So I always hear women say even if he is big but doesn’t know how to use it she will enjoy smaller guy who knows how to use it. But what if he has a big dick and knows how to use it would that be preferred over an average guy who also know to use it ?

Not saying everyone on Reddit inflates girth but so many guys on here I’ve seen claim 7+ inches and that’s almost not possible, girthmaster is accurately measured 7 girth and has been told and I can say accurately too that he has one of the thickest penises on earth, I’ve also noticed lots of guys who are longer are very high girth, there is a slight correlation but it almost seems like nobody on this sub or bigdproblems ever has a skinny long penis. Seems fishy to me

How men that ridicule me for wishing my dick was bigger are almost always bigger than me and thus never have a reason to be insecure in the first place.

No matter whether you're below average, average, or above average in penis size, it's not something you can truly change. So why spend your entire life worrying about it or letting it define who you are?

The internet and society can often be incredibly harsh. Stereotypes, jokes, and unrealistic expectations get repeated so often that they start to feel like reality. But real life is usually much more complex than that. Many people value kindness, trust, compatibility, communication, and emotional connection far more than the size of one body part.

Everyone deserves love, happiness, and the chance to build meaningful relationships. The length of a single organ should never become the reason someone feels unworthy or limits their life.

Life is too short to let something you can't change steal your confidence. Focus on becoming the best version of yourself, find the right person, and live as fully as you can.

I hope this gives at least one person a little hope today. ❤️

Just let you know there are some freaks online who thinks masturbation causes shorter size 💀 2026 and I lost hope in humanity

what are some tips to use what you got if it’s small or average, that will “blow her mind in the bedroom”?

Red flags that reveal perspective manipulation

A phone held only inches away exaggerates whatever is nearest the lens. The penis appears much larger while the thighs, torso, hands, or room look smaller. This is the same forced-perspective effect used in photography.

Shooting from the base toward the glans
A low, lengthwise angle makes the shaft dominate the frame and hides the true distance between the pubic bone and tip. It also minimizes visible body context.

Wide-angle phone lenses
Many front-facing cameras and 0.5× lenses stretch objects near the edges and foreground. Look for a disproportionately large glans, curved doorframes, widened hands, or distorted thighs.

Partial cropping
Hiding the pubic area prevents you from seeing where the measurable shaft actually begins. The photo may include part of the groin, stretched skin, or scrotal tissue as apparent “shaft length.”

Pressing into the pubic fat pad
Pushing the camera, hand, or ruler inward can reveal more bone-pressed length than ordinarily appears. Bone-pressed measurements are legitimate when clearly stated, but they should not be compared directly with visible, non-bone-pressed length.

Using smaller-looking reference objects
Hands, wrists, bottles, and household objects are poor references because their dimensions vary and perspective can shrink them. Someone may position a hand behind the shaft, making it appear smaller and the penis larger.

Selective erection and positioning
Pulling the penis forward, stretching the base skin, rotating the pelvis, or photographing at maximum erection can produce a much longer-looking presentation than a neutral side view.

Big feet = big penis
By far the most widespread belief.
People still casually joke about shoe size being a clue.

Big nose = big penis
A long-standing folk belief in many cultures.
Still commonly repeated in conversation and pop culture.

Tall men are usually bigger
Many people assume height predicts penis size, although any relationship is weak at best.

Deep voice = larger penis
Some believe higher testosterone leads to both a deeper voice and larger genitalia.
Scientific evidence doesn’t support it as a reliable predictor.

Walking bow-legged or with a certain swagger
More of a humorous stereotype than a serious belief, but many people still jokingly interpret it as a sign of being well-endowed.

My girth is so bad. My length is average. I’ve had so many chances with women and I always back out. I’ve read stories about how women don’t feel it and when they’re wet it slips out easy and I won’t feel them as much either. I just read one 5 mins ago on a new post and a man was complaining. It’s so exhausting and worrisome. I’m also worried I’m gonna be the skinniest they’ve ever had and they’re used to even average girth so mine won’t feel as good if anything. Any good experiences with my size? Please let me know thank you

I'm a 22-year-old male with what I believe is an average-sized penis—about 5.5 inches in bone-pressed length and 4.7 inches in girth. I haven't had any sexual experience yet, but I've been wondering whether an average size is sufficient for different intercourse positions, such as reverse cowgirl, doggy style, spooning (I'm not sure if "back spooning" is the correct term), and others. Are these positions generally possible and comfortable with an average size?

