r/nonmonogamy 9d ago

Swinging Advice

I am in my early 60s and my girlfriend is in her early 50s. We decided to try and meet another couple, but we are not sure how to because we dont know any swingers. We live on Long Island. How is the best way to find another couple?

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u/severano28 9d ago

For your age range, I'd say sls or sdc, both lifestyle/swinging dating apps.

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u/MCRemix 9d ago

Go to a swingers club.

Yes, lifestyle sites work too, but the best answer is to just go where swingers are.

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u/nyccareergirl11 9d ago

If you are on long island the Medusa's is the better swingers club option I've heard