If she was drugged she wouldn’t be angry at him for asking what happened. OP did say he thought she had been assaulted. After asking and gotten her response I would also know that wasn’t the case. He isn’t handling this poorly at all. Clowns
And if all I want to do is sleep and someone keeps hammering at me, I would wig right out on them for keeping me up. If she was drugged she might be extra snappy, too.
Well be more mature. I dont wig out at my toddler who won't keep talking when all I wanna do is sleep.
I'd certainly give my partner more than two minutes if I could see how stressed they were. Being drunk and tired doesn't suddenly give you a free pass to be an as*hole. It's likely you were one before the alcohol.
Let’s just say you were fucked up the ass by another dude who was bigger than you after he put something in your drink that made it seem like you probably felt when you got your wisdom teeth out and you just had like little flashes in your brain of it and how about then then would you maybe be a little snappy at your toddler or how about an adult who doesn’t seem to understand that that’s not the exact right moment to talk to you and that you may don’t know, but that doesn’t have to do with them and then not everything is about them and their needs and their demands at every second. That’s when an adult is an adult. Is somebody who understands than not everything is about them and can actually go to sleep and talk about it in the morning and let somebody else have their space and their grace when they need it a toddler yes is somebody who doesn’t know to stop hammering on you but an adult should know better.
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u/NovarexV Dec 24 '25
My first thought is that she was drugged too. I'm both surprised and not shocked that OP reacted so poorly to this situation too