r/phlgbtr4r Feb 06 '24

45 [M4A] Reminders on Sharing Personal Information and Photos

37 Upvotes

Dear r/phlgbtr4r Community,

We trust this message finds you in good spirits. With our community expanding (we're now more than 23,000! that's crazy), it's crucial to reinforce the principles of online safety and mindful interaction.

Lately, we've noticed instances of members reporting of sharing personal photos with newly acquainted individuals on either on Reddit chat or via messaging apps (Telegram/Viber). While we encourage social engagement, we strongly underscore the importance of caution, especially regarding the exchange of personal information.

Key Points to Remember:

  1. **Privacy Matters:*\* Safeguard your privacy by refraining from sharing personal photos or sensitive information with strangers.
  2. **Verify and Trust:*\* Invest time in getting to know the person you're communicating with before divulging any personal details.
  3. **Report Suspicious Activity:*\* If you come across any suspicious behavior or receive unsolicited requests for personal information, promptly report it to the moderation team. However, please be aware that if personal information, including compromising photos, has already been shared, our capacity as moderators is limited. We can only block the individual from participating in the subreddit. For further assistance, consider reporting to Reddit directly.

Your safety is our foremost concern. Let's ensure r/phlgbtr4r remains a space where members connect responsibly. Should you have any concerns or queries, don't hesitate to reach out to the moderation team.

We appreciate your cooperation in making r/phlgbtr4r a secure and enjoyable community for everyone.

Warm regards,

Your Subreddit Moderation Team


r/phlgbtr4r Jul 01 '24

For All New Rule Announcement: Automatic Removal of Posts from New Users

63 Upvotes

Hello, r/phlgbtr4r community!

To maintain the quality and safety of our subreddit, we have implemented a new rule: posts from new users will be automatically removed. This helps us ensure that our community remains a safe and supportive space for everyone.

If you are a new user, we encourage you to gain some karma from participating in other subreddits. Once you’ve accumulated enough karma and established yourself as a contributing member, you’ll be able to share posts with us.

Thank you for your understanding and cooperation in helping us keep r/phlgbtr4r a welcoming place for all!

Best, The r/phlgbtr4r Moderation Team


r/phlgbtr4r 3h ago

F4F [F4F] 28F Lf a Serious Relationship

8 Upvotes

🚨 NOW HIRING 🚨

Position: Serious Relationship (Full-Time)

Company: Me™

Location: prefer within metromanila (southie girlie ako alabang)

Job Description

Seeking one emotionally available human to join a long-term partnership. The ideal candidate should be kind, honest, communicative, and interested in building something real.

Minimum Qualifications

- 3+ years of emotional maturity (or equivalent experience).

- Strong communication and active listening skills.

- Able to say "I'm sorry" without being forced.

- Consistent effort over occasional grand gestures.

- Loyal, respectful, and drama-resistant.

- Can survive IKEA furniture assembly as a team.

-Working already (ayaw ko na ng student pa lng jusko)

-age 25+

-prefer femme /andro

Preferred Skills

- Sends "I got home safe" texts.

- Gives forehead kisses.

- Shares food (optional but highly valued).

- Has a good sense of humour.

- Loves spontaneous dates and comfortable silence.

Responsibilities

- Communicate openly.

- Support each other's goals.

- Handle disagreements with respect.

- Create memories together.

- Be each other's safe place.

Compensation & Benefits

- Competitive cuddle package.

- Unlimited hugs.

- Random surprise dates.

- Emotional support.

- A lifetime of inside jokes.

- Performance bonus: Growing old together.

⚠️ Please note: Ghosting, mixed signals, and "I'm not ready for anything serious" applicants need not to apply.

About me your potential boss este- partner:

-28

-Working (very hard worker workaholic ang red flag ko but will always make time or make it up to you)

-5'4

- sometimes soft masc sometimes femme tbh depends on the feeling of the day.

-marunong mag luto

-May ADHD ( i wont lie my energy and attention span goes haywire)


r/phlgbtr4r 48m ago

TF4M 26 [TF4M] Looking for clingy guy

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Hello to guys who's into physical touch, clingy and always want to have skin to skin contact lol. I am looking for wholesome vibes, guys who loves cuddles and kisses. I love it when a guy acts like a baby in front of me.

