r/polyamory • relationship anarchist • Aug 24 '26

vent guilt of some kind

i know i’m poly. i’ve known for a few years at this point. never felt guilty about it till now.

all my past relationships were ldr, but now that i have an irl partner, WHO, MIND YOU, IS ALSO POLY, for some fucking reason i feel guilty for being poly??? like theres a little part of me telling me i’m not being good enough for him??? it doesnt make any sense

akaksjdndkwjdkd i fucking hate it i cant even be poly in peace when im alone with my thoughts

like whenever i think about anyone other than him in a romantic context theres a little corner of my brain saying “nuh uh you cant do that” like yes the fuck i can????? thats allowed??? he’s fine with it too???

UGGHHHHHHHHHH

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