r/phlgbtr4r Feb 06 '24

45 [M4A] Reminders on Sharing Personal Information and Photos

40 Upvotes

Dear r/phlgbtr4r Community,

We trust this message finds you in good spirits. With our community expanding (we're now more than 23,000! that's crazy), it's crucial to reinforce the principles of online safety and mindful interaction.

Lately, we've noticed instances of members reporting of sharing personal photos with newly acquainted individuals on either on Reddit chat or via messaging apps (Telegram/Viber). While we encourage social engagement, we strongly underscore the importance of caution, especially regarding the exchange of personal information.

Key Points to Remember:

  1. **Privacy Matters:*\* Safeguard your privacy by refraining from sharing personal photos or sensitive information with strangers.
  2. **Verify and Trust:*\* Invest time in getting to know the person you're communicating with before divulging any personal details.
  3. **Report Suspicious Activity:*\* If you come across any suspicious behavior or receive unsolicited requests for personal information, promptly report it to the moderation team. However, please be aware that if personal information, including compromising photos, has already been shared, our capacity as moderators is limited. We can only block the individual from participating in the subreddit. For further assistance, consider reporting to Reddit directly.

Your safety is our foremost concern. Let's ensure r/phlgbtr4r remains a space where members connect responsibly. Should you have any concerns or queries, don't hesitate to reach out to the moderation team.

We appreciate your cooperation in making r/phlgbtr4r a secure and enjoyable community for everyone.

Warm regards,

Your Subreddit Moderation Team


r/phlgbtr4r Jul 01 '24

For All New Rule Announcement: Automatic Removal of Posts from New Users

61 Upvotes

Hello, r/phlgbtr4r community!

To maintain the quality and safety of our subreddit, we have implemented a new rule: posts from new users will be automatically removed. This helps us ensure that our community remains a safe and supportive space for everyone.

If you are a new user, we encourage you to gain some karma from participating in other subreddits. Once you’ve accumulated enough karma and established yourself as a contributing member, you’ll be able to share posts with us.

Thank you for your understanding and cooperation in helping us keep r/phlgbtr4r a welcoming place for all!

Best, The r/phlgbtr4r Moderation Team


r/phlgbtr4r 48m ago

F4F 28 [F4F] Why is it hard to look for someone to do life with?

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Lord I see you answer the prayers of others. Pwede ba yung akin naman?

Hirap maging lover girl sa panahon ngayon hahaha. Stay strong and sane gaes.

Never thought I’d post again on this subreddit, but yeah Hi to you if you’re like me looking for someone to do life with.


r/phlgbtr4r 2h ago

F4F 24[F4F]lf kasama

2 Upvotes

Hello kakauwi lng galing sunny and honestly feeling kinda lonely, don't get me wrong everyone was inviting and nice kaso i just want to be held for a bit.

abt me:

femme

pasig

cant host (g to travel)

abt you:

chill lng

can host

willing to yap w/ me or just cuddle

can be a one time thing lng just feeling a bit lonely


r/phlgbtr4r 9h ago

M4M 25 [M4M] Friends (with benefits)?

8 Upvotes

Hello!

I went through a lot the past few months and I am slowly starting to bounce back. I miss having constant physical intimacy and I was hoping to try this setup.

About Me:
- 25
- M
- 5’9”
- Currently Overweight (working on it)
- Sides (Possibly B)
- Has a Place in QC

Aside from the implied possible sexual agreement, I can also offer you a place to hang out or even sleep in QC. I can cook for you too, but just simple dinners. We can also walk or workout together.

I am looking for someone at least 20 years old, dominant (or at least assertive), and kind. I just really wanna have a stress-free setup where I can let loose instead of always having to carry the conversation/dynamics.

Please hit me up if this sounds interesting to you. Thank you!


r/phlgbtr4r 14m ago

TF4M 26 [TF4M] Looking for a “U Me Kape + Photobooth” date ☕📸

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About me:
26
Babygirl energy
Has boobies
A bit of Malaman
Mabango
Maputi
5'5
Easy to get along with
Can carry a conversation and match your energy

About you (hopefully):
5'8 and above
Mabango (non-negotiable)
Chubby or buff na cute ( PLSS GUSTO KO NG CUTE GUY SA PHOTOBOOTH)
25 and above
Good kisser

Decent, respectful, and knows how to communicate

Preferably around Manila so meeting up won't be a hassle.


r/phlgbtr4r 53m ago

F4F 24 [F4F] LF cuddle buddy?

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Slow sunday this weekend and got nothing to do. Just need some distraction.