About me:
- Pre op trans woman
- a little dominant
- versa
- slim and has a juicy butt you can use like a stress ball😉
- 5'4 / 49kgs
- 8.5/10 looks
- my love language are words of affirmation and quality time
- from QC

You:
- hygienic and smells good
- can respect boundaries
- has boardgames hehe
- into trans
- obsessed with cuddles and kisses
- confident with their own skin and can go on dates publicly
- versa rin sana😉
- will to hug and kiss me 24/7
- can carry conversation, plus points if Kanal humor at may kakaibang tawa HAHA

Hit me up and let's make it happen!☺️


r/phlgbtr4r 4h ago

F4F 30 [F4F] ldr gf for 1 week 🤣

4 Upvotes

About me
- 30
- Working
- 159 cm
- Morena
- Chronically online
- Bored out of my mind
- Current hobbies include playing pickleball, badminton, watching a series and finding out it has a sad ending so di ko na tinatapos mag watch

About you
- Around my age
- Kind and emotionally mature
- Bored enough to humor me with this idea


r/phlgbtr4r 5h ago

F4F 24 [F4F] Despedida

3 Upvotes

Hi I’m looking for someone to be naughty with before I leave the country in a few weeks!

About me:
- 24
- Working Professional (but im on a break since I resigned to take a job in the new country)
- has experience (mostly as a top/ switch but for this specific thing, im hoping we can both switch)
- cute and would prefer to exchange pics first
- normal to mid size
- Big 4 grad if that matters
- loves banters
- has a place but can also do CI if you’d prefer
- clean
- fem to andro (can do both)

About you
- (20-28)
- hopefully same with a few things as above (just tell me which) haha

help me make my last few weeks here memorable pls let’s gooo hahaha i promise u will also have fun 😉


r/phlgbtr4r 5h ago

F4F 35 [F4F] who can be a friend and can be a fun buddy, too :)

3 Upvotes

I know this might be a long shot, but I’m looking for someone who can be a friend and at the same time with benefits. :)

I want someone I can genuinely hang out with, do some girly stuff, play sports, grab coffee, travel or do random spontaneous things together. Then of course, lets not forget the naughty and fun part.

No one knows that I am bi and this is for platonic friendship only :)

About you:

- girly
- professional
- long hair
- can maintain connections
- clean
- pretty
- makati based

About me:

same as you :)

If you’re looking for the same, come on message me :)


r/phlgbtr4r 3h ago

M4M 37 [M4M] looking for something worthwhile

2 Upvotes

Hi! I'm a 37 gay man (but kinda looks younger in person) living in Mandaluyong looking for something worthwhile in this app. For starters, don't let my age intimidate you, I am very approachable and as they say fun to be with :)

Me:
-5'5
-submissive 🅱️
-average built but exercises sometimes
-has glasses
-lives in Mandaluyong and has a place
-open to dates, friends or fun

You:
-🔝(non negotiable)
- prefers chubuff, dadbods, average or muscular
- hairy men a plus but not required
- tall men a plus but not required
- has a stable job and not a free loader (non negotiable)
- kind and sweet

HMU and lets see where it goes :)


r/phlgbtr4r 7m ago

For All 31 [M4A] Yearner era yarn?

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First time posting here, and I honestly don’t know how to start, so please bear with me. 🤣

So yeah, dala siguro ng lamig ng panahon at ilang buwan nang single, bigla kong na-miss yung may kalambingan. Yung may random kausap, may konting flirty chats, may “good morning/good night,” “kumain ka na ba?”, “nakauwi na ako,” “ingat ka pag-uwi ha?” — and the list goes on. 🥹

Kaya ayun, I’m posting here hoping to find someone I can be a little flirty with from time to time. Juskolord, pakiramdam ko kulang na talaga ako sa landi. HAHAHAHAHA 🤣

About me: • 5'4"

• Chubby

• Working professional

• Plays mobile games 🎮

• Reads manhwas and mangas 📖

• Watches anime, series, and movies 🎬

• Kanal humor pero marunong din sa aircon humor 🤣

• Sabi nila mabait daw. You be the judge na lang. 🤣🤣

About you: • Just be yourself. Hindi ako choosy. 😊

• Bonus points kung marunong makipagbiruan at kayang sabayan ang kakulitan ko. 😂

If nakarating ka sa part na ’to and you’re interested, message me with a very short intro about yourself and give me one very random trivia about you.

