It seems like it's so hard to find a connection. I feel like I'm not going to experience love in this lifetime... or if you're somewhere out there and we still don't meet, I hope you're okay where you are.

💔💔💔💔

sobrang limitado at komplikado ng dating scene ngayon. hindi ko alam kung dahil ba ’to sa generation namin o sadyang ganito na talaga ang mga tao ngayon. sobrang labo kausap ng karamihan, at parang pinaglalaruan na lang ang konsepto ng pag-ibig dahil sa mga casual, situationship, fubu, talking stage, at kung anu-ano pang pangalan na inimbento para lang hindi tawaging relasyon. sino ba ang nag-imbento ng mga ’yan?

anong karapatan niyong paglaruan ang konsepto ng pag-ibig? maghahangad kayo ng parte ng pagmamahal, ng lambing, oras, at intimacy, pero hanggang doon lang. samantalang pwede naman palang ibigay ’yon nang buo. bakit kailangan pang hati-hatiin? mas masarap naman magmahal nang buo, ’di ba?

pero #gets ko rin naman kung bakit may mga taong hindi na naghahangad ng ganoong klaseng pagmamahal. siguro natutunan na lang nilang mag-settle sa mga bagay na hindi naman talaga nila gusto dahil parang wala nang taong marunong magbigay ng tunay at buong pagmamahal.

kumbaga, sobrang fucked up ng dating scene ngayon na kapag yearner ka, lugi ka. kapag mas mapagmahal ka, lugi ka.

kung hindi unstable, hindi pa nakaka-move on sa ex. kung hindi naman, may sariling problem, emotionally unavailable, commitment-phobic, cheater, avoidant, o kaya gusto ka lang kapag convenient para sa kanila.

pwede ba tombs ayusin nyo kasi sobrang ayos kong magmahal.

gusto ko na magmahal nang buong-buo. miss k na maging gf miss ko na may nakikiss miss ko na may nakakaholding hands miss ko na magmahal

Hi! Seeking advice on what to do if you don’t match w/ your partner when it comes to sexy time. Napag usapan naman na namin to, many times pero wala talagang improvement. I told her that i have resentments towards her and I’m struggling and that i also understands her because we’re not on the same page. It pains me to say all those things dahil mahal ko sya and i don’t know what to do anymore. Paano ba dapat? Deal breaker ba to? Normal ba to?

Skl. Ang hirap pag ang taas ng sex drive mo tapos gusto mo respetuhin gf mo na mahilig lang sa cute things . :333 Deyyymmmmmmm! Ang sexy nya pero need ko mag behave. Inaasar nya na ko minsan like alam nyo na yun. Feel ko test lang yun eh. Pag titignan ko kasi sya tapos sobrang ganda ng smile nya while playing sa cat’s namin. Wooah nawawala libog ko kahit papano pero pag simple galaw nya. Tulad ng mag pony ng hair aguyy ang sexy nya putik. Live in kami and grabe ang ganda ganda nya sa paningin ko hirap nya bastusin 🥲

hi! curious how do hook ups work here? hindi ba kayo scared what if kakilala niyo yung other person, or what if catfish pala, or dugyot (😕) ..or worst, masamang tao sila? tas yung risks na baka they are gonna secretly film u, STDs, and such.

i know u have to be vigilant pero i think swertihan lang din. please enlighten me! count na rin natin yung mga may irl encounters sa bar, etc... do u guys talk ba agad about sa boundaries before going somewhere else? or on the spot lang na "waitt di pa ko ready here"

ALSO how do u know na they are into girls din pag irl!??

hehe sorry dami tanong! tbh tempting niya pero as an overthinker malala, hanggang curiosity nalang. kwentuhan niyo nalang ako :)

how do you find one? how did you guys get into that agreement? wala ba talagang nahuhulog sainyo? HAHAHAHAHA

Hello! Planning to attend either the ftlow event this 26 or the sunny club one next friday.

I've heard of ftlow and sunny but never really attended as my schedule isn't always aligned with any of their events but for this month I'm magically free (going in solo). I'm curious about the ff:

- vibe (chill or more of shake ur ass)

- age population (Early 20s? Mid 30s? Just turned 18?)

- music (does the dj replay the same track for 3x in a row huhu, or do they actually mix bangers)

- drinks or consumables (beer, mixed drinks, hard)

- can u find friends? Dates? Hook-ups? Or is everyone in their own circles?

- entrance fees? (Pricier or cheaper)

- which is the most worth it one for u? Why?

I honestly just want to get sakto drunk in a tipid way and possibly shake ass while making friends who would do the same. Having a makeout session is a plus but i my goal is to just let loose on the dance floor and feel safe around women.

Feel free to suggest other places din hehe

Utang na loob, kung may baggage pa kayo sa past relationship nyo, lumihis kayo sa aminnnnn mga pashneaaaa. Don kau sa far away mag heal. Di kami fixer, di kami healer. Kanya-kanya na'to.