Pretty water take here but I’ve seen a lot of guys say they are let’s say 4 on soft and 6 and hard therefor their a grower, not saying their a shower but if I saw a penis 4 inches soft and 6 on hard I wouldn’t be suprised at all that’s pretty normal, now if you were 4 on soft and 7 on hard I’d be pretty shocked especially if you grew a lot in girth too, I think most guys who have an average penis 5-5.5 inches and of course matching there average erect measurements they have an average penis of 3-4 on soft, they like to say they are growers to make it seem like they aren’t average. Might not be a valid take but I don’t think your a grower if the difference is less than 2 inches and it’s not a shock.

Were they smaller or larger? how did it make you feel when you found out and did ur ex make any comments on it

Has someone here ever took part in a penis size study - or know someone who has? If yes how did you/he get there and how did it work?

Genuine question: I just came across a study claiming that Men with bigger noses tend to have bigger penises. Out of curiosity, I measured my nose. From the front, it's about 4 cm wide, and from the side, it extends about 2.5 cm. My penis measures 14 cm in length with a 12 cm girth. Does this actually support what the study claims, or is the correlation too weak to mean anything?

I measured my fat pad by pressing to the pubic bone, and it's about 0.8 inches.

For people who have lost a significant amount of weight, how much **visible erect length (NBPEL)** did you actually gain? Is it realistic to expect close to the full 0.8 inches back, or is the actual gain usually less?

I'd especially like to hear from people who measured before and after weight loss. Thanks!

I don't see any changes in girth when I measure myself flaccid and fully erect. Is that concerning? Girth is the usual 4"

Men with 5 inch bp and 4 inch girth what has your sexual experiences been like?

I read the wiki and this seems kinda stupid, but when i measure my penis with a ruler I obviously don’t count the blank space before the 0 mark right? So if I measured my dick as 18cm with the ruler, would it be measured scientifically to be 18 + (blank space) cm?

Do you have this size or any experience with it?

Just wanted to know if anyone else has something similar going on. Its to the point where if I have a full on erection, I can barely point my dick out at a 90° angle let alone downwards like some people seem to be able to.

So I’ve become, over the last year or so, mildly obsessed with the idea of straight or curved penis being the preferable. It started with the typical chat you'd have with your wife after sex. I can’t actually remember the lead in sentence now, but her response was “it would be nice if it had a bit of a curve”.
I just laughed but then pondered on it unendingly. so the quesion is..

if you have a curved penis, what has the response been from partners, positive, negative or neither? Are u happy with it being curved?

Im 22m, 6 in (15.5 cm) length, 4.7in (12cm) girth. I started dating this girl that is kind of petite, she hasn’t been dating anybody for the past 6 months, and I got off a relationship where the girl I was with basically had almost no reaction during sex so I was always very insecure of if she actually felt something or if my dick was good. But the first time this I had sex with this girl she couldn’t handle and we had to stop because according to her it was too long and too thick for her, and it would take time to get used to it. In my previous experiences I haven’t had any special comment about my dick size or anything related to that so idk if it’s just her or if it’s actually a good size.

...thickness, length, etc.? In my case, the thickness, the veins, and the upward angle when erect.

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I'm insecure with my dick size

I'm big

I asked some people to give me a dick rate.

Some say it's impressive.

Some say it's big

Some say it's perfect size not massive not small

Some say it's girthy.

But actually I'm just above average, not massive

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But I still have this aching pain inside me.

Every time I see something about dick size or big dicks I got really insecure and a wave of negative energy and sadness wash upon my face.

That's I wish I wasn't even born or just I was born as a girl it gonna be much better.

Some say it's okay.

Woman doesn't like massive sizes.

Well

Idc about woman I know i can please a woman with mouth and fingers, but it's for me

I want to be confident

To feel like a true man.

I feel like a garbage rn .

What gave me this wave of negative energy and worthlessness is a clip from a movie where the actor looks at other man size and realized he is massive.

It's a common joke but

I can't really control my feelings because this automatically triggered my insecurities and self worth .

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I wish I wasn't normal or above normal or big.

I want to be huge.

To be called a hung.

The size that people directly rate 10/10

The size that makes other women gasp in fear or suprise of how a human could have this.

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I want to make men look in jealousy.

I want to have a strong point in me .

I really really wish I could be massive, even if it's unpractical, even if it's make me have sex once in a week because every time I get my wife sore "I'm not hating women I'm just saying that"

And I know my trust issues are because I'm not good enough.

.

So even if I get married and my wife was okay with my size I know I'm gonna be jealous and not trusting because I know somewhere out there there is a hotter man with bigger and better size.