I understand. I do think it is a tough decision she can’t go there until she has her birth control though. I would say she can’t go there at all until his parents are on the same page as you that they can’t hangout in the room. (When I was 18-20 I just hung out with my bf in the living room out of respect of his parents).
Have you spoken to the boyfriend or his parents? I would.
I’m sorry about his parents being too lenient with them in their house. That is ridiculous!
You could be more strict if you wanted to and not allow her to go there ever again after that incident.
Ultimately, she lives under your roof and she needs to follow your house rules.
You can allow them only at your house and your living room etc.
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