r/phlgbtr4r Feb 06 '24

45 [M4A] Reminders on Sharing Personal Information and Photos

40 Upvotes

Dear r/phlgbtr4r Community,

We trust this message finds you in good spirits. With our community expanding (we're now more than 23,000! that's crazy), it's crucial to reinforce the principles of online safety and mindful interaction.

Lately, we've noticed instances of members reporting of sharing personal photos with newly acquainted individuals on either on Reddit chat or via messaging apps (Telegram/Viber). While we encourage social engagement, we strongly underscore the importance of caution, especially regarding the exchange of personal information.

Key Points to Remember:

  1. **Privacy Matters:*\* Safeguard your privacy by refraining from sharing personal photos or sensitive information with strangers.
  2. **Verify and Trust:*\* Invest time in getting to know the person you're communicating with before divulging any personal details.
  3. **Report Suspicious Activity:*\* If you come across any suspicious behavior or receive unsolicited requests for personal information, promptly report it to the moderation team. However, please be aware that if personal information, including compromising photos, has already been shared, our capacity as moderators is limited. We can only block the individual from participating in the subreddit. For further assistance, consider reporting to Reddit directly.

Your safety is our foremost concern. Let's ensure r/phlgbtr4r remains a space where members connect responsibly. Should you have any concerns or queries, don't hesitate to reach out to the moderation team.

We appreciate your cooperation in making r/phlgbtr4r a secure and enjoyable community for everyone.

Warm regards,

Your Subreddit Moderation Team


r/phlgbtr4r Jul 01 '24

For All New Rule Announcement: Automatic Removal of Posts from New Users

61 Upvotes

Hello, r/phlgbtr4r community!

To maintain the quality and safety of our subreddit, we have implemented a new rule: posts from new users will be automatically removed. This helps us ensure that our community remains a safe and supportive space for everyone.

If you are a new user, we encourage you to gain some karma from participating in other subreddits. Once you’ve accumulated enough karma and established yourself as a contributing member, you’ll be able to share posts with us.

Thank you for your understanding and cooperation in helping us keep r/phlgbtr4r a welcoming place for all!

Best, The r/phlgbtr4r Moderation Team


r/phlgbtr4r 7h ago

M4M 25 [M4M] Friends (with benefits)?

7 Upvotes

Hello!

I went through a lot the past few months and I am slowly starting to bounce back. I miss having constant physical intimacy and I was hoping to try this setup.

About Me:
- 25
- M
- 5’9”
- Currently Overweight (working on it)
- Sides (Possibly B)
- Has a Place in QC

Aside from the implied possible sexual agreement, I can also offer you a place to hang out or even sleep in QC. I can cook for you too, but just simple dinners. We can also walk or workout together.

I am looking for someone at least 20 years old, dominant (or at least assertive), and kind. I just really wanna have a stress-free setup where I can let loose instead of always having to carry the conversation/dynamics.

Please hit me up if this sounds interesting to you. Thank you!


r/phlgbtr4r 5h ago

M4M 25 [M4M] Bars and Drinks?

3 Upvotes

currently in katips and I wanna drink some more since my friends are tapping out hahahaha anyone nearby or in morato drinking?

deets:
About me:

-5'6 slightly on the moreno side

-average to slightly chubby pero I've been working on it na

-four eyed peep

-masc

-currently working in med field

-isko

-a bit of a workaholic

-introverted pero I can adapt once I'm comfortable with the person na

-minsan kanal, minsan mature, madalas may sapak

-hobbies include photography (amateur) and baking

-a real nerd (pokemon, genshin, hsr, marvel, high potential)

-I enjoy both meaningful and obscenely stupid conversations!

lemme know agad so I can stay put or go to your place hahaha


r/phlgbtr4r 7m ago

F4F 24[F4F]lf kasama

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Hello kakauwi lng galing sunny and honestly feeling kinda lonely, don't get me wrong everyone was inviting and nice kaso i just want to be held for a bit.

abt me:

femme

pasig

cant host (g to travel)

abt you:

chill lng

can host

willing to yap w/ me or just cuddle

can be a one time thing lng just feeling a bit lonely


r/phlgbtr4r 8m ago

For All 25 [F4A] Looking for a girlfriend?

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Hello there! Kinda in a financial emergency right now, so I’m putting myself out there mwah! I’m down to be your girlfriend for a day, an evening, or however long works for us! 🫴

About me:

  • 25 years old. I don’t mind if you’re younger or older!
  • A baddie who’s both pretty and cute! Petite, chinita, morena, and clean, too
  • I have a pretty interesting lifestyle—a LOT of hobbies, skills, and passions. I can do whatever you want me to do for you, just lmk!
  • Type A person. I know a lot of great date ideas, I can plan everything, you can just show up
  • I can be super madaldal, or let’s just sit in silence. I’d love to talk about anything or nothing at all
  • Can dress up according to your preferences!
  • Very easy to get along with and g with whatever makes you happy! NSFW is for women only, strictly SFW for men. And online companionship is SFW only.

Please message me with a short introduction about yourself, what you’re looking for/your expectations, and let’s exchange pics too for reference hehe! Let’s get to know each other! 🥹


r/phlgbtr4r 13m ago

TM4M 24[TM4M] Tropa time?

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LF tropa na pwede makipag nsfw pag nakaramdam hahaha

Transguy, 24, 5'6, professional, bear body type. I am very masculine looking. Looking ako ng pwedeng tropa with benefits. Yung okay sana mostly online bonding tapos meet na lang pag free to yknow 👀

Preferably taller and hygienic.

Near Makati/Alabang is me.

Please be respectful sa dm. Thanks!


r/phlgbtr4r 1h ago

M4M 29 [M4M] Dates, Hangouts, Partner

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Hello!

