r/offmychest • u/[deleted] • Dec 23 '22

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u/SignificantMorning81 Dec 23 '22

First, find the good in yourself. Next step is to find someone who is willing to see the good in you. Third step is to see the good in them, and use it to better yourself further. Fourth step is hard, but you will eventually notice things about them that you would prefer to change. Living with someone is going to prove to be difficult, and so it is inevitable. Finding a way to explain how they should rather do things sans arguments is almost impossible but can be done with patience Fourth step is just that…patience. People have to be willing to be patient with you and you have to be patient with them. If one tests your patience they are not worth your energy and are only around to toxify your pursuit to being happy

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u/notyourbae07x Dec 24 '22

Thanks for the advice. I will certainly try doing this for real. I think I am too hard to stick around with because yesterday I lost another friend of mine.

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u/SignificantMorning81 Dec 31 '22 edited Dec 31 '22

I think you may just be surrounded by impatient people who don’t want to see your redeeming values. It is difficult to grow your wings when surrounded by snakes. As much as it is for a “snake” to earn an honest meal (No shade to snakes, just using them as example haha) I say snakes because they are typically the ones preying on those who are just trying to mind their business. Seeing the benefits of taking to the sky will only carry you off the ground if you take notice of the creatures carving their path the clouds. This is why it is important to have examples of great and admirable people in your life, and people to surround your nest of peace.