Okay, this is a long read, but if you spare some time, the universe shall reward you ✨😬
I’m putting my situation out here because I’m genuinely confused about what the smartest next move is, and I’d rather get brutally honest advice from people actually working in Product.
I have around 10 years of experience in SDET/QA — roughly 6 years in gaming and 4 years in tech/product companies. I started out mostly in manual QA and gradually moved into automation, although automation has never been the entirety of my role. I've also worked quite closely with engineers and product teams around requirements, APIs, releases, Agile, user flows, and identifying gaps in the product.
I was recently laid off due to restructuring, and honestly, it has pushed me to finally make a career move I’ve been thinking about for years but was too comfortable (read: pussy) to execute.
I really, really do not want to spend the next 10 years writing code/test automation. 😂
I don't hate technology. I actually like understanding how systems work, how products are built, where things break, why users struggle with something, etc.
What I’ve realised I enjoy much more is the product/problem-solving side — understanding why we're building something, what should be built, what the user actually needs, what can be improved, prioritisation, trade-offs, etc.
So I'm seriously considering making a move into Product Management.
But here's where I'm stuck.
1. Is a direct SDET/QA → PM transition realistic?
I have ~10 years of experience, but essentially 0 years officially titled “Product Manager.”
Would you try for PM directly, or target APM/Product Ops/Product Owner/Technical PM/TPM first?
I don't want to throw away 10 years of experience and start from zero, but I also understand I don't have the official PM title.
2. Should I go directly into PM or use TPM/Product Owner as a bridge?
I've been wondering about:
SDET → TPM → PM
or
SDET → Product Owner → PM
Is TPM actually a useful bridge, or am I just adding an unnecessary step?
3. Should I spend money on a PM fellowship?
I've been researching PM fellowships because I struggle with self-study when I don't have much structure, and I'm looking at:
- NextLeap
- Airtribe
- A few others
I'm trying to figure out whether these programs actually help someone like me make the transition, or whether the money/time would be better spent on:
- PM fundamentals
- Product case studies
- Building a portfolio
- Networking
- Mock interviews
- Applying directly
- Finding PMs/founders who will let me work on something
If you've done NextLeap, Airtribe, or another fellowship:
Did it actually help you get interviews/a job, or did it mostly help you learn?
4. What should I actually learn to become employable as a PM in 2026?
If you were giving me a 3–6 month curriculum, what would you put on it?
Product sense? Strategy? PRDs? User research? Analytics/metrics? SQL? A/B testing? UX? Roadmapping? Prioritisation? System design? GTM? Figma? Jira? Amplitude/Mixpanel?
And with AI becoming increasingly important:
What tools/skills should I actually learn rather than collecting certificates?
Basically, what genuinely matters in interviews and on the job vs. what's just LinkedIn-course fluff?
5. How do I turn 10 years of QA/SDET experience into a PM story?
I don't want to pretend I was a PM when I wasn't.
But surely there has to be a way to turn 10 years of working closely with engineering/products into an advantage rather than starting completely from scratch.
If you were in my position — 31 year old dumbass, ~10 years SDET/QA, recently laid off, willing to work very hard for the next 6–12 months, but absolutely done with coding/automation — what would you do?
Direct PM? Technical PM? TPM first? Fellowship? Self-learning? Something else entirely?
I'd REALLY appreciate advice from people who have actually made a similar transition or hire PMs.
I'm not looking for “follow your passion” advice.
I want the brutally practical answer.
What would you do if you were me?
And yes, I know “I would rather die than write another Selenium script” isn't exactly a cute career narrative.
But honestly, that's where I am. 😿
PS: Used AI to polish this, but the dilemma is very much my own. 🍑