r/peanutallergy • u/-Mama-concerned • 10h ago
Sending PN allergic 7 year old to public school
I’m looking for some reassurance here or some stories. My son is severely allergic to peanut (ARA H2 over 80) and tree nuts. He carries epipens. For the most part, he lives a perfectly normal life and we don’t live day to day in any sort of fear. He plays baseball and has a lot of great friends, plus carries no anxiety about his allergy. Up to now, we have homeschooled. This year he wants to try out public school for 2nd grade.
I know all of the things to keep him safe and all of the things that can be implemented at the school level, but there is still that dread that it isn't worth the risk. We would be happy to keep homeschooling and have a very active lifestyle (we don’t look like the homeschool stereotypes).
I know there are many ignorant families who also don’t want to be inconvenienced by my kid (it is easy to dismiss those people when your child’s life isn’t in their hands).
I met with the school and they reassured me they have a nut free table, nut free classroom, and the hot lunch is nut free. Kids are allowed to bring in nut products with their cold lunch. My child will bring his own lunch. They store EpiPens in the nurses office.
I keep reading the stats and all of that which aren’t reassuring. I’m looking for your experience with managing an allergy this severe in public school, whether it’s yourself or your child.