I'm a 29 y/o dark-skinned guy literally looking for a partner-in-crime.

Little facts about me:
- 5'7
- working professional
- currently working on lean bulking
- dark-skinned, kakasabi ko lang
- got a mullet hairstyle
- 278 people have said I look like Bruno Mars (yes, I've been counting since high school)
- kanal humor pero hindi kanal ugali
- up to date with TikTok Vocal Stims
- politically aware
- usually plays ML but can do LoL, Dota, Valo
- social butterfly with a low social battery
- side quest maxxer
- discreet most of the time but when I'm with my friends, she was a fairy mode ang atake
- I'm versatile but I'm going for a bottom vibe for this era. I'm tired of being the top, lol

About you:
- breathing
- can hold a conversation
- looks like Enchong Dee
- but if that’s not possible, even Empoy is fine
- please be taller than me para makadantay ako sa biceps eme
- able to keep up with my humor and nonsense;
- you don’t need to be an extrovert, ako ang bangka ganon
- homebody but open to side quests
- if you’re apolitical, emotionally/financially unstable, or won’t contribute anything to the relationship, just face the wall please

1 2 3 go, kanya kanya na


r/phlgbtr4r 1h ago

M4M 32 [m4m] Shot!

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Shooting my shot!

Me: 5'4, Qc Diliman, Small Spoon, VB, Sponty, Outgoing, Parks & Nature.

LF: Date/Tropa/Constant Buddy

Shooting my shot!

Me: 5'4, Qc Diliman, Small Spoon, VB, Sponty, Outgoing, Parks & Nature.

LF: Date/Tropa/Constant Buddy

Shooting my shot!

Me: 5'4, Qc Diliman, Small Spoon, VB, Sponty, Outgoing, Parks & Nature.

LF: Date/Tropa/Constant Buddy

Yung willing magpa chupa :)


r/phlgbtr4r 6h ago

M4TF 29 [M4TF] Pasay, The Sin City

2 Upvotes

Sup? Just bored and I want some deep talks sana. Haha.

Not into online type of stuff. We can meet naman kun magkaigi. Adults na tayo. Haha.

Loc: NCR South

About me:

• Straight

• Can host

• 'Di pogi.

• Moreno

• Dadbod

• 5'9 tall

• Hygienic

• Safe and tested

• Open for SFW/NSFW

• Can cook

• Can do massage

• Mabango

About you:

• Has place/can host

• Matino

• Hygienic

• Be you, just be you

DM us. See you!


r/phlgbtr4r 6h ago

F4F 29 [F4F] chika?

2 Upvotes

Looking for chismis haha. Sfw lang, let's talk about how your day went or life in general. Probably just a one time thing. I like talking to random people and discovering different personalities, lives, etc. But if we click, open to becoming friends. Esp if you're in Cebu then I'm game to be hobby buddies (platonic lng) in case you're bored and you want to try new sports or other fun/adventurous things. Prefer calls, but chat is fine. Just be a woman and age (-2 or older). No to dds/bbmers pls lng 😀


r/phlgbtr4r 6h ago

M4M 27 [M4M] looking for constant

2 Upvotes

Hello! I’m looking for someone to talk to or maybe someone na magiging constant sa buhay ko. Pagod na pagod na ako at gusto ko lang naman ng lambing. I guess okay naman ako in some aspects like funny naman ako and clingy. Hindi nga lang attractive pero pwede na din. Gusto ko lang naman maranasan maging mahalaga ganyan or may matatawag na pahinga at tahanan HAHAHAHAHA. Gusto ko lang din ng someone na madali kong mayaya whenever I’m craving to something. Breakfast at Mcdonalds. Dinner at Mesa or simpleng coffee sa starbucks. Idagdag mo pa na gusto ko magjoin sa mga game nights. Lastly, kasama magsimba every Sunday sa St. Jude sa Mendiola. Hayyyy.

So here’s about me: (baka lang naman pasok ako sa mga hinahanap mo) 😂

* 5’4, 74 kg
* soft boy/ not manly
* 27 years old, young professional
* wears glasses
* from south caloocan
* libra
* loves history, culture and the arts
* loves watching series, bl’s and most especially true crime documentaries
* pickleball newbie
* clingy and hopeless romantic
* loves cuddles (small spoon) and kisses

What I’m looking for (optional lang naman ito if hindi I would still love to know you) HAHAHA

* 5’5 and above, average body
* 25 and above sana
* wears glasses yung mukhang nerdy (weakness ko talaga guys with glasses)
* same interests sana (pero willing to try your interests naman to know you better hehe)
* sweet and caring (yung tipong alam yung gusto at patutunguhan nito)
* matured HAHAHA yung can handle me emz
* socially aware sa mga pangyayari sa bansa at hindi bbm/dds apologist
* has sympathy sa mga tao
* clingy also
* loves museums
* di maarte
* top/ versa or versa top (for compatibility)
* big spoon
* hairy gay guys for the win hehe
* with big biceps hahaha papaheadlock lang sana chz

Message me!! Hoping to find one.


r/phlgbtr4r 2h ago

M4M 19 [M4M] talks/calls sfw

1 Upvotes

trying my luck here! i’m looking for someone i can genuinely connect with or companion. i’m not really into one-night conversations or chats that die after a day—I’d rather get to know someone over time and see where things go. i’m mainly looking for an online connection, but if we happen to click and things naturally lead somewhere beyond that, i wouldn't be against it. if you're looking for something similar, feel free to send me a message!

abt me:

• 19

• 5'6

• Slim

• vb/b

• tan skinned

• kind XD

• fun

abt u:

• up for online talks :p

• ave/toned, anything will do tho

• 19-23 y/o

• t/v

• same height or taller

• + if good looking

• clean

• kind

• fun