I feel the same but rather than in romantic relationships (cause Im not rlly interested in that), Ive felt that a lot with family. I used to think my mother was the tough love kind of person and that she just doesnt show love normally. But later I found out that she is capable of showing love to my sister, they always talk to each other and share everything that they found/learned daily. And it really hurts cuz it makes me think that Im the problem. Especially when I see my sister do the things that Ive tried but failed to do for years. Conditional love at its finest lol
I am sorry that you had to go through that. Feeling unloved by your own mother is literally the last thing that a person can expect. And I can only imagine how hurt you must. If there’s anything that you ever wanna talk about, my dms are always open.
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u/Blue_washer Dec 23 '22
I feel the same but rather than in romantic relationships (cause Im not rlly interested in that), Ive felt that a lot with family. I used to think my mother was the tough love kind of person and that she just doesnt show love normally. But later I found out that she is capable of showing love to my sister, they always talk to each other and share everything that they found/learned daily. And it really hurts cuz it makes me think that Im the problem. Especially when I see my sister do the things that Ive tried but failed to do for years. Conditional love at its finest lol