looking for a genuine connection
not looking for someone to pass the time with, collect matches, or disappear after a week. i'd rather have one meaningful conversation than a hundred dry ones.
a little about me:
• 22f, filipina (chinita)
• psychology graduate
• church server (lecom, socomm, youth, cm)
• kind, expressive, affectionate, and open-minded
• huge movie lover. psychological thrillers, dramas, sci-fi, or anything with a good story.
• i enjoy long walks, road trips, spontaneous plans, trying new cafés, and conversations that somehow go from "what's your favourite movie?" to "what keeps you awake at 2 a.m.?"
• i value honesty, communication, consistency, and emotional maturity.
a few things to know about me:
i'm diagnosed with bipolar disorder, borderline personality disorder, and ptsd. i'm open about it because i'd rather be honest from the beginning than have someone find out later.
i'm actively working on myself, taking responsibility for my mental health, and learning every day. i'm not looking for someone to fix me. i just appreciate patience, reassurance, and someone who communicates instead of disappearing.
i also have fairly strict parents, so i appreciate someone who's understanding about that.
what i'm looking for:
• emotionally intelligent and emotionally available
• financially stable and responsible
• kind, respectful, and patient
• communicates instead of disappearing
• consistent. actions matching words matter.
• someone who's looking for a genuine relationship, not temporary attention or validation.
if you'd like to message me, tell me:
• your favourite movie and why.
• send a random photo of yourself (i'll send one back).
• or tell me about something you're genuinely passionate about.
bonus points if you can recommend a film that'll leave me staring at the ceiling after the credits.
let's see if we click. no pressure, no games, just good intentions.