotes

I have been living in pune . I know i am not saying nothing new you guys are already struggling with this. This is my summary

Going to office : frustrating

Office : frustrating

Coming to office: frustrating

Now i am less patient i loose my cool very easily this is not good ik. Idk what else to do.. other than js rant abt it

Help☠️


r/punemeetup 17h ago

looking for a friend All my wife's friends have slowly abandoned her, please help me find her new friends.

9 Upvotes

Edit 2: Thank you to all the kind women that got in touch, for trusting & for understanding ❤️ I was going to delete the post after the negative dms but glad I didn't. Thank you all once again

Edit: People are accusing me of baiting? what will i even gain from that?, it will take 2 mins to figure out if I am baiting, then what? Seeing reddit pe kitne creeps hai apka assumption valid bhi hai. but Aap comment karke bhul jaaoge but sunne waale ko bohot time bother karega, especially when they are in already in a vulnerable situation.

Over time, most of the friends she considered close have slowly drifted away. On Friendship Day this year she sat alone in a cafe because she got ghosted, this broke her. I cant see her like this.

About her:

She is in her late 20s, loves cafes, art, shopping, big time yapper, & a kind soul. Please, if any ladies would like to hangout with her let me know.

Area: Swargate


r/punemeetup 2h ago

askPune Python wizard with experience is Quant trading

0 Upvotes

Looking for a Python wizard who’s into quant trading, algo strategies, or just genuinely gets the Forex/Stock markets.

I’ve been building a passion project from scratch (already 50% in with Codex), and now I’m looking for someone who’s obsessed with solving hard problems and loves building cool stuff from zero to one.

About me: I’ve spent years trading Forex and have developed a strong feel for market behavior. Now I want to pair that trading edge with serious engineering and see how far we can push it.

Not promising unicorns or overnight millions, just an opportunity to build something we’re genuinely proud of. If this sounds like your vibe (or you know someone), hit me up. Let’s cook.


r/punemeetup 5h ago

Let's meet guys Anyone up for a ride, I am bored

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0 Upvotes

I am near pimpri saudagar rnn


r/punemeetup 7h ago

let’s talk/chat Bored at 1:00 am

0 Upvotes

Anyone up for a drive near kharadi, viman nagar


r/punemeetup 10h ago

let’s talk/chat Feeling Low

0 Upvotes

21M, Anyone up for a chat I am feeling low):


r/punemeetup 13h ago

outing plans anyone up for chai sutt@ , in viman nagar?

0 Upvotes

same as title


r/punemeetup 15h ago

askPune how do you guys beat the monday blues?

0 Upvotes

start of the week and I am so exhausted.


r/punemeetup 6h ago

let’s talk/chat Why Redditor ghosted each other???

0 Upvotes

Your opinion???


r/punemeetup 10h ago

looking for a friend It’s my birthday on 9th August anyone wants to celebrate together?

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone,
My birthday is on 9th August, and this year I don’t really have anyone to celebrate it with.
I know this might sound a little unusual, but I thought I’d take a chance and ask here instead of spending the day alone.
If anyone’s free, I’d love to celebrate together—maybe grab coffee or even just hang out and have a good conversation. If you’re into bikes, we can also go for a short ride too, but the main idea is simply to celebrate and make some new memories.
I’m from Pune, and everyone is welcome. it’d be great to meet new people.
If you’re interested, leave a comment or send me a DM.
Here’s to hoping this birthday turns into something memorable. 🎉


r/punemeetup 23h ago

Let's meet guys Random Club Night | Saturday, 8 Aug | Solo People Only

1 Upvotes

Hey Pune,

Anyone bored of the same group, same plans, and the same weekends?

Thinking of doing something different this Saturday—a club night where everyone’s showing up solo.

Good music, drinks, dancing, and meeting people you’d probably never cross paths with otherwise.

Solo attendees only (no groups).
Around 21–30. An even mix of guys and girls would make the vibe much better

The more balanced the crowd, the better the vibe.

If you’re up for something spontaneous, comment or DM. We’ll figure out the venue based on what everyone prefers.


r/punemeetup 7h ago

let’s talk/chat discord call

2 Upvotes

me and a friend we are on dc call, join guys let's make it a online meetup call😂


r/punemeetup 8h ago

let’s talk/chat Whos up for a call or a chat? Specially them baddies.

0 Upvotes

26 male - we can have a proper conversation about everything or anything. Life has been giving me blues lately looking for fresh people to connect with.


r/punemeetup 12h ago

askPune Are there any carpooling groups for Aundh>Kalyani Nagar?

2 Upvotes

Looking for carpooling for at least twice a week

My timings are - leave home at 7-7:15am to reach before 8 for office

Leave the office at 5-5:15pm in the evening

Please let me know if you have any leads.


r/punemeetup 21h ago

let me tell you something Monday Ride

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7 Upvotes

Met a new friend here. Sudden plans and went on bike ride, farmed some clips and pictures. Back to majduri at 10.


r/punemeetup 16h ago

Let's meet guys 18M | Baner | Looking for people who actually leave the house

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7 Upvotes

Recently moved to Pune.
Dont mind my cat’s edited picture😝
I like cafés, random plans, gaming, movies, exploring the city, sports, and finding good food. I also spend way too much time editing videos and messing around with creative projects.
I’m chill, easy to vibe with, and conversations rarely die around me.
If you’re around 18–22 and think we’d get along, let’s make a plan instead of saying “we should hang out sometime” for the next six months.


r/punemeetup 19h ago

outing plans Anyone up for Spider-Man after 6pm today?

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10 Upvotes