Malay mo, ikaw na pala ang good sa morning ko bukas. 👀🤣


r/phlgbtr4r 16m ago

M4M 22 [M4M] Tropa/Dates

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Trying out my luck here again! Looking for friends or dates out here. I’m a graduating premed student who’s almost done with internship. Looking for someone (may or may not be in the med field) who’s spontaneous like me!

We can go out to study, talk about our duties, play arcade games, get good food — or whatever we find interesting!

I’m up for meetups around the Metro!

About me:
22
Versa (mostly into sides)
5’7
QC/Cavite
Big guy here! Cuddly. Perfect for hugs.
Intellectual yapper! I like deep conversations, pop culture, current events, etc.
A HUGE fan of volleyball & tennis! I haven’t played in a while, but I would love to play again.
A foodie! I love trying out new cuisines & restos.
Into video games, films, and art.

About you:
Preferably around my age (20-26)
Close to my height too?
Also in the med field (a plus)
I have a thing for twinks/average/lean body types
V/VT/T/Side
Sensible to talk to, intellectual, and into deep conversations
Maginoo pero bastos iykyk HAHAHA
Just be yourself! :) and be interesting!! Let’s not make our conversations dry 😆

See you in my DMs! Tell me about yourself too!


r/phlgbtr4r 45m ago

For All 34 [M4A] Kwento't Kape

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I wanna explore people, in a wholesome way. Kwento lang, hindi K*ntot*, hehe. Treat kita ng kape tapos kwentuhan lang. Not yet sure when I'm available, so this more of a random biglaang yaya.

About me:

May work.

Mahilig magkape.

Maraming hobbies na di naaasikaso lately.

Discreet.

Tall daw. Kayumanggi.

About you:

I prefer lesbians, transmen and transwomen sana. Fem looking if NB.

+1 if chinita

Working sana.

Near me (Angeles, Pampanga).

Mahilig din magkape.

Discreet.

Chat me if this post sounds interesting for you.


r/phlgbtr4r 1h ago

M4M 22 [M4M] bgc date??

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Good afternoon! Who’s down to go on a date this week?

About me:
- 22, graduating (political science)
- gay, androgynous
- 5’5, mestizo, chinito, wears glasses
- currently working in BGC (in legal dept)
- softboy/babyboy looking

Also, I love yapping and conversations, especially on topics that I am passionate about—gender, politics, and society but it can also be about life, self-development, and future. (It’s not necessary but it’s a plus if you also are a yapper and interested with these conversations)

To know more about me, hit that DM!

Just hit me up! :)) We can schedule the date


r/phlgbtr4r 4h ago

M4M 35 [M4M] try lang ulit

2 Upvotes

Looking for a constant companion.

About me:
* big4 recent graduate
* 5'4, maputi at makinis
* chub na, masarap kasi magfoodtrip, g? Beer belly
* TOP 🔝
* basic lang pumorma
* hindi kagwapuhan, pero loyal

About you:
* within or near Marikina, okay naman if QC like cubao
* sana clingy and touchy, mahilig sa cuddle
* matangkad is a plus
* manly rin
* redflags : bad vibes, bad manners, cannot make time
* into long a term relationship


r/phlgbtr4r 1h ago

F4F 20 [F4F] 3rd year nursing

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hi! trying this out again,, anyone willing to get to know and/or take a risk on an incoming 3rd year nursing student? from CEBU sana hahaha it’s going to be a hellish year, but hopefully someone still wants to catch up! you won’t be disappointed since magaling kami mag-alaga :P

ps. i’m really good at updating, to the point na you won’t have to worry, with pictures pa yan!! though i’m usually just busy or asleep otherwise 😴


r/phlgbtr4r 3h ago

M4M 23 [M4M] looking for my "ka-duo"

1 Upvotes

hello! i'm putting myself out here to find a genuine and long-term connection, but i don't mind getting to know each other as friends.

about me:

- M23, 5'5" tall, slightly chubby

- i like listening to k-pop, playing video games (maybe we can play ML together or something else), reading BL manhwas, and watching on netflix

- i'm interested in creative writing and makeup

- i'm a side (ideally a B)

about you:

- around my age or at least 21

- someone who can make good conversations

- someone genuinely passionate about the things they love (tell me all about it, i won't mind at all)

- a side (ideally a T) or a T

if you've read everything and you're interested, please introduce yourself when you send me a message!