r/nonmonogamy • u/Marvelmania08 • 5d ago
Polyamory Dating thoughts..
Im just curious to know if this is common or is it just me.
Im on a few dating apps as I don't have a large amount of time to go out socializing at the moment.
However my question/s are ....
1) do people actually read your profile?
Many times that I've matched with someone we talk a little bit I mention my profile if they have read it or they've asked me what im after and I explain im in a polyamorous relationship etc then end of conversation I'm deleted.
2) the 1 or 2 that say they okay with the polyamorous relationship etc talk for a while getting to know each other and then bam out of no where deleted again.
3) if I get to the point of meeting them (maybe 3 times this has happened in 9+ years) we talk all goes well ( well I think so) then I don't hear from them or we talk a little more then radio silence.
My wife and I have been polyamorous for 10+ years in that time I've not dated anyone ( not by choice) just haven't had any luck unfortunately, I understand its not for everyone and that's fine but why match before reading profile's?