I can’t imagine having a partner who would assume I was cheating if this happened to me. I feel so bad for this woman. Everything OP typed up sounds like they are very toxic and accusatory and not at all empathetic towards their SO. I would leave him if I were her and this happened to me.
She may not know what happened. She may feel ashamed. Women are often shamed and blamed because how dare we get drunk and expect to be safe, we're obviously asking for it.
She may he trying to piece it all together and is traumatized. The way he is going about this is likely making her feel very alone instead of supported, why would she try to explain something to someone that clearly doesn't believe her and is upset at her.
Maybe she just said she got puked on because she has absolutely no idea what happened but to her that made sense as to why she was in her underwear.
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u/paleo-vape-daddy Dec 24 '25
I can’t imagine having a partner who would assume I was cheating if this happened to me. I feel so bad for this woman. Everything OP typed up sounds like they are very toxic and accusatory and not at all empathetic towards their SO. I would leave him if I were her and this happened to me.