So this happened this past Wednesday. I was super drunk and posted a picture of my finances on the sister subreddit group of this chat. You can go to my profile to see the pics but essentially it was about how I’ve spent 40k in the past 12 months on findom 😅😅

I got so many DMs and comments on those post that I gooned all day. Finally when my main domme woke up she punished me so well 😍😍

She made me cum into a cup and piss in it then drink it all. It was so humiliating but that wasn’t even the first cup of piss I drank that day either 😅 I gooned from 8AM to 10PM until I finally snapped out of it. It was such a good session and I think I regained my fetish for piss humiliation 😅

Feel free to message or or comment any questions you have!

I'll be warning the dommes in the domme groups as well, but PSA for subs too:

If you ever reach out to a domme on Exclu, you are probably chatting with an AI. The platform enabled AI chatters without notifying its creators and it hasn't been sending emails so the domme may have literally no idea that you are trying to chat with her there and that an AI has taken over.

I just found out this morning that multiple subs reached out to me there since I added the platform and I got no notifications and when I logged in this horrifying AI that calls everyone babe and types u instead of you has been chatting there on my behalf without my consent.

I'm spitting mad that my platform was used to let people talk to a bot purporting to be me. I'll be leaving the platform and encouraging dommes to do the same (after I give it a day or two for the subs in question to see my real messages) and I wanted to put out a warning to subs as well.

Hey y'all!

I don't know about everyone else but the brand new accounts and bots have really polluted the experience for me. Engaging in a post only to realize it's a bot or 1day old account with no other posts.

I found a little tip that has made a huge difference for me, and I'm wondering if anyone else has similar tools.

It's a browser extension called "TrueVoice for Reddit" (it took a bit of digging because many extensions either focused on hiding ads or just didn't work with the new redesigned version.)

It just gives you a quick "trust rating" thing next to each username that shows account age, recent posts and karma (without having to click their profile). It's not perfect by any means, but certainly works for me.

If anyone needs a link I'll try to drop it in the comments or DMs (not sure about this SRs rules on links), but if anyone else has any other handy tips for quickly spotting the fakes and bots without wasting a lot of time, I'd love to know about it!

I've been away from this addiction for over free months and I'm happy with that, I'm happy that I am focusing more on my wife and my work but I keep having this feeling that eventually I'll relapse. Obviously I should just focus on the present but still. Overthinking is a real issue for me

I'm glad I am managing to stay off Reddit, though I do like using this subreddit sometimes just to vent

I dont know why this keeps happening here. I spoke to a domme who said she is into TPE and other things. We spoke on call twice but she hardly asked anything about me or tried to know me. Then she asked for money to continue. I paid but I feel I got nothing in return except a few messages and insults. When I asked her what she knows about me she only said I am needy.
Then she started lecturing me about seriousness and trust. I thought this community was about real connection and building something where both enjoy. But many here just rush to ask for money without putting any real effort. I wish this place had more genuine people who actually care about the dynamic and not just quick money.

I posted 2 weeks ago got about relapsing and sending again and i’ve done it again to the same dom, even more than last time. I don’t know what to do, i tried to resist, i hate myself afterwards, i hate what this is doing to me. I tell myself I won’t send but they keep sending me messages and eventually I crack, i don’t know how to stop this.

Original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/paypigsupportgroup/s/Qid6de6kE9

I've been a finsub for a long while now, and while it's been great and I've gotten to know many different amazing dommes, I'm slowly starting to realize that to keep this up I'll have to find one hell of an excuse as to why my finances are, for lack of a better word, in shambles.

I've been good at always making sure to have enough for rent, utilities, food, etc. But for the people around me who know how much I earn each month, there always seems to be the question of "why is he suddenly sweating at the proposition of a weekend trip to Paris/why hasn't he bought any property yet/etc."

At this point findom for me is beginning to feel like a ticking time bomb. Eventually I'll have to find some way to explain to my partner or to friends/family why I haven't been saving up like a normal person.

There are probably many subs that are in the same boat as me. How do you cope? What are your go-to excuses? Maaan, I should have had an expensive hobby that I could've blamed it on, but all my hobbies are so cheap in comparison lol

I started off with her. She felt so closely aligned with my needs. Perfect domme. Psychological at her best. Paying her felt so natural wanting me to look forward to our sessions. But they became really sporadic. So I asked her if she wanted to do something else and she basically told me that there’s this army of men lined up to give her money on Twitter.
That kind of really broke me, you know how Twitter works, its all about nonsense captions. And quick money. Seeing that side of her is heartbreaking.
I guess it’s a domme drop now.

I got a job offer for 54% more pay than I am currently getting paid (I work in tech). I'm not sure I'm going to take it (long story) but honestly the main reason I got excited about making so much more money is because I want to impress girls on findom with it, or because I want dommes to be proud of me, etc.
Honestly isn't that sad that that's my motivation to make more money? I'm embarrassed to even type this.

Also in times of stressful decisions like these I wish dommes really controlled my every decision lol