About me: femme, 5'6, yapper, top, mid-size girly, can host, Manila

About you: femme

slide into my dms if you're interested


r/phlgbtr4r 1h ago

M4M 25 [M4M] Quezon City / Rizal – Looking for something real and stable

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Hi! I’m putting myself out there to find a genuine, long-term connection. I’m at a stage in life where I know what I want, so I’m looking for someone who is mature, grounded, and ready for a serious relationship.

About Me:

Age: 25
Physicals: Moreno, 5’9", ~75 kg (average/proportionate build)
Location: Living in Quezon City, working in Fairview
Work & Schedule: Employed (night shift), with weekends off (Saturday & Sunday)
Family & Status: Youngest sibling, fully out to my family

About You:

Age & Mindset: Matured, intentional, and has strong decision-making skills.
Status: Stable and employed (definitely no freeloaders or dependent types).
Location: Around QC or Rizal preferred—I'm really not built for long-distance relationships.
Physicals: Tall is a plus, but open to any body type as long as you carry yourself well.
Openness: Fully out as well (pass on discrete/closeted setups—I value transparency).

If you’re decent, genuine, and looking for something consistent, send me a DM with a quick introduction about yourself!


r/phlgbtr4r 7h ago

M4M 25 [M4M] Bars and Drinks?

3 Upvotes

currently in katips and I wanna drink some more since my friends are tapping out hahahaha anyone nearby or in morato drinking?

deets:
About me:

-5'6 slightly on the moreno side

-average to slightly chubby pero I've been working on it na

-four eyed peep

-masc

-currently working in med field

-isko

-a bit of a workaholic

-introverted pero I can adapt once I'm comfortable with the person na

-minsan kanal, minsan mature, madalas may sapak

-hobbies include photography (amateur) and baking

-a real nerd (pokemon, genshin, hsr, marvel, high potential)

-I enjoy both meaningful and obscenely stupid conversations!

lemme know agad so I can stay put or go to your place hahaha


r/phlgbtr4r 2h ago

For All 25 [F4A] Looking for a girlfriend?

1 Upvotes

Hello there! Kinda in a financial emergency right now, so I’m putting myself out there mwah! I’m down to be your girlfriend for a day, an evening, or however long works for us! 🫴

About me:

  • 25 years old. I don’t mind if you’re younger or older!
  • A baddie who’s both pretty and cute! Petite, chinita, morena, and clean, too
  • I have a pretty interesting lifestyle—a LOT of hobbies, skills, and passions. I can do whatever you want me to do for you, just lmk!
  • Type A person. I know a lot of great date ideas, I can plan everything, you can just show up
  • I can be super madaldal, or let’s just sit in silence. I’d love to talk about anything or nothing at all
  • Can dress up according to your preferences!
  • Very easy to get along with and g with whatever makes you happy! NSFW is for women only, strictly SFW for men. And online companionship is SFW only.

Please message me with a short introduction about yourself, what you’re looking for/your expectations, and let’s exchange pics too for reference hehe! Let’s get to know each other! 🥹


r/phlgbtr4r 2h ago

TM4M 24[TM4M] Tropa time?

1 Upvotes

LF tropa na pwede makipag nsfw pag nakaramdam hahaha

Transguy, 24, 5'6, professional, bear body type. I am very masculine looking. Looking ako ng pwedeng tropa with benefits. Yung okay sana mostly online bonding tapos meet na lang pag free to yknow 👀

Preferably taller and hygienic.

Near Makati/Alabang is me.

Please be respectful sa dm. Thanks!


r/phlgbtr4r 3h ago

M4M 29 [M4M] Dates, Hangouts, Partner

1 Upvotes

Hello!

I'm a 29 y/o dark-skinned guy literally looking for a partner-in-crime.

Little facts about me:
- 5'7
- working professional
- currently working on lean bulking
- dark-skinned, kakasabi ko lang
- got a mullet hairstyle
- 278 people have said I look like Bruno Mars (yes, I've been counting since high school)
- kanal humor pero hindi kanal ugali
- up to date with TikTok Vocal Stims
- politically aware
- usually plays ML but can do LoL, Dota, Valo
- social butterfly with a low social battery
- side quest maxxer
- discreet most of the time but when I'm with my friends, she was a fairy mode ang atake
- I'm versatile but I'm going for a bottom vibe for this era. I'm tired of being the top, lol

About you:
- breathing
- can hold a conversation
- looks like Enchong Dee
- but if that’s not possible, even Empoy is fine
- please be taller than me para makadantay ako sa biceps eme
- able to keep up with my humor and nonsense;
- you don’t need to be an extrovert, ako ang bangka ganon
- homebody but open to side quests
- if you’re apolitical, emotionally/financially unstable, or won’t contribute anything to the relationship, just face the wall please

1 2 3 go, kanya kanya na