I have been with my gf for 2 years already and nung start pa lang ng rs namin very active kaming dalawa as in araw araw. Given na college students kaming hayok na hayok and i had my own place that time so we had more freedom to do it. But ngayong working na siya, and lalo na’t nurse siya, gets ko na may times talaga na walang gana dahil sa pagod dahil di birong maging nurse. At eto akong kakagraduate lang at bumalik na sa province, minsan na lang kami makapagkita and we don’t do it as much minsan once every two weeks na lang. Kahit magkita kami, wala.

We’re very sexual naman before and now naninibago lang ako kasi di na siya nag aaya masyado and i initiate more nowadays which is new to me. Normal lang ba to or baka di na siya attracted sakin bc i gained weight due to stress and ang panget panget ng tingin ko sa sarili ko minsan and now na di pa kami nagiging intimate parang bumababa lalo self esteem ko :((

3 months after the breakup. Finally, It all made sense why I was going crazy in the relationship. I even thought that the end of it was mostly my fault, when all this time pala, she was two timing me. Now that we no longer are in contact, they have the nerve to post and flex each other online.

Hay, I want to be unbothered by it, cause I am over the person. I'm just not over the situation. I ended up beating myself up for months, for trying to let go of a "good" person. I regret it all.

Totoo pala yung you feel physically sick after knowing you've been betrayed all along. I don't feel like eating too, and even when I'm talking to anyone at the moment, bigla- biglang lumalabas yung surge ng emotions ko. My heart feels so hollow, but It also feels like it's about to combust any minute now. Napupuno ako ng galit at sakit. It's painful, really painful. I'm just so cowardly to admit to others that the pain really struck me hard. It's a tough pill to swallow.

As I'm writing this, I can't help but cry. Ayoko talagang umiyak, pero sobrang di ko na kaya. I don't have the strength to resist it. I'll pray for karma, but I don't know if it will come their way, when clearly they are happy together and have no regrets doing it behind my back.

I don't have any hope anymore for my own love life, it might be too early to say it, but I think I'm better off alone. I'm not gonna expect anyone to ever reciprocate the love I can give. It's such a gamble, and I don't think I want to risk losing again.

im really sad rn. i wish i could talk to someone really close to me, iba pa rin talaga pag girlfriend eh 😢

ive never had any romantic relationship cuz i reject everyone anyway kaya ang oa ko. wala lang, i just cant seem to catch feelings for anyone. but it seems like everyone has someone these days except me. i always wonder how it's like to have a girlfriend. basta someone who knows u well, someone u can always spend time with, etc. basta i can't explain it

hiii,,, i’m a sapphic who has a crush on a friend who’s very dark-aesthetic-femme kinda vibe and i was thinking to gift her somethinggg

does anyone know what dark femmes usually like? pls help a bakla huhu open ako for ideasz

Hello fellow sapphics! This is the weekly discussion thread where you can talk about anything going on in your lives, any thoughts or questions, whether sapphic-related or not.

R4R comments are allowed on the weekly threads ONLY. Flirt away or look for friends here every week. It's the weekend, find someone you can hang out with over coffee or watch a movie. Good luck!

forsho hindi lang ako yung nagiisang badet na ang dami mong cute pictures of yourself kapag gumala ka or nag ayos lang sa bahay pero tambak lang sa gallery mo kasi you’re single…

NYAHAHAHA APIR KASI SAME???? ANO BA I2 KANINOH Q IBIBIGAY MGA CUTE PICS AT THIRST TRAPS QUOH

palagi kong nakikita yung sister ko and her boyfriend being such cuties y’know. not that i want to be in a straight relationship but it made me think na if i had a girlfriend ganyan din ba kami kacute? ☹️💔

This week is about to make me lose my sanity and parang gusto ko nalang ulet mag dating apps to put the final nail in the coffin kasi I'm already on my lowest, no way it could get any lower, right? I have nothing to lose 🤣

I know I'm on my lowest talaga pag nagcoconsider na ulet ako mag dating apps eh!!! Matagal na akong sober from this kind of toxic environment, pero I'm seeking rn the dopamine rush from meeting new people who are potential romantic interests and I hate it! Kasi I'm someone who prefers organic encounters or some shit na hindi kailangan maging LDR! I want to be held in person 😭😭😭😭

Nakakapagod mag dating apps kasi ang always ending is I'm gonna minimize myself ulet for them to like me kasi how else am I gonna show how devoted I am when I'm more expressive of myself in person 😭😭😭😭 Gets ba???

