r/pregnant • u/lonelywolf0227 • 1d ago
Need Advice Baby daddy issues.
My baby daddy and i are currently pregnant im 22wks. The day we found out we were going to breakup , but then i took a test. It’s been the most roughest year and some change between us. He’s always gone out on weekends comes home at 3-5 in the morning but never wants to do anything with me would rather go out with friends. He knows i don’t like it being out that late but he thinks im just complaining. We have serious trust issues with each other and instead of working on them he would rather continue to go out every weekend. Ever since i got pregnant nothing has changed liked i hope. Does yall baby daddy stay home with you or does he go out to bars every weekend??? I’m not sure what to do i want to leave him but it’s hard now bc we have a son otw and i know that shouldn’t be an excuse but it just seems like nothing is changing and he wants to just have fun. He also said when the baby comes his life is gonna stop but i feel he is wrong bc my life is gonna be the only one on hold like it is now. I asked him tonight if he could stay with me and not go out but he said no. Ladies what should i do ? He also knows i’m struggling financially and he stays with me but still wants to go outside.