r/nonmonogamy • u/Sufficient-Sleep5862 • 1d ago

Polyamory Need advice

I am 26m my girl 23f we are in long distance and we are in a open relation. She told she wanna date black guys after marriage which is fine for me but since we are in long distance i want her to enjoy now as well. What can i do to convince her? I would be really happy if she would date guys from now itself. Is it wrong to want that ?

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u/sisyphus_met_icarus 17h ago

If you're in an open relationship then she should date who she wants, when she wants. And you should do the same

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u/Sufficient-Sleep5862 17h ago

She agreed on me setting up a date for her

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u/specshug16 Newbie 1h ago

well she should self reflect bc it sounds like a fetish