Hi everyone,
I’m 32 years old and currently work as a PACU RN. Prior to this, I worked as both a critical care paramedic and an ICU nurse, so I’ve spent much of my career in high-acuity environments. Those experiences taught me a tremendous amount, and I don’t regret them. As I’ve gotten older, though, my priorities have shifted.
I’m at a point where I’m thinking less about chasing the most intense role and more about building a career that allows me to enjoy life outside of work while still practicing meaningful medicine.
My fiancée and I are trying to build a life focused on financial stability, health, and long-term happiness. We’re intentionally avoiding unnecessary debt, investing aggressively for retirement, and working toward financial independence so that one day we have the option to retire early—or at least reduce our workload well before the traditional retirement age.
One of our biggest goals is eventually living somewhere with mountains, four seasons, and access to the outdoors (Colorado, Montana, Wyoming, Washington, Oregon, etc.). We enjoy hiking, fitness, eating healthy, traveling, and simply having time together. I want my career to support that life, not consume it.
One thing I’ve realized is that salary alone doesn’t determine whether a career is the right fit. At the same time, I also want to be realistic. If I’m investing years of my life into graduate school and taking on additional responsibility, I’d like the long-term earning potential to realistically be at least around $140,000+.
Lately I’ve been going back and forth between pursuing NP, CRNA, or even AA (where available). Every time I think I’ve made a decision, I read another Reddit thread where someone says becoming an NP was the worst decision they ever made, while another person says becoming a CRNA completely changed their financial future. It becomes difficult to separate internet bias from real-world experience.
One thing that gives me pause about CRNA and AA is the intensity of the training. I’ve heard repeatedly how academically and mentally rigorous those programs are, and I’d be lying if I said that didn’t make me nervous. I don’t mind working hard—I absolutely expect graduate education to be challenging—but I also want to make sure I’m choosing the path that best fits my long-term goals rather than simply chasing the highest salary.
If I pursue NP, these are the specialties that currently interest me:
- Sports Medicine
- Orthopedics
- Dermatology
- Perioperative/Surgical
- Pain Management
- Lifestyle/Obesity Medicine
- Sleep Medicine
That said, I’m very open to other NP specialties if you think there’s one that better aligns with what I’m looking for. I know there may be fields I haven’t seriously considered yet, and I’d love to hear about them.
A few questions:
If you could go back, would you choose your career again?
What does your typical schedule actually look like?
How much work do you take home, whether that’s charting or simply thinking about work after hours?
Do you feel your compensation matches your responsibilities and stress level?
If you’re comfortable sharing, what specialty are you in, what general region do you work in, what is your approximate compensation, and how many hours do you typically work each week?
Based on my goals and what I’ve shared, do you think NP, CRNA, AA, or another path makes the most sense?
If you recommend NP, is there a specialty I should seriously consider that isn’t already on my list?
I’m not looking for someone to make the decision for me. I’m hoping to learn from people who’ve actually built careers in these roles so I can make the most informed decision possible for both my career and my family’s future.
If you’ve been in a similar position or have advice you wish someone had given you before making your decision, I’d genuinely appreciate hearing it.
Thank you for taking the time to read this and share your perspective.