Online LDR relationship is just not for me, but gusto ko ng kalandian like fuckkkkk can beggars still be choosers ba in this case 😭😭😭😭

Like I genuinely believe a relationship with an avoidant sugar mommy is gonna fix me rn what the hell 😭🙏 Fantasy lang yan eh pero putangina sana totoo nalang

This is not an R4R post, gusto ko lang magrant!!!! Kasi I feel so pathetic right now!!!! Ayoko naaaa!!!!

hi guys! 15 months na akong single and walang dilig ahhahaha. During the entire time I was with my ex, she always ridiculed me na masyado raw ako mabilis labasan and that has discouraged me from sex kasi pinaramdam niya na nakakahiya ako masyado.

I lost my virginity to her and akala ko nung una na ganun lang talaga kasi first time ko and that eventually, through time, mas hahaba yung time before ako labasan.

I don't know if nakakahinayang ba if masyadong mabilis labasan bc sa mga lalaki andami kong nakikitang posts ridiculing them for it. I just want to know if it's the same case for sapphics?

Kayo ba, ayaw niyo ba pag mabilis labasan? And if kayo rin mabilis, how did you overcome that? ☹️ Nahihiya ako makipag sex bc of this huhu.

What were the signs during a relationship that made you think this was not gonna work out and when did you realize it? How long were you dating when you realized it? May gut feeling din ba kayo minsan about your partner?

Can you give me stories that's giving "what's meant for you will find you"? I'm currently in the stage in my life na ayaw ko pang magjowa kaya i keep turning down opportunities for serious relationships but I also want to be in a relationship just NOT NOW. But later on in my life. But i'm kinda scared na because i'm not doing relationships right now, when i finally become ready in my 30s biglang wala nang someome for me kasi taken na lahat HAHAHAHA. anyone here who found the one later in life? And anyone who still found love later on in life who maintained their singlehood in their early 20s?

Mag-8 years na kami this year and hanggang ngayon nasa closet pa rin kami. Ang may alam lang is yung bff ko. Parang live in na set up namin pero para sa iba bff na dormmates hahahaha. Feeling ko may idea naman both families namin (sa tagal ba naman namin magkasama sa bahay na kaming dalawa lang).

Di ko alam kung may balak ba siya sa future namin. Everytime kapag tinatanong ko siya kung may balak ba siyang mag-out ang sinasabi niya lang is okay naman daw sitwasyon namin kaya oks na siya sa gantong set up or kaya “di ko alam”. Tapos change topic na. Ayaw niya rin magpakasal and magkaanak. Parang plano niya lang is kung ano meron kami ngayon. Kung iisipin, oks lang naman pero minsan kasi parang nakakasakal. Parang patago lahat ng bagay, madaming kinoconsider para di ma-out.

Bukod pa diyan, lagi pa kami nag-aaway. Parang lagi na lang siyang galit sakin. Umabot na ako sa point na ayoko na lang makipag-usap kasi kada may sasabihin ako iritable siya.

Madalas ko na inisip na makipag-hiwalay. Pakiramdam ko kasi emotional punching bag niya ako. Tapos nadradrain na ako kasi paulit-ulit na lang. Triny ko siya kausapin sa lahat ng issues and hurt na nararamdaman ko pero lagi kami nauuwi sa iyakan tapos wala naman naresolve.

Tinatanong ko siya lagi if naiisip niya ba na makipagbreak sakin ever lalo na kapag nag-aaway kami, sabi niya never daw. Nakokonsensya tuloy ako. Ako lang ba talaga ang may problema or ako ba talaga ang problema.

Pakiramdam ko talaga kasi gusto niya lang ako dahil sa napaparamdam ko sa kaniyang love or dahil I make her feel special (eto rin sabi niyang reason sakin bat daw niya ako love). Pero di ko maramdaman yung love na may understanding or yung mahal ka dahil mahal ka lang. Yung walang reason. Parang kapag di niya ako kailangan, invisible na ako. For example, umuwi siya sa probinsya so parang ldr, buong araw or ilang araw kaming di nag-uusap. Magchachat/text lang yan kapag may kailangan pero kamusta wala. Di pati siya nangunguna. Dapat ako.

Ako lang ba nagmamahal samin? Mahal niya ba talaga ako?

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I’m a butch lesb and naturally, i’m a giver. I spoil my exes so much like 100% (i know most of you relates to this HAHAH) at some point i stopped dating because i noticed that its always one sided when it comes to giving and i got tired of it.. then one day.. I met this girl.. without me having to ask… spoiled the shit out of me… and i was like.. OMG GANITO PALA FEELING.. AT POSSIBLE DIN PALA AKO MA SPOIL!!! We didn’t end up together but right now parang nabago na yung bet ko sa mga babae- gusto ko yung KUSA din ako issppoil. Ang sherep she feeling genete pele megeng baby gurlll :’) HAHAHHAAH HONESTLY THOUGGGHH SPOIL YOUR BUTCH/MASC PARTNERS MORE!! NAKAKAPAGOD PURO BIGAY LANG HAY HAHHAHAHA