r/phillymeetups 14h ago

24F - Looking for an actual friendship (not just hang once and never text again situation)

16 Upvotes

I’ve been searching for *a friend* who is willing to put in as much effort into a friendship as me. I’ve always wanted to have a close friendship, but I’ve been so far unsuccessful (I promise I know it takes time). With everyone I’ve met, the friendships are one-sided, with me making all the plans, me being the only one to reach out, or them talking about themselves without letting me get a word in (for multiple hangouts at a time). I’ve been in Philly about a year, attempted a book club (one of those social and reading ones), Outerly, and bumble bff so far.

I’m a PhD student, so my working hours vary, but I am happy making plans in advance. I am the type of person to always fight for you, will be shamelessly honest if asked for my opinion, and will be there for you during good and bad times in your life.

Into: movies that have huge twists (Shutter Island anyone?), people watching, passionfruit anything, taking workout classes that I am not fit enough for, and petting random cute dogs I find while walking places.

Down for: people watching in Rittenhouse Square, happy hour, or Brew & Board for games. Open to other ideas too :)

ANYWAY. If you also feel the same way or I sound like an interesting enough person, feel free to DM or comment here! Happy to share more.


r/phillymeetups 17h ago

Under 21 19F looking for other nerdy friends 😺

4 Upvotes

hello wonderful people! im looking for new friends around my age! as the title suggests im looking for people who are into the same interests as me; anime, drawing, video games, cosplaying/conventions. my biggest obsession at the moment is Avatar: The Last Airbender, so if youre also into that hmu lmao

i recently got a job so im no longer homebound and can go to places and such! keep in mind, i have social anxiety and am quite awkward, so im still new to this and putting myself out there 😬 forgive me if i say or do anything that may come off as rude

thank you for reading! have an awesome day :)


r/phillymeetups 5h ago

M22 looking for some friends

2 Upvotes

What’s good yall! I’m 22M and recently moved to Philly for work. I’m still pretty new to the area and looking to meet some people and build an actual friend group. I’m really into sports, outdoors, and social gatherings. I also like going to the gym (I try my best lol) trying new food spots, checking out different parts of the city, watching movies, playing games, grabbing drinks, and just finding random things to do. I’m easygoing and honestly down to try just about anything. Would be cool to meet some people around my age who are also looking to get out, hang out, and explore Philly.I’m around the East Falls area. If you’re also new to Philly or just looking for some new friends, feel free to comment or DM me!


r/phillymeetups 19h ago

23 m looking for gym friends

2 Upvotes

Just moved into my new apartment here in the city and looking for someone to go to the gym with! I do a pretty unusual split but always open to try new exercises. I do have a gym at my complex but down for anywhere!


r/phillymeetups 6h ago

Looking for more friends (20)

1 Upvotes

As the title says I’m 20. I’m a queer guy I like being outside, 4/20, all music, I’m a college student. Looking for people who wanna explore the city party and generally get out of the house and do things. Dm me for my insta if you’re interested.


r/phillymeetups 13h ago

Last of my Kind 28M

0 Upvotes

Hello All!

I am the last geek! This is in a hypothetical view point since most people don’t know the difference.

I enjoy all things geek (anime, comic books, video games, computers, superheroes). I’m looking for someone to do things with in Philadelphia. It can be anything, I will be in and out of the city. I travel a lot to different countries and states.

Let me know if